When people reach old age, the three things they are most afraid of may not be believed when they say it
Hey, the years are like a song, and in a blink of an eye, we, the "old rivers and lakes", have also entered the twilight of life. At this age, I no longer run around for life, no longer stay up late for work, and live a leisurely life. But seriously, when people reach old age, they are still a little apprehensive in their hearts, and the three things they are most afraid of, you may not believe it when you say it.
The first thing, I am afraid of "loneliness, loneliness and coldness"
When we were young, we always complained that life was too monotonous, and we longed to explore the world and see the world. When I got old, I found that the most precious thing was the people and things around me. We are afraid of loneliness, of loneliness, of not even having someone to talk to. It was like a lonely boat in the sea, and there was silence all around, and even the cries of seagulls were particularly harsh.
I remember one time, I went for a walk in the park and saw an old man sitting on a bench with a worn-out umbrella next to him. He kept looking at the sky, as if looking for something. My heart was sour, that umbrella, that empty bench, how much like our life, lonely and helpless.
The second thing is that I am afraid of "health problems"
When we were young, we always felt that our bodies were great, and that we were so good at eating. When I got old, I found that my body was really "tofu dregs". If you move a little, you will have back pain; If you eat a little, you will have an upset stomach. The most feared thing is that there is a health problem, once you get sick, not only will you suffer, but your family will also worry.
Once, I heard my neighbor Lao Li complaining: "Hey, my old bones are really getting worse and worse." I went to the hospital for an examination, there were a bunch of problems, and the doctor said that I should pay attention to maintenance, but I was really panicked. "Yes, who doesn't want to be healthy and free from sickness?
The third thing is that I am afraid that "there is not enough money to spend"
When we were young, we always felt that we didn't have enough money to spend and worked hard to make money in order to buy a house, buy a car, and support our family. When I got old, I found that the money was still not enough to spend. Pensions are limited, medical costs are high, children are starting families, and they have to subsidize their grandchildren. This kind of economic pressure is overwhelming.
Once, I saw an old woman selling handicrafts in a park stall and asked her why she still came out to earn money, and she said helplessly: "Hey, I'm old, I can't trouble the children, and I can earn a little money." At that moment, my nose was sour, and I silently wished her good health and happiness in her old age.
When people reach old age, the three things they are most afraid of are loneliness, loneliness and coldness, health problems, and not enough money to spend. But as long as we maintain an optimistic attitude and face life positively, these troubles will disappear. Remember, life is like a cup of tea, after bitterness, you can taste the sweetness in it. Let's laugh at life and sunset together, and welcome a beautiful day!