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Edited by Peng Peng
Who said that the children of celebrities must wear gold and silver? Who said that the children of wealthy families must have fine clothes and food? In this glamorous entertainment industry, a newlywed couple went on vacation with their two children, but caused an uproar because the children were dressed plainly.
This couple is none other than Wang Xiaofei and Ma Xiaomei. And behind this turmoil, there seems to be an unexpected trader - Big S.
This seemingly simple parent-child tour staged an intricate emotional drama. Let's take a look at the twists and turns of this story and see how many layers of inside story there are!
The vacation caused a storm, and netizens bombarded the "incompetent" parents
Wang Xiaofei, Zhang Lan and Ma Xiaomei took their two children to Okinawa, which should have been a happy family trip.
Unexpectedly, this trip unexpectedly triggered a storm of public opinion.
Netizens were keen to find that the adults wore famous brands every day, but the children wore the same set of clothes for several days in a row.
This stark contrast immediately caused outrage.
"It's too incompetent for parents, isn't it? Caring only about his own beauty, the child dresses like a little beggar. "
"Have money to buy luxury goods for yourself, but no money to buy a new dress for your children? What a wonderful parent! "
Netizens, you and I have spoken a word, and they have lashed out at Wang Xiaofei and Ma Xiaomei.
In the face of these sharp questions, Wang Xiaofei and Ma Xiaomei chose to remain silent.
They do not speak out, do not explain, and let public opinion ferment.
This abnormal performance makes the people who eat melons even more suspicious.
An insider broke the news: It turned out that Big S was the obstruction?
Just when public opinion was overwhelmingly criticizing Wang Xiaofei and Ma Xiaomei, an insider who claimed to be their friend stood up and broke the news of an amazing insider.
"Actually, Wang Xiaofei and Ma Xiaomei really want to buy new clothes for the children, but Big S doesn't allow it!"
The insider said that Big S issued a ban and did not allow anyone to buy anything for the child.
What the child wears is all up to Big S alone.
This revelation was like a bombshell, which instantly detonated the field of public opinion.
Netizens expressed their incredibleness:
"What's the situation? Big S has already divorced Wang Xiaofei, can he still manage his ex-husband's new family? "
"That's too broad, isn't it? When a child goes out to play with his father, what to wear must be approved by his mother? "
However, if we carefully review Wang Xiaofei and Ma Xiaomei's usual spending on children, we will find that things are not as simple as they seem.
Wang Xiaofei once bought clothes for the children with a unit price of 5,000 yuan, and Ma Xiaomei even bought more than 100,000 jewelry for the children.
Where is this "reluctant to spend money on children"?
Obviously, they have always been very fond of their children.
So why did they go against the grain for this vacation and let the kids wear simple t-shirts and jeans?
Interpret Big S's thoughts: the sadness of an ordinary divorced woman
To understand this matter, we might as well change our perspective and look at Da S as an ordinary divorced woman.
After divorce, women tend to be extra sensitive to their ex-husband's every move.
After Da S and Wang Xiaofei divorced, they have always been dissatisfied with the alimony given by Wang Xiaofei.
She even felt that Wang Xiaofei should also give her alimony to make up for her lost youth.
In Da S's opinion, if Wang Xiaofei pays for the child's tuition, food, clothing, housing and transportation, then she will lose her reason to sue for more child support.
Therefore, she did not allow Wang Xiaofei to buy this and that for the child, which was to send a message to Wang Xiaofei: You only need to give money, and everything about the child is up to me!
As for why Ma Xiaomei is not allowed to buy clothes for the child?
This brings us to a more complex psychological problem.
Ma Xiaomei is Wang Xiaofei's newlywed wife, and Wang Xiaofei spends a lot of money on her.
When Big S sees it in his eyes, he will naturally be unhappy.
In Da S's subconscious, Ma Xiaomei buys things for her children, not out of genuine love for her children, but to win the reputation of "good wife and mother".
This kind of psychology actually reflects the reluctance and jealousy in the depths of Big S's heart.
She may not have completely let go of the past and is worried about Wang Xiaofei's new life.
Netizens are hotly discussed: There are different opinions, and each has its own opinion
This incident quickly aroused heated discussions among netizens on the Internet, and various opinions came out one after another.
Some netizens stood in the position of Big S and expressed their understanding of her approach:
"As a mother, Big S has the right to decide what her child wears. She probably doesn't want her children to develop extravagant habits. "
"The relationship after the divorce is inherently complicated, and Big S may do this to protect the children and avoid comparisons between the two families."
Some netizens think that Big S's approach is a bit excessive:
"When a child goes out with his father, what to wear should not be decided by the divorced mother. This is interfering in the ex-husband's new family. "
"Children should dress for comfort, not as a tool for competition between adults."
Some netizens analyzed this problem from a deeper level:
This incident reflects the difficult problem of educating children in divorced families. Even if the parents are divorced, they should reconcile each other for the benefit of the children. "
"Big S's behavior may stem from jealousy of her ex-husband's new life. She needs to learn to let go and not transfer her negative emotions onto her children. "
Some netizens expressed sympathy for Wang Xiaofei and Ma Xiaomei:
"It's so hard for them, and they have to look at their ex-wife's face when they want to buy things for their children. It must be a bad feeling to be caught in the middle. "
"I hope they can face it strongly, and don't let the pressure from the outside world affect their love for their children."
This discussion continues to ferment, triggering people's in-depth thinking about social issues such as divorced families and child rearing.
Written at the end: Love and hate, where to go?
Looking back on the whole incident, we see that it is not just a simple dressing controversy, but also a complex emotional drama.
Wang Xiaofei and Ma Xiaomei want to take good care of their children, but they are constrained by their ex-wives.
Although Big S is divorced, he still doesn't seem to let go of the past and affects his ex-husband's life by controlling the children's clothing.
This turmoil reflects the intricate emotional entanglements in divorced families.
As outsiders, we should perhaps not be so quick to judge who is right and who is wrong.
Everyone has their own position and grievances.
But in any case, we hope that the grievances between adults do not affect children.
Children's growth needs the love of their parents, not to become a bargaining chip for them.
Finally, I would like to throw out a question for you to think about: in a divorced family, how to balance the interests of all parties, so that children can get the best care and love? Feel free to discuss your thoughts in the comments section.