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The 35-year-old single mother's marriage message sparked a discussion about the concept of marriage and family, and also revealed the high threshold for adopting children and the cautious fear of marriage among young men. The courage and determination of "Tangerine" to dare to pursue a happy life reflects the independent and confident side of contemporary women, which has aroused heated discussions among netizens.
A 35-year-old single mother sends a marriage message
Recently, a marriage message appeared on the Internet, the initiator is a 35-year-old single mother, she wrote in the message that she is divorced with two children, not only has no financial foundation, but also bears the situation of a fart family debt.
In the past, such a situation was basically impossible, because women's expectations for marriage and family are often good.
However, with the continuous progress of society, people's concepts are also constantly changing, and many traditional concepts have been broken.
That's why there are women like "Tangerine", who are obviously not superior enough, but still yearn for a family and love.
Although "Tangerine" herself said that she just hoped to find someone to work with, but with two children and debts, it was even more difficult for her to find such a partner.
Infertility
When many people see such information, their first reaction is to condemn the woman, thinking that divorced women with children are not qualified to find love at all.
But if we look at the problem from the perspective of "oranges", what will we think?
After all, "Tangerine" is also the person who has come from a good marriage to the current point, and everyone has the right to find the life and happiness they want.
If we really want to condemn this situation, it is society as a whole that should be condemned.
Infertility occurs from time to time in society, but many people lose their right to marry, and even blame them after divorce.
It's like being sick and being abandoned by the whole world because of your illness, and what a cruel reality it is.
So "Tangerine" unilaterally divorced with children, and did nothing wrong, if the reason is really investigated, her ex-husband should be investigated.
Besides, even if "Tangerine" doesn't remarry, her children still need to eat and drink!
High threshold for adoption
In fact, the biggest problem in this matter is that "Tangerine" takes the child on a blind date.
Nowadays, although it is not a new thing for single mothers to remarry with their children, there are fewer and fewer men who can accept this situation.
After all, many people today have a very traditional view of adopting a child.
Adopting a child not only means not being able to continue one's bloodline, but also potentially causing endless trouble for oneself because of the "legacy" left by the child's parents.
In fact, for adults under this traditional concept, it is indeed difficult to accept the adoption of a child at the beginning.
After all, traditional ideas have taken root in their hearts, and it will take time and opportunity to change.
So if there is really someone who can accept "Tangerine" and her two children, and is willing to work hard with her for the future, then I think no matter what the man does, he should be respected and understood.
Young men are cautious about marriage
I have to say that today's social atmosphere is really becoming more and more impetuous.
Everyone is pursuing the so-called "trend", and even the fear of marriage is constantly amplified.
In fact, it is not surprising that the fear of marriage is prevalent now.
Now there are countless gossips about relationship problems in society, and everyone can see too much about the cruel side of the relationship that cannot be repaired.
So as a man, it is understandable that he was indoctrinated with various propaganda to fear marriage at a young age.
Even several of my friends have expressed the fear that marriage will be boring and free of freedom.
Although women say that fear of marriage is not so prevalent, it has become common for them to choose divorce when they encounter problems in life.
So now we should be more cautious and serious about feelings and marriage.
aroused heated discussions among netizens
Of course, "Tangerine" sent a marriage message, which was also a choice made under the pressure of his own helpless life.
And "Tangerine" himself chose to send out a marriage message, and he must have known that he would face various public opinion questions.
But she still made this choice without hesitation, which I really admire her courage and determination to dare to pursue her own happy life.
Even in my opinion, the marriage message of "Tangerine" reflects the independent and confident side of contemporary women.
No longer stick to the traditional concept of women's behavior and expectations, bravely pursue the life and happiness they want.
epilogue
After reading this, I can't help but sigh at the pluralism and change of modern society's concept of marriage and family. Everyone has the right to pursue happiness, whether it is "Tangerine" or others, bravely face the challenges of life and pursue their own happiness, this spirit is worthy of our respect and encouragement. What are your thoughts on this topic? Come and leave a message to share!