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On the road of life, some things are always destined to end in a hitch. Lu Yan and Jiang Yuge's blind date experience is like this.
When they met for the first time, Jiang Yuge's humility and generosity deeply attracted Lu Yan. He was neatly dressed, and the tie and beret he wore made him look like a well-mannered scholar.
Lu Yan proudly showed them his residence, and in a relaxed and confident tone, he told Jiang Yuge about the unique design concept of this house.
Jiang Yuge was attracted by the elegant decoration of Lu Yan's home. The house is decorated in white, with little furniture but simple and stylish, with occasional brightly colored elements as embellishments, making the whole space look fresh and pleasant.
She had to pay tribute to Lu Yan's taste of life.
This situation seems to be both coincidence and fate, and the expectations of the two for their ideal partner have reached a striking coincidence. Lu Yan values his appearance the most, and he hopes that his partner can be beautiful and moving; Jiang Yuge, on the other hand, pays more attention to the inner cultivation of the other party, and she hopes to spend her life with like-minded people.
At first, they saw in each other what they longed for, so they gradually sprouted longing and expectations for a lifetime.
However, fantasy is just fantasy after all, and reality always crushes it mercilessly. The various realities of life are the towering mountains between them.
Worries about the future, differences in values, and living habits. Differences, these are ruthlessly destroying the ethereal feelings between them.
The budding feelings are quickly crumbling under the weight of reality. Lu Yan's extravagant life and extremely cold attitude towards Jiang Yuge made Jiang Yuge feel extremely disappointed.
She was looking forward to being with Lu Yan for the rest of her life, but she didn't expect that Lu Yan had no intention of changing.
Regarding feelings, Jiang Yuge and Lu Yan have completely different attitudes. Jiang Yuge regards feelings as the whole of life, and she longs to know and accompany her partner. And Lu Yan regards feelings as a spice in life, and he doesn't care too much.
Aside from the occasional loss, he didn't pay much attention to the issue.
The two may not be destined to go to the end, or perhaps they are too paranoid about themselves to truly understand each other's hearts. The reason for all this is no longer clear.
After getting along for a while, the two decided to break up and ended this grand blind date event plainly and firmly. The matchmaker has been praying for their union, and after hearing the news of their breakup, she was naturally a little disappointed and regretful.
Lu Yan is a 58-year-old retiree with a carefree life, so he is very relaxed. Born in a military family, he has lived a stable life since he was a child, and when he grows up, he works in a state-owned enterprise and receives a pension of 5,000 yuan per month.
For example, Lu Yan's life is still inseparable from the financial support of his 92-year-old father, who receives half of the 25,000 yuan pension from his father every month.
Lu Yan is carefree on the surface, but he has an extremely high pursuit of quality of life. He always wears exquisite and gorgeous clothes to go out, and the home decoration is also carefully designed by him, with pure white as the main color, the furniture is not much but simple and fashionable, and occasionally there are colorful elements embellished in it, making the whole space appear fresh and elegant.
Lu Yan is not only keen on social activities, but also often eats and plays with friends. His style of behavior seems to be more free and loose.
In a blink of an eye, 60-year-old Lu Yan began to yearn for someone to accompany him, so he signed up for a blind date show. During the same period, 55-year-old Jiang Yuge also joined the ranks of this show.
Jiang Yuge is an independent and capable woman. The unhappy marriage of her youth made her raise her children independently and went through hardships. Now, she owns a large-scale head therapy shop, with a monthly income of 15,000 yuan, although she lives in poverty, she is comfortable.
Despite his successful career, Jiang Yuge always felt a little empty in his heart, longing to find a close confidant to accompany him and spend the rest of his life together.
Under the careful arrangement of the matchmaker, Lu Yan and Jiang Yuge finally met. When they met for the first time, Lu Yan was attracted by Jiang Yuge's humility and generosity. He showed off his elegant attire and proudly showed the two of them his residence, and his tone was relaxed and confident.
Jiang Yuge listened quietly, admiring Lu Yan's taste of life.
I don't know if it's a coincidence or fate, the expectations of the two for their ideal partner coincide. Lu Yan attaches the most importance to appearance and hopes that his partner will be beautiful and moving; Jiang Yuge, on the other hand, cares more about the other party's moral cultivation and expects to be accompanied by like-minded people.
They first saw the image they longed for in each other, so they gradually developed a longing for a lifetime.
When they first met, Lu Yan was attracted by Jiang Yuge's humility and generosity. Jiang Yuge was dressed in a neat suit, tie, and beret, and his demeanor was calm and elegant, giving people a sense of tranquility and elegance.
Lu Yan proudly showed his residence to the two, and his tone was full of confidence. He explained the design concept of the room to Jiang Yuge, the white room was decorated by Lu Yan to be simple and fashionable, and occasionally embellished with brightly colored elements, making the whole space look fresh and elegant.
Jiang Yuge was impressed by the exquisite decoration of Lu Yan's home.
She is full of admiration for Lu Yan's taste for life.
The expectations of the two for their ideal partner coincide, which may be a coincidence or fate. Lu Yan values appearance the most and hopes that his partner can be beautiful and moving; Jiang Yuge, on the other hand, cares more about the other party's inner cultivation and expects to be accompanied by like-minded people.
