Recently, the college entrance examination scores have been released, and it is time to fill in the volunteer node; There are junior children in the family, and at all times, there are news of graduate school entrance examinations, graduate school applications, graduate school insurance, and employment superimposed everywhere.
A mother in the mother's group said today that there is a kind of teaching and research support, that is, if the child has participated in the teaching that meets the relevant requirements during the college period, he can get a place for teaching and research, and finally realize the research guarantee through teaching.
It's the first time I've heard of this kind of research in my mother's group, and it's also a kind of learning that keeps pace with the times, and through the sharing of every mom and dad, I can get more information and knowledge about the growth of college students.
A few days ago, my son came back to me and told me that they are in junior high school reunions, and now they are in their third year, facing the prospect of graduating from college in four years, and everyone has different ideas and choices.
This new starting point and new choice will determine their future career direction.
However, the choice of a new starting point should not only start from one's own professional and ability, but also consider the family's economic situation. It is also necessary to consider the cost-effectiveness of input and output.
My son said that some students want to further their studies and go to graduate school. But if you calculate carefully, it takes 3 years to study for a master's degree, and the annual tuition fee is 100,000 yuan, and the tuition fee is 300,000 yuan in three years; In addition, you have to rent a house, because the university does not provide dormitories for master's degrees; I still have to eat, so even if I study for a master's degree in China, I have to start at 500,000 yuan.
Some students said that they didn't want to go to graduate school because the cost was too high, so it was better to get a job directly.
I didn't believe it when I heard it, how did the children of my friends who I was familiar with in the past live in school dormitories and have some living allowances, but now they have become so high in tuition and have to rent a house by themselves.
The son said that whether to provide a dormitory depends on the nature of the graduate student he is studying, and if it is a master's degree, the school provides accommodation; If it is a master's degree, the school will most likely not provide accommodation.
Moreover, the tuition fee of 100,000 yuan mentioned by the students is also divided into different majors, business universities, higher tuition fees for professional and master's degrees, and lower tuition for majors.
I went to my mother's group for consultation, and a university teacher replied to me that it is true that graduate students are divided into professional masters and master's degrees, and professional masters are employment-oriented masters; A master's degree is a master's degree for further study in research. The tuition fee for professional and master's degrees is indeed higher.
Yesterday, a mother of a junior at Beihang University told me that her son had gone to Tsinghua University. This holiday, my son traveled to various university summer camps, written exams and interviews, and it was not easy for me to feel sorry for my son. Yesterday, she received a successful offer from Tsinghua University, and she shed tears of excitement at that moment. I can empathize with her.
She said that only she, the mother, understands how much her son has paid in the three years of college. She said that her son, who studied physics, paid much more in three years of college than in three years of high school.
In the era of volume, it is not only the children who are rolled, but also the parents behind the children. Whether a child is going to graduate school, applying for graduate school, guaranteeing graduate school, or finding a job, every road is full of hardships.
Yesterday, a mother in the college entrance examination asked me, what major is better for girls to study? I said that there is no long-lasting sunrise major, it depends on how the child plans for the future, whether to take the public examination for the editor, or to study for graduate school or to go abroad? And what are children good at?
When my son came home, he always said that he was tired, and I said that you should rest for a few days, replenish your sleep, and eat well. Take a break.
Tonight he said he wanted to eat cold noodles. He wants to eat Korean-style sweet and sour light taste, and the soup only adds pear juice, vinegar, sugar, and ice cubes.
And I want to eat a sweet and sour hot soup with spicy cabbage, shredded cucumber, chili oil, sugar, and vinegar.
I made two flavors of cold noodles, and my son didn't eat one cold noodle later, and asked me to brand him a few brown sugar cakes.
Chatting with him, I don't want to talk about studies and the future for the time being, and I don't want to make myself anxious and stress others about such long-term things. Because all the gifts given by fate have already been secretly marked with a price.
