tells the story of the comparison between 55-year-old Wang Mei and her ex-boyfriend, as well as the challenges and breakup decisions in cohabitation life. Through Wang Mei's story, we can see the importance of self-awareness and letting go of prejudices. Want to know how Wang Mei deals with emotional problems? Let's look down!
Comparison between Wang Mei and her ex-boyfriend
Hello everyone, I am Aunt Inspector Xiaoqi, and today I want to share with you a true story that happened in Chengdu.
Wang Mei, 55 years old, has been divorced for many years, because of her work, she met a divorced uncle, the two are middle-aged together, have a rich relationship history, and naturally came together.
When I was in love, my boyfriend was very fond of him, saying that his ex was too fake, and he was not at all like Wang Mei, who was as simple and honest as Wang Mei, and his boyfriend also said that he and his ex were just going through the motions, and it was impossible to get back together.
Her boyfriend is very good to Wang Mei, buying vegetables, cooking and washing dishes, which makes her feel like a little princess.
But the good times didn't last long, and in the first days of living together, Wang Mei found that her boyfriend always compared her with her ex, especially when doing housework, and used his ex-wife as a benchmark.
Self-perception and the decision to break up
The more Wang Mei thought about it, the more angry she became, feeling that it was not only her boyfriend who didn't trust her, but also hurt her self-esteem and self-awareness.
For this matter, after the two had a big quarrel, Wang Mei packed her luggage and proposed to break up without hesitation.
The boyfriend thought she was angry and lost her temper, so he didn't ask again after a few words of persuasion.
The next day, her boyfriend went to work, and Wang Mei cleaned herself up, feeling very relaxed.
When she walked out the door, the neighbor saw her alone and asked, "Aunt Wang, where is your boyfriend?" ”
Wang Mei replied calmly: "We broke up!" ”
The neighbor was surprised: "Didn't you guys last night be fine?" How did you break up overnight? ”
Wang Mei smiled and didn't answer, she just felt that she was much more comfortable with herself now, and she didn't have to accommodate other people's lifestyles.
Challenges and breakups in cohabitation
In fact, the reason for the divorce of the boyfriend and the ex-wife is that the personalities are incompatible, and both of them are unwilling to back down.
Wang Mei felt that her ex-boyfriend should change some of her living habits, but it turned out that he was still the one who was stubborn.
The reason why the two quarreled was very simple, it was because her boyfriend felt that she was too slow to cook and wash dishes.
In fact, Wang Mei also wanted to find someone to love her and take care of her, but when she really enjoyed this happiness, she found that she couldn't bear the feeling of being restrained.
Let go of prejudices and communication skills
We also encounter similar problems and troubles in our lives when we get along with friends of the opposite sex.
Sometimes it's not easy to let go of prejudice and stubbornness.
We must learn to treat each other with tolerance and understanding, especially in the process of communication and problem solving.
Only in this way can we enjoy a truly happy life.
In fact, the problem between Wang Mei and her boyfriend is not difficult to solve.
If her boyfriend can be more tolerant, give Wang Mei some time to adapt; If Wang Mei can cherish the other party's kindness and dedication more, don't worry about trivial things.
Maybe there is no love between them, but if they can understand and tolerate each other, it is not a happy thing to live together.
Share and reflect
It's like those "contradictions" and "problems" that we encounter at work and in life.
If we can empathize, be more tolerant, and be more understanding, I believe that the world will become a better place.
At the same time, I also hope that everyone who reads this story can be inspired by it, and don't give up and don't rush when facing problems and troubles.
Because only by going through the wind and rain, only by crossing many obstacles, can we truly find our own happiness and joy.
epilogue
This article tells us that communication, tolerance and understanding are essential when dealing with emotional issues. Maybe we will encounter similar problems in life, but as long as we can empathize and be more tolerant, I believe we can also find our own happiness. Have you ever had a similar experience? Come and share your story!