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Preface
Since Chen Kaige and Chen Hong fell in love, it is like being covered with a veil of mystery and has become a hot topic in the entertainment industry. Both are known as the "Golden Boys and Girls", but the stories behind them are far more complex than meets the eye. When these two people come together, people are wondering, do they really love each other, or do they each take what they need? Let's have a good chat today.
This period of rich emotional experience
In fact, Chen Kaige got married at the age of 24, when he was just a small worker in the Beijing Film Printing Factory. He met the architect Sun Jialin, and the two became husband and wife, although her status was much higher than his. This gap made Chen Kaige feel unbalanced, and he secretly made up his mind to improve his status.
With the passage of time, Chen Kaige entered the Beijing Children's Film Studio for further study after graduation through his own efforts. At the same time, Sun Jialin went to Canada for further study, and the two were separated due to work. Although their marriage seems to be harmonious, it has long since existed in name only.
However, at Sun Jialin's insistence, the relationship did not end quickly. It wasn't until Chen Kaige was 32 years old that he finally became famous with the movie "Yellow Earth" and became a high-profile director. As the work was well received by the audience, Chen Kaige's fame also quickly emerged in the circle. Seeing that her husband's career has improved, Sun Jialin is naturally gratified by this.
However, with the boom in their careers and the challenges of their long-distance romance, the two eventually chose to end their relationship. After the breakup, Chen Kaige did not stop pursuing love, and he quickly attracted the attention of Hong Huang, a "wealthy celebrity". Although the two are in love and come together, their married life is not as happy as they expected.
Hong Huang's free and easy personality contrasted with Chen Kaige's ambition, and in the end, the marriage also ended in divorce. After two failed marriages, Chen Kaige refocused on his career. However, it didn't take long for him to meet CCTV host Ni Ping. Ni Ping's gentleness and selfless dedication made Chen Kaige feel the warmth he had never felt before.
During the days they lived together, Ni Ping almost became the "future daughter-in-law" of the Chen family, responsible for housework, taking care of Chen's father, and even took the initiative to arrange his funeral after Chen's father died. In love with Ni Ping, Chen Kaige seems to have found inner sustenance. Ni Ping's gentleness and selflessness made him feel the warmth of home.
In the end, Chen Hong was chosen
Chen Kaige's father suddenly fell seriously ill and died soon after. At this time, Ni Ping resolutely put down the work at hand and waited in the hospital day and night, taking care of Chen Kaige's father wholeheartedly. Despite the hospital's best efforts, Chen Kaige's father was still unable to save him from death. In the midst of grief, Ni Ping tries to deal with everything.
People thought that Chen Kaige and Ni Ping would enter the marriage hall, but an accident happened. Ni Ping's selfless dedication has not been rewarded, as the ancients said, people's hearts are unpredictable. After Chen Kaige finished using Ni Ping, he quickly fell in love with Chen Hong. Although Chen Kaige and Chen Hong only have one side, this did not hinder his infatuation with Chen Hong.
Ni Ping commented on this unbearable emotional process, saying that there was no dignity at that time. To talk about the encounter between Chen Hong and Chen Kaige, I have to mention the filming process of "Fengyue". At that time, Chen Hong participated in the crew audition and met Chen Kaige by chance. It was only a few seconds of eye contact, but Chen Kaige was deeply impressed.
When Chen Hong became pregnant in 1996, Chen Kaige faced an important decision: the father of the child was him. For the sake of this family, he resolutely broke up with Ni Ping and quickly handled the marriage with Chen Hong. However, these decisions seem to be a betrayal of Ni Ping to the outside world, and he has to face accusations of bad luck.
After becoming a parent, Chen Kaige's life seems to have changed dramatically. He puts more attention to his family, and the warm life of a family of three is also loved by the public. However, despite the seemingly happy family life, it is unknown whether their marriage has also experienced ups and downs behind it.
As time passed, Chen Kaige's former glory gradually faded. The films he directed were failing at the box office and could no longer cause a sensation in the market. His former temper was also exposed in public. At the same time, Chen Hong's career gradually reached its peak. She successfully transformed, her personal brand became popular, and she often appeared in high-class social situations. It seems that the fates of the two are intertwined, but in fact, their relationship has become more and more firm.
Chen Hong lost a lot?
Chen Kaige, as a director, needs to shoot outside for a long time due to the nature of his work, while Chen Hong, as an actor and producer, is also busy with work. The two got together less and separated more because of their frequent work, and gradually became emotionally estranged. In addition, Chen Kaige still maintains his romantic nature in his married life, and there are constant scandals with other actresses, which brings great pressure to Chen Hong.
Chen Hong was full of dissatisfaction and resentment, feeling that he had paid too much for Chen Kaige, but he had not received the due return. These contradictions accumulated, eventually leading to the breakdown of their marriage. However, even after the breakdown of the marriage, for the sake of their children and career, the two still maintain a certain connection and maintain a semblance of harmony.
But this relationship has lost the true meaning of marriage, and their relationship has long existed in name only, only maintaining the illusion of happiness in front of the outside world. The couple showed an unusually deep love under the camera, and they have always maintained the sweetness of the period of love. This situation is the envy of many innocent couples, but we can't help but wonder, are they really content with the status quo?
In fact, Chen Kaige and Chen Hong welcomed two children after getting married, and they have entered a stable period of family life. As he grew older, Chen Kaige no longer pursued romantic affairs, and what he valued most was a warm family and a virtuous wife. Chen Hong gave birth to two sons for Chen Kaige, showing her sense of responsibility and ability as a mother, which made Chen Kaige more focused on family life.
Although Chen Kaige enjoys a happy life in his family, his career is not as brilliant as before. Most of the family's financial support is actually maintained by Chen Hong's income. The victory or defeat has been obvious, no matter what the purpose of Chen Hong and Chen Kaige was when they got married, it is obvious that they have reached a common living state. Now that 27 years have passed, is Chen Kaige and Chen Hong's marriage really happy? Perhaps only they know.
epilogue
Chen Kaige, as a master director in the Chinese film industry, his achievements are not limited to the glory of the silver screen. After 27 years of marriage, the marriage story between him and Chen Hong is as thought-provoking as a movie. In this marriage, Chen Kaige showed the quality of gentleness and tenacity. He is not only a good director, but also a responsible husband and father.
To sum up, Chen Kaige is not the kind of scumbag who blindly pursues romance and passion, but manages his marriage with heart, showing a real manhood and sense of responsibility. The long-distance love run between him and Chen Hong is not only a story between the two, but also a model of adherence to marriage, which is worthy of learning and respect from each of us.