Guide
tells the story of Xiao Chen's family who went out to help Xiao Mei's family build a house, from which we can see the deep relationship between the brothers, and it also involves issues such as family economy and skill improvement. Xiao Chen's story is thought-provoking, let's take a look at how they face the difficulties in life!
The whole family is out and about
As an ordinary person, you often face many troubles in life. But that doesn't mean you should avoid it, because if you don't solve it, it will inevitably lead to more trouble.
Like this time, Xiao Chen's family came out to help Xiaomei's family build a house, which is a good example.
Although they got a decent job in another place, this time they went home to help, which shows how deep the relationship between this family is.
And Xiao Chen had also invited the second and third brothers before, but the second brother refused on the grounds that he wanted to reduce the burden on them.
As an older brother, he naturally doesn't want his younger brother to suffer, but if it continues like this, how can their quality of life improve?
Besides, who expects to have a good life without doing anything?
Speaking of Xiao Chen's living conditions are the best among the three siblings, but when it comes to the changes in family circumstances, the second and third brothers are also obvious.
When I was a child, the whole family made a living from farming, and although there was no problem with food and clothing, it was even more difficult to save money.
So when my father was sick and needed surgery, the whole family was dumbfounded, where did the money come from?
Fortunately, Xiao Chen saved some money after going to work in other places, so he barely saved his father's life.
Now seeing that my father's health is slowly improving, and the family conditions are getting better and better, the personalities of the three brothers and sisters have naturally changed a lot.
Xiao Chen has a cheerful and generous personality, and has been in contact with many people and things in other places, becoming more mature and stable.
When the second and third brothers were children, they watched their parents work hard to earn a little income, but when they grew up, they became more and more lazy.
Now that my parents are old, I think I should have a good rest, but when Xiao Chen is mentioned, they run back to help, but they complain endlessly.
In addition, the opportunity to learn bricklaying and wall painting skills just proposed was actually to let them earn money through hard work, so they were rejected all of a sudden, and it was inevitable that they would be a little disappointed.
Speaking of which, this learning opportunity was Xiao Chen's idea.
In order to get their family out of poverty, their whole family worked hard, and the days of working outside were even more difficult.
Thinking that he is not young, if he continues like this, he will not only be unable to support his parents, but also pull Xiaomei into the water, how distressed and powerless Xiao Chen is!
Although my life has changed a lot now, this feeling is still fresh in my memory.
Although I have the ability to help my parents tide over the difficult time, what if I let my three younger brothers develop a lazy temper?
Nowadays, there are many people in society who complain about earning less all day long, or they feel that their earning less is unfair caused by society.
In fact, these people do not think about the problem from the perspective of others at all.
For example, Xiao Chen suggested that the second and third brothers should learn the skills of bricklaying and wall painting, but in fact, they just wanted to let them master one more skill to earn some extra money.
Thinking that the housing prices are so expensive now, the three brothers and sisters are now married and have children, and if they want to live a stable life outside, they have to have their own nest.
Besides, it's impossible to live with your parents for the rest of your life, right? What if a parent is not well one day?
In fact, it is not difficult to learn to paint walls and lay bricks, so you can benefit from early learning.
Besides, Xiao Chen's behavior can actually be regarded as giving the second brother and the third brother a chance to study and earn money.
If you can really master this skill in the future, you can help each other by asking them for help every time you need to do something at home.
For example, the use of walk-behind tractors to move bricks in the process of building houses is very inappropriate.
Although it is a little cheaper, it has a smaller load and poor quality. It is also easy to damage the tires, and each time the bricks are moved, the tractor should be driven into the slurry and soaked for 1 minute to allow the bricks to adhere to a sufficient amount of slurry for handling.
What's more, Laos often rains, the weather is humid, the temperature is low, the soil is sticky, the mountain roads are crooked, and the ravines are crisscrossed. The use of tractors is prone to landslides, difficult turns, unable to go up and down the hill, difficult to level the ground and other problems seriously affect the construction progress and quality, and increase labor intensity and safety hazards.
In addition, moving bricks requires daily work, and each time you use a walk-behind tractor to move bricks, you need at least three workers to cooperate. Each time, the construction team needs to manually lift 2-3 bricks weighing about 6-8 kg from the foot of the mountain to the top of the mountain for masonry. The construction site conditions are poor, the hydropower facilities are backward, the types of materials and equipment are single, the lack of mechanized operations, the traditional construction technology affects the construction progress and quality, the construction cost is high, the production capacity is low, and the benefits are poor. The construction team members have high labor intensity, low income, and no stable work and income security. The rainy season and winter weather affect the progress and quality of construction, limiting the development of the local construction industry. It can be seen that there are many problems that need to be solved in tractor construction. Therefore, Xiao Chen brought the whole family to the construction this time, not to spend money lavishly, not to "alleviate poverty", but to sincerely want to help Xiaomei's family. However, Xiao Chen's family's economic conditions are limited, and due to factors such as backward environmental facilities in Laos, they cannot directly use more advanced equipment as in China. Therefore, it is necessary to carefully consider the budget before buying equipment, and do not invest blindly. It is suggested that Xiao Chen can provide the second and third brothers with opportunities to learn bricklaying and wall painting skills, and participate in activities such as live broadcast to promote the special products of their hometown to cultivate their skills and earning ability. It is also recommended to buy a farm vehicle or large tractor suitable for moving bricks, which is convenient for transportation and improves efficiency. In addition, it can also help Xiaomei's family earn more income through live broadcast promotion and other methods. However, it is also necessary to pay attention to ways and means when helping others to avoid causing family disputes. After all, even between relatives, it is easy to fall out when some things touch interests. Although we all want everyone to be kind and upright, everyone in the world has selfish intentions. If you accidentally touch the interests of the other party, even if the original relationship is good, it is easy to be used as a springboard by exploiting loopholes. Therefore, it is necessary to take precautions in advance. So what do you think of Xiao Chen's dispatch this time?
epilogue
Xiao Chen's story is really touching! The affection between families and the support between brothers are truly priceless treasures. In the face of difficulties, it is most precious to be able to unite and work together to solve problems. I hope that Xiao Chen's family can successfully complete the task of building a house, and I also hope that the second and third brothers can cherish the opportunity to learn, improve their skills, and work together to create a better life! What do you think of Xiao Chen's story? Come and leave a message to share!