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Plato once said, "When love taps on the shoulder, even a man who usually disdains poetry becomes a poet." ”
Indeed, when a man meets love, no matter how wooden a man is, or how ruthless a man is, it will become interesting, romantic, warm and sunny because of the advent of love.
However, men often think that after falling in love with a woman, as long as they don't say it, they can hide their emotions well and will not be easily known.
However, this is not the case, and once he encounters news about a woman, some of his instinctive reactions betray his heart.
Because, from the moment they meet love, a man's behavior is uncontrollable. Once he falls in love with you and regards you as the most important person, he will behave very affectionately and want to be with you all the time.
A man's love is very direct, when he is in a relationship with you, he does not care about gains and losses, he is willing to give you everything, as long as you have life or emotional needs, he will do his best to actively pay for you.
As long as he is emotionally attracted to you, he will give you his favoritism, spoil you unconditionally, and will plan your future for you and give you the happiness you want.
If a man doesn't love you, then he will definitely alienate you, and he will never pay for you, even if it is a penny, he will not be willing to give it, this is the love and dislove of men.
In fact, when a man is emotionally attracted to a woman, he will experience a earth-shaking change in his heart, which is not only reflected in words, but also in the instinctive reaction that is inadvertently revealed.
It can be seen that when men are emotionally attracted to you, most of them will have the following three "instinctive reactions", and women don't understand.
1. I like to stare at you, and my eyes are full of tenderness
The French poet Gautier once said, "The eyes are transparent, and through them, the human mind can be seen." ”
Indeed, the eye is the window of the soul, it is the first sense that touches things, and often carries the first sense of things, so through the eyes can understand the most true thoughts of the heart.
When a man is emotionally attracted to you, then his eyes will often focus on your face. The eyes are full of care and love for you, distress and tenderness.
Because, in his opinion, you are the most ideal object, no matter how good other women are, they can't compare to you. So he can't help but look for you, get tired of being with you, and look at you with a very affectionate look.
As long as I see you, I will be attracted to you, your sideburns, smile, gestures, are so elegant and charming, and your eyes will be full of light.
Therefore, if a woman wants to know a man's mind, she must know how to observe the way a man looks at you. If he is emotionally attracted to you, his eyes will naturally be full of tenderness.
Mr. Zhang is like this, when he first met his girlfriend, he was attracted by her beautiful and charming appearance, so he couldn't help but want to pursue her.
The two work in the same company, and the seats are not far away, so as soon as he goes to work, he can't help but cast an affectionate look at his girlfriend and is reluctant to move away for a moment.
His girlfriend's sideburns and smile, every move, he saw it in his eyes, his eyes were full of appreciation and tenderness, and he couldn't wait to hold her in the palm of his hand and love her.
He also takes special care of his girlfriend in life and work, as long as she has needs, he will definitely help her solve them in time.
Whenever the two are together, he will stare at her affectionately, revealing his heart for her, while also making her feel his care and warmth.
In this way, his girlfriend also noticed his sincerity and sincerity, and felt that he was a man worthy of trust, so she put aside her worries and accepted him, and the two quickly fell in love.
It can be seen that once a man is emotionally attracted to you, his eyes will follow you, and his eyes always show tenderness for you.
Second, I can't help but touch you and give you the best love
When a man is emotionally attracted to you, he will instinctively have an urge to get closer to you, to hug you, and to be intimate with you.
This irrepressible impulse is actually a man's instinct from the heart, because he is emotionally attracted to you, so he can't help but get close to you, hoping to physically touch you, which is also the most direct expression of his love for you.
For example, when he is with you, he always approaches you, either holding your hand, or wants to hug you in his arms, and moves his hands and feet, which is very dishonest.
For another example, when the two are alone, he will especially want to hug you and kiss you, and even have a lot of excessive intimacy and want to develop an intimate relationship with you as soon as possible.
The man who is emotionally attracted to you has a very strong emotional desire, and as long as he is with you, he will desperately want to stay with you and never want to be separated for a moment.
After Mr. Chen dated his girlfriend, he was very affectionate to her and always looked for opportunities to be with her. As long as the two are together, he can't control himself, fights with her, wants to hug her, and even kisses her.
However, he is very considerate of his girlfriend's feelings, and always takes the initiative to create a lot of rituals to immerse her in romance and sweetness.
When the two are dating, he will gently hold his girlfriend's hand, accompany her, and patiently coax her to be happy. When they are separated, he will also kiss her affectionately, reluctant to give up, and show special emotion to her.
In this way, his girlfriend was moved by his sincerity and affection, so she let go of her worries and fell in love with him.
It can be seen that as long as a man is emotionally attached to you and regards you as the most important person, then he can't control himself and wants to hug you and give you the best love.
3. Take the initiative to pay for you and express love
Turgenev once said: "Love can work miracles." Jomei's destroyed love, once rebuilt, is grander, more beautiful, and more tenacious than the original. ”
Indeed, when a man is emotionally attached to you and sees you as the most important person, then he will not hesitate to pay for you. This kind of giving is not only material, but also spiritual and emotional.
As long as it can make you live well, live happily and happily, he will be willing to give you his time, energy, and even monetary benefits.
In life, if you encounter difficulties, he will appear by your side and help you, take care of you with his heart, and become your dependence.
In normal times, he will come over to accompany you whenever he is free, give you care and warmth, and give you more security.
He will also remember your preferences and prepare surprises and gifts for you; He will also respect your dreams and pursuits, and will do everything he can to support and encourage you.
In fact, a man takes into account your feelings and meets your needs, which is an expression of his deep love for you, and he hopes to walk into a better future with you.
Mr. Yang is like this to his girlfriend, after meeting his girlfriend, he is very emotional about her and wants to enter the palace of marriage with her.
So he is very willing to pay for her, whether it is the living expenses or any difficulties encountered, he will solve her worries as soon as possible.
I usually find various reasons to buy gifts for her, and I will inadvertently send small red envelopes to her when chatting to please her and let her feel the sweetness of being loved.
In addition, he is also actively planning for the future with his girlfriend, so that she can see the hope of the future.
After his girlfriend felt his sincerity and sincerity, she put aside all her worries, accepted him, and fell in love with him.
It can be seen that a man is emotionally attached to you, and this kind of initiative is his deep love and commitment to you.
Emotional Message:
Love is full of mystery, but it is also the most beautiful emotion, it can make us feel incomparable warmth and infinite strength.
When a man is emotionally attracted to you, most of them will have three "instinctive reactions": they like to stare at you, and their eyes are full of tenderness; I can't help but touch you and give you the best love; Take the initiative to give for you and show love.
These instinctive reactions are not only the truest portrayal of a man's heart, but also a commitment and expression of his love.
The American writer O. Henry once said, "Love is the most beautiful gift in life." ”
Indeed, when we meet the right person in our lives, we can feel each other's instinctive reactions and experience that sincere and deep love.
At this time, we must learn to cherish and care for this unavoidable love, and let it become the eternal warmth in our lives.
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