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It was the morning of April 21, 2019, and Longqiao, Miyi County, Sichuan Province, was bathed in warm sunshine. However, on this very day, a tragic tragedy occurred in this small town that was once peaceful and peaceful.
Ms. Yang, a 27-year-old young mother, took her three children, the eldest son is only four years old, and the two younger boys are twin brothers, who are only two years old.
Not only is the family happy, but the children are very innocent and curious about everything around them.
When they came to the bridge and saw the small fish swimming on the surface of the river, the children were very excited and pulled their mother's sleeves, eager to see those cute creatures with their own eyes.
Ms. Yang looked tired, but she still cheered up, squeezed out a smile, and patiently coaxed the children.
At this thrilling moment, a lucky passer-by happened to witness the whole process, and he was so frightened that he picked up the phone and dialed 119 for help. However, despite the rapid arrival of rescuers, Ms. Yang and her three children disappeared without a trace, leaving the rescuers puzzled and anxious.
It was not until 2:39 p.m. that the bodies of four mothers and children were found floating on the river, and the hideous sight made the hearts of all those present feel distressed.
On the surface, Ms. Yang's life trajectory has not been a big or up-and-down, and she has always been a caregiver who strictly fulfills her duties, is full of compassion for patients, and takes care of them wholeheartedly.
She is a very considerate, gentle and virtuous daughter in the eyes of her family.
After Ms. Yang entered the marriage hall, she devoted herself to the role of wife and mother. Soon, a lively and lovely eldest son was born in her arms.
Although the child is weak, she still does her best to take care of this new life.
When her eldest son was four years old, Ms. Yang became pregnant again and gave birth to two sons.
However, the picture of a good life is soon overshadowed by the hardships of life. Ms. Yang's husband works in the long-distance transportation industry, and he has been on the road for many years, so he has little time to spend with his family.
Ms. Yang is the only person in the family who takes on the responsibility of household chores.
She was already unable to take care of the household on her own, and it was even more difficult to take care of her three young children. Her eldest son has always been in poor health and often falls ill; Twins are weak due to premature birth, and they often have symptoms such as headaches and fevers.
Ms. Yang worked hard every day, and always took care of the children's food and daily life day and night.
Ms. Yang's husband has been doing business abroad for many years, and he has not taken good care of the family's affairs and Ms. Yang's suffering, and Ms. Yang's parents do not know anything about this. Despite the hardships of life, Ms. Yang endured everything in silence and never told others about her pain.
In the first few years, with the support and encouragement of her husband, Ms. Yang persevered and was barely able to cope with the daily life of her children. But gradually, her husband's attention and care for her became less and less, and it was difficult for him to experience the hardships of his wife after being away for a long time.
Ms. Yang was physically and mentally exhausted from the housework alone. Especially when children are sick, rest becomes an unattainable luxury. Whenever she was in the hospital with her young children, she often stayed up all night to see the day they recovered as soon as possible.
However, what is even more sad is that Ms. Yang's family does not seem to share her worries and worries. When the children were admitted to the hospital, she stayed at the bedside day and night, but her husband and in-laws did not come to share the burden.
Even in the most difficult moments, Ms. Yang never confided in her family, and she was afraid that they would worry about her. Ms. Yang never thought of handing over this responsibility to someone else.
Along the way, she endured all the ordeal alone. She struggled to fight it alone, but as the days passed, she gradually fell into serious physical and psychological problems. Even the usual household chores became unbearable for her.
Under the weight of work pressure, Ms. Yang gradually felt that she was unable to do so, although she put in a lot of strength. Doubting her own abilities, she began to think deeply about life.
The suicide note is full of self-denial, as well as deep guilt and despair.
"Over the years, no matter what kind of predicament the child has and what kind of problems have arisen, I have taken all the responsibility alone."
Due to the long-term physical and mental exhaustion and the great impact of life pressure, Ms. Yang fell into a deep depression, and her spirit was often in a trance, and she had no strength to cope with everything in front of her.
What used to be an active, cheerful person is now becoming more and more reticent.
Since the birth of the twins, there has been no restful night's sleep. No one knows the pain. In recent years, I have been on the verge of a nervous breakdown almost every day.
She confided in her suicide note, expressing deep despair and pain.
Seeing the carefree appearance of her three children, Ms. Yang had mixed feelings in her heart. As a mother, she should have taken care of their growth with all her love, instead of putting such a heavy burden on them.
However, the cruelty of reality made her unbearable, not even her own pressure.
Ms. Yang was in a huge predicament and struggle, and she did not know whether she should give up her life or leave with her children. She began to feel that instead of letting her children endure hardships in the future, it was better to take them with her.
When she wrote a suicide note to her parents, she called herself an "unfilial daughter", saying that she didn't want her elderly parents to work hard for her anymore and bring more burdens to them. When she wrote to her husband, she even more earnestly begged them to forget about themselves, "I brought the children, so let me take them with me."
How did an ordinary wife and mother get on this point of no return? Her suicide note is full of grief and clearly shows her innermost self-doubt and self-denial.
Long-term mental trauma forced her to make this grief-stricken decision.
However, the indifference and disregard of the family was undoubtedly the last straw that broke the camel's back.
When Ms. Yang's family learned the bad news, it dawned on her and understood the pain in her heart. Under the torture of grief, Yang's father turned gray overnight. And because of the death of his daughter and grandson, Yang's father also fell into extreme pain and couldn't extricate himself.
Yang's mother burst into tears all day and couldn't sleep for several days.
At the moment when the family was destroyed, Ms. Yang's husband rushed back from out of town. What appeared in front of me was the cold remains of his wife and children. This once tenacious man burst into tears in an instant, and his whole body and mind completely collapsed.
She has a lively and cheerful personality and always dresses brightly no matter where she is, much to the shock of her family and friends.
Everyone was heartbroken by this sudden tragedy. For Yang's father, his daughter has always been an obedient and sensible child, and has never had any excesses.
She is a very filial child, she respects her elders very much at home, and she is always full of patience and care for her juniors.
Despite this, she ultimately chose to end her own life and that of her children.
Only after relatives and friends saw the two letters she left behind, the doubts in their hearts were gradually solved. The words are full of guilt and self-condemnation, and she has exhausted the arduous mental journey of making this decision.
This tragic case is undoubtedly a wake-up call for society. From Ms. Yang's experience, it is not difficult to find that postpartum depression is a problem that needs urgent attention, and if there is no love and support from her family, the consequences may be unimaginable.
As husbands and families, we must be very concerned about the mental and physical condition of the mother. While taking care of the child, we should also spend more time and energy to care for and understand the mother, use positive language to affirm and praise the new mother, and help her build self-confidence, instead of harsh accusations.
Every family should be more patient and understanding with new mothers and create a warm and harmonious environment for them. Don't leave them alone with all the pressure and avoid getting cornered in stress and self-denial.
Even the most ordinary mother, what she gives is the most ordinary maternal love, and we should all cherish and reciprocate it enthusiastically.
The indifference and disregard of the family has become the last straw that breaks the camel's back. Let's learn this lesson together, embrace every new mother in life with selfless love and inclusive heart, and avoid such a tragedy from happening again.
Only when the members of each family are closely connected to each other can our society be truly peaceful and happy.
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