Have you been acting as a dustbin for your mother's emotions for a long time? Do you also feel suffocated by long-term negative emotions?
Mother always seems to complain just for the sake of complaining, she doesn't care about the solution you propose, and she won't adopt it, she just needs to know that she is not easy.
My mother's previous story was told over and over again, and when I was a child, I thought she was really bitter. When I grew up, I suddenly felt that my mother's suffering stemmed from her internal character.
Mom seems to have complained about Dad's "badness" all her life.
"If it weren't for you, I would have divorced your dad a long time ago" How many children have heard this sentence?
Actually, I'm just like you and you get divorced, if divorce can make you live well.
Don't be too familiar with these words: "Exactly the same brainless as your dad" "Exactly like your dad, cold-blooded animal"............
Constantly listening to my mother talk about the hardships of life, when my daughter's true feeling is consumed little by little.
There is a feeling of being forcibly kidnapped by morality, and you will feel that your mother's suffering is caused by yourself, that you should pay for your mother's suffering, and that you don't deserve to live an easy and happy life.
Do all mothers tell their daughters about their mother-in-law's viciousness and father-in-law's arbitrariness?
I felt suffocated through the screen.
Does your mom habitually complain to you?