Nowadays, the more tired people are, the more they want to understand that except for the closest people, no one wants to see the excellence of others, single people resist other people's babies, and parents with poor grades for their children are often much more jealous than envy of other people's children.
Human nature is like this, but now people see it more clearly.
The cuteness of the baby, the talent of the baby, in addition to those who really don't like children, relatives and friends often have an appreciative mentality, but if you show the child's achievements and various awards, it is easy to cause discomfort to others.
By showing the child's excellence, the emotional value obtained is just self-awareness and its own filter, and the real effect of showing others is nothing more than the following:
1. The child is better, will he think that this is it, and it is also worth coming?
2. Parents of scumbags, good mentality is used to motivate their children, it has nothing to do with you, and those with a bad mentality will feel uncomfortable, jealous, and will have a sense of distance.
If you have been excellent, it is okay, as long as there is a slip at any time, the excellence that has been shown will become a topic of ridicule behind many people, employment and marriage in the high school entrance examination, employment and marriage, any of which links are unsatisfactory, will be so.
Children with excellent grades are really good, everyone is on the same track, and if they have better grades than other children, they are smarter. The current involution of education at a young age has made the results of primary school and even junior high school extremely watery, and the results themselves do not reflect the real thinking ability.
This makes elementary and junior high school children not worth exposure, and when entering high school, parents have no energy to pursue those vanities outside the body and focus on their children's future. Even if a child is admitted to the ideal university, that joy can be shared by the closest people, and has nothing to do with outsiders.