About author:Yao Linbao, male, Han nationality, born in May 1960, from Huzhou City, Zhejiang Province, enlisted in the 10th Regiment of the 2nd Division of the Railway Corps in December 1978, pen name: Ning Si. He is a member of the Chinese Essayist Association, a member of the Zhejiang Writers Association, a member of the Zhejiang Prose Literature Association, a member of the Huzhou Writers Association and a member of the Huzhou Literature Research Association. He has successively served as the director of the Huzhou Literature Research Association, the president of the Literary Society of the Federation of Literary and Art Circles of Shanlian Town, Nanxun District, and the editor of the magazines "Railway Soldier Culture Network" and "Huzhou Elderly Education". He is the author of the essay "Impression Years" and co-author of "Twelve Prose Nanxun Albums".
Spring Tide (7)
Text/Yao Linbao (Zhejiang)
In real life, talking about money is not vulgar, but the most practical topic. Modern people value money more and more, and this is also because money is becoming more and more important in our lives. We need money to fulfill our desires, whether it's food, clothing, shelter or anything else, and the lack of money can make life difficult.
Money can have a huge impact on life, whether you have it or not. But more importantly, money affects a person's perception, mind, and mindset. Therefore, money is not only about material change, but also about internal change.
After making money, Zhaochun became more confident, and no longer cared about other people's comments, but more about his own happiness. However, he was also a little proud and inflated, and his life became a little extravagant and no longer simple. The change drew some criticism, with some saying he had become drifting. Zhaochun thought to himself: It's really nonsense. Who doesn't want to live a good life?
The "Big Brother" mobile phone was a fashionable luxury item of that era, which was not only convenient for calls, but also showed its status and became a must-have item for the rich.
I heard that Zhaochun did something with an unparalleled aura, took out more than 200,000 cash from the bank and generously bought 5 "big brother" mobile phones, and paid for three months' phone bills, and then gave away four of them, as for who he gave it to, we can't know.
Such a move shows Zhaochun's generosity and generosity, which is impressive.
Socializing is essentially a process of value exchange. When a person has no value in their own right, there is no substantial benefit in meeting anyone. And once an individual has a certain value, friends who are willing to make friends will naturally emerge. This is often how social life is straightforward and realistic.
Today he earns his own money, and if it weren't for the help and support of his friends, he wouldn't have this opportunity to earn this money. Therefore, he is happy to share his wealth with his friends and believes that money can be shared with friends, because the support and help of friends is invaluable.
He firmly believes that sharing his wealth will make friendships stronger and lead to more joy and wonderful life experiences. At the same time, it will bring you unexpected gains.
Zhaochun often drinks and drinks tea with Liu Weihong, Zhang Aijun and Qian Dayong, and is also willing to get along with them. It's like entering the room of Zhilan, and you have benefited a lot from it.
As a core member of the team, Liu Weihong likes this young man from the countryside Zhaochun very much. He thinks Zhaochun has good qualities: self-motivated, simple, sincere, optimistic, and kind character; Able to bear hardships and stand hard work, and work steadfastly; Have a very deep thinking and insight into life; You will not be bound by money, nor will you hurt others to get money.
In general, Liu Weihong believes that Zhaochun is a very outstanding young man, who has both good moral character and positive and enterprising spirit, has a deep thinking about life, and has the ability to deal with money. He believes that such people are worth reusing and cultivating in the team.
Of course, Zhaochun appreciates and likes Liu Weihong very much. Liu Weihong has rich industry experience and management skills, and can handle various jobs and interpersonal relationships well; Enthusiastic and straightforward, old and sophisticated, but open-minded, able to face any difficulties calmly, never give up easily; There is a good evaluation of "open-minded and bold" in the industry. He has entered the age of "knowing the destiny of heaven", and cherishes his achievements very much, and at the same time cherishes the friendships around him. After getting along for a long time, it is easy to be attracted by Liu Weihong's peaceful and confident temperament.
Zhang Aijun and Qian Dayong each have their own strengths and represent different areas of expertise and skills. Zhang Aijun is good at administrative management, good at dealing with complex problems, and has rich experience in project management. Qian Dayong specializes in marketing, business development or strategic planning, and he has a keen market insight and a unique insight into marketing strategies.
In short, they are experienced and experienced, and they show a unique style.
As planned, everyone got together on weekend nights. Before the meal, everyone talked casually and the atmosphere was very casual, which was different from other dinners. Liu Weihong wears black-framed square mirrors, a big back, a plain shirt, black straight-leg pants and leather shoes, and the watch on his left hand is a Shanghai brand, sitting firmly in the main seat. Zhang Aijun kept an inch of hair, a black and white plaid casual shirt, military pants and liberation shoes, and the watch was the same as Liu Weihong, sitting on Liu Weihong's left side, looking comfortable. Qian Dayong had a non-mainstream haircut, an olive green sweatshirt, jeans and sandals, and wore a plum blossom watch on his left hand, sitting on Liu Weihong's right side, looking casual. Zhaochun combed a white T-shirt with a pattern of workers, peasants and soldiers, fashionable prince pants and casual shoes, and wore an electronic watch in his left hand, sitting next to Qian Dayong, looking low-key. Their outfits reflect the popular fashion of the 90s, showing off their personalities and styles. Overall, they all look handsome and dashing, in line with the fashion trends of the 90s.
