Why don't you get married, I've lived for more than 20 years, I've never seen anyone who can be particularly happy after getting married, it's all chicken feathers, I can't think of what benefits marriage can bring, two people can still be loyal and responsible when they fall in love. After getting married, it is inevitable to mix the wishes of relatives and friends on both sides of the family, as well as the problem of having children, and similarly, I can't think of any benefits about children, although I like children very much, and I have to tease and hug when I see them on the road, but I think it is a protective desire for cute creatures, and the same is true when meeting kittens and puppies.
Marriage + having children add up to what you get and you don't seem to have given up much, and I don't have the ability to educate a person how good it is, and even whether I have the ability to teach him to be a normal person with three views of integrity and mental health, I have psychological problems, so to have children is to harm others and myself, and I must face the problem of giving birth after marriage, this is not that I have nothing to think about it, the final result is either that I can't face the pressure to divorce, or I compromise hastily to have a child, it's really better to live my life wellIn the future, they have the ability to provide for their parents in old age.
My parents are very good to me, but the relationship between them is not good, but I have not seen anyone with a happy family except for them, the only thing I know is that this boy's parents have a very good relationship, and the family is happy as an only child, so he is particularly yearning for married life, has a small family of his own, and will be very inferior to him in this regard.
Feelings can't overcome fear, at least at the moment, the other party is so firm that there is no way to change, and he will still be single in the future, and he will make it clear to his family.