When Jiang Yuge talked about his living habits, he sincerely invited Lu Yan to the store to experience a head treatment. But Lu Yan stubbornly refused and refused to take off the hat on his head.
Facing Lu Yan, a person who was a bit eccentric, although Jiang Yuge felt a little surprised, she still maintained a friendly smile and did not comment too much on it.
Lu Yan, although he gave people a cold and withdrawn feeling when they first met, but after the careful observation and understanding of the matchmaker, he found that he was actually a humorous and easy-going person.
This made Jiang Yuge feel good about him.
I thought it would be very difficult to find the right partner, but I didn't expect fate to arrange the most suitable person for her. Lu Yan was attracted by Jiang Yuge's appearance and personality, and talked to her easily, and the atmosphere was very harmonious and harmonious.
Both people seem to be able to see their ideal appearance in each other, and gradually develop longing and expectations for the rest of their lives. Lu Yan sincerely invited Jiang Yuge to move her head massage chair to his home in the future and use it as a workshop.
Jiang Yuge happily echoed on the side, and the cheerful laughter came and went, and his favorability towards Lu Yan also increased greatly.
The two know each other's physical conditions well, Jiang Yuge is healthy, but Lu Yan has suffered from mild diabetes for decades. In the face of Lu Yan's condition, Jiang Yuge was very concerned and said that he would do his best to help him improve his eating habits in the future.
At this moment, Jiang Yuge heard a little surprising news - Lu Yan's usual hobbies are mainly drinking wine with friends, having dinner together, and participating in various entertainment activities.
However, in this case, Yuge just smiled slightly, not caring at all, but thought that this was a common social behavior, which could prove that Lu Yan had good interpersonal skills and excellent character.
The love affair has just ignited, but it is quickly shattered under the pressure of reality. The problems in reality came one after another, testing the tenacity and determination of the two.
"What would you do if I got seriously ill and needed someone to take care of me?" Jiang Yuge asked Lu Yan a question that made him think deeply. Lu Yan frowned, as if he was weighing the pros and cons, and after a while, he replied firmly: "If you are sick, go for treatment, it's just a matter of money."
Now that we have decided to be together, we will go through our lives hand in hand, and we will not give up easily because of illness. Jiang Yuge was relieved after hearing this, and felt Lu Yan's determination to treat his feelings, and a relieved smile appeared on the corner of his mouth.
Then Jiang Yuge found that Lu Yan's lifestyle was full of profligateness, living a luxurious life, eating, drinking and having fun with friends every day, and not caring about work at all. I learned all this from Lu Yan's friends.
Jiang Yuge frowned, her face was full of disbelief, she couldn't accept Lu Yan's attitude to life. But after thinking about it, everyone has their own way of life, and she has no right to interfere, so she quickly relieved.
However, when Jiang Yuge learned that Lu Yan only relied on his father's monthly pension of up to 25,000 yuan, her heart was strongly shocked. She frowned subconsciously, her eyes full of worry and unease.
In order to alleviate this uneasiness, Lu Yan promised Jiang Yuge that he would take full control of the family's finances after marriage, and he would never spend a penny of his father's money again. In the process of speaking, Lu Yan's face was filled with a confident look, and he seemed to be very firm in his commitment to himself.
However, the reality is far from being as rosy as he said it was. Soon after the two established their relationship, Lu Yan still went his own way, often attended friends' parties, was addicted to alcohol, spent money without moderation, and had no intention of keeping any promises.
Whenever Jiang Yuge persuaded him with kind words, he always looked like he didn't care, waved his hand indifferently, and insisted on going his own way.
Jiang Yuge felt infinite disappointment, and she frowned tightly. originally thought that he could change Lu Yan, but found that every effort was ruthlessly rejected by Lu Yan.
As a result, Jiang Yuge began to accumulate unpleasantness bit by bit, and gradually, all his good feelings towards Lu Yan were diluted without a trace. And Lu Yan, on his side, didn't care too much about this matter except for occasionally feeling a little lost.
Regarding emotional matters, Jiang Yuge and Lu Yan's attitudes are completely different. Jiang Yuge regards feelings as the whole of life, and looks forward to knowing and accompanying each other with her partner, supporting each other and growing together.
Lu Yan believes that it is a spice of life, and there is no need to care too much. He believes that finding a partner is just about enriching life, and it is unacceptable to change one's lifestyle because of it.
After careful consideration and communication, the two finally chose to break up, ending this grand blind date experience in a plain but firm way. As the matchmaker who helped match the matchmakers at the beginning, she has always blessed Lu Yan and Jiang Yuge with happiness, and after hearing the news of the breakup between the two, she couldn't help but feel a little lost and regretful.
However, after thinking calmly, it is often difficult to force emotional matters, and the key lies in personal fate. may be because the fate of the two has long been destined to the end, or it may be because they are too insistent on themselves to truly understand each other's inner feelings, so they are destined to part ways in the end.
However, everyone has the right to pursue a good life, and there is no doubt that trying and pursuing what you passionately aspire to is the most important thing.
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