Among the four people, the oldest and oldest is Liu Weihong. It is usually he who dominates the talk. Liu Weihong believes that wine is a man's poem and a man's wings, which can best show a person's true feelings and talents. He quoted a poem to make his point:
"I have a gold bottle who has wine, and the wind blows willows on the Baiyun River. Wild Song drank a thousand glasses of wine and got drunk until September 9 of the next year. Life is just two or two wines, one or two are helpless and one or two are sad. They are all Huangquan reservation guests, so why bother with worries and sorrows. This poem expresses the poet's deep feelings about life, friendship and wine. The poet takes a detached attitude towards life, death and sorrow, reflecting his philosophical reflections on life.
Liu Weihong believes that this poem is a good demonstration of the emotions and creativity that drinking can bring, and is a vivid description of a man's high-spirited attitude towards life.
"Liquid fire, immersed in a state of dreams, changed the trajectory of the world, and shaped countless heroes and ordinary people. It inspires emotion, gives courage, becomes a confidant of literati and magnates, participates in the ups and downs of history, whether it is a luxurious palace or a simple farmhouse, it is inseparable from its company. It is both a beautiful dance and a captivating color, stirring up poetry and challenging the courage of the literati. In different scenes, it plays different roles, sometimes as a warm blessing, sometimes as a vicious secret weapon, and can always play an important role at a critical moment......"
Cooking wine talks about heroes, and there are all kinds of wine in the wine field.
"Taciturn when drunk, able to maintain self-control when drunk and not flare up when wronged, showing the traits of tolerance and trustworthiness; Drunk and happy type, innocent in heart, will not hurt friends, suitable for deep friendship. Instead, it's best to keep your distance......"
Liu Weihong mentioned an article about "wine", but he cleverly avoided the word "wine" and instead let everyone think for themselves. Zhaochun believes that Liu Weihong's words are very ingenious, he did not directly say "wine", but it triggered everyone's thinking and discussion. Liu Weihong talked about the "art of recognizing people after drinking", that is, after people drink, they will become more relaxed and real, revealing emotions and personality traits that are usually hidden. Thus, after drinking, one is able to judge a person's true nature more accurately.
"Observing and understanding the true nature of others requires more patience and care, and conclusions cannot be made simply by their drunken performance. At the same time, it is also necessary to avoid overly matching the words and deeds of alcohol, because the emotions and behaviors of alcohol may be affected by a variety of factors, and a person's personality traits cannot be judged simply by this. We need to be tolerant and understanding of others, rather than jumping to conclusions about others. Liu Weihong added.
"The official opening of the Shanghai Stock Exchange marks a major milestone for China's capital market." Qian Dayong was as excited as Columbus discovered the New World.
"Have you noticed that all kinds of dance halls have sprung up all over the city?" "The young people in bars and karaoke discotheques wear bell bottoms and big wavy heads, which makes people feel very glaring. He expressed displeasure.
Chow Yun-fat, Andy Lau, Stephen Chow, Jackie Chan and other Hong Kong star bosses made the mainland audience fascinated, and several young fans of the company stayed in the video hall last night. Hey, I work during the day and I am listless. Zhaochun mentioned.
"Titanic" pirated disc, my son spent 50 yuan to buy a set." "The market is flooded with videotapes and audio tapes, and even pornographic materials. ”
"Haha, I heard that the three beautiful little girls in the Chengdong Dance Hall were pregnant overnight, and their mother is looking for the father of those children." Zhang Aijun suddenly said a joke, and glanced at Zhaochun meaningfully after speaking. Everyone's eyes were focused on Zhaochun.
"It's not about me." Zhaochun hurriedly explained, almost letting the tea squirt out of his mouth. The box burst into laughter.
Men always get tired of talking about women, but we should treat them with respect, treat everyone equally, and should not treat them as the object of casual comments, let alone treat them in an obscene way.
After drinking three rounds of sake and tasting various dishes, the atmosphere became more relaxed. Zhaochun took the wine glass and began to toast to each friend, with a very sincere attitude, and toasted everyone twice in a row like Shandong people.
At this time, Liu Weihong was like an elderly gentleman, and said implicitly: "Jiujiang is flooded, and enterprises not only donate materials but also money, which reflects the social responsibility of entrepreneurs." Our comrade Zhaochun has a very high consciousness and donated 10,000 yuan. The Municipal Chamber of Commerce needs such a large pattern of private entrepreneurs. ”
Everyone felt that Zhaochun was qualified to fight for a position in the Chamber of Commerce.
Liu Weihong's care and praise made Zhaochun excited. As soon as the words fell, Zhaochun walked up to Liu Weihong with a wine glass and said sincerely: "Thank you Director Liu for your love and support." After speaking, Zhaochun tilted his chin and drank all the wine in the cup.
Liu Weihong could see that this was Zhaochun's heartfelt words, he smiled with relief, and without hesitation, he tilted his neck and drank a drink. Subsequently, Zhaochun saluted Zhang Aijun and Qian Dayong respectively.
At Liu Weihong's suggestion, everyone toasted to each other and played freely. This dinner lasted for more than three hours, and did not stop until the three bottles of 52 degrees Taihu Lake Laojiao bottomed out.
Drinking in moderation is a blessing, but drinking too much can be a curse. Liu Weihong said: "I was already very happy today, so I stopped drinking." This sentence shows that Liu Weihong understands and knows how to control his drinking, and he recognizes the importance of moderation, which is essential to maintain health and avoid alcohol problems.
Then, in a slightly drunken mood, everyone left their seats and went home.
(To be continued)
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