Hello, I'm Yang Xiaoqian. A post-80s generation who focuses on personal growth and mental improvement
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Life is like a blank slate. It's up to us to decide what pattern will be depicted on this piece of paper.
If you want to have a better attitude in life, you must first recognize yourself, not overestimate your own abilities, and not overly devalue yourself.
And, have firm beliefs and goals. Not afraid of failure, positive and enthusiastic, the road of life will go more and more smoothly.
If you look closely, you will find that most of them are "smooth" people.
01. Do the worst in everything and do your best
A reader left a message in my background saying:
I'm a person who gets nervous very easily.
Every time I evaluate the professional title exam, the more I want to take the exam, the more my mentality collapses. For two years in a row, they all failed.
I taught him a method: "Abandon therapy".
The idea of "giving up therapy" is to do something regardless of the outcome. Since you have already made a plan to fail in the exam, the result does not matter, and the process should be practiced.
That reader, calm down and go to the exam with a relaxed feeling, didn't expect him to give full play to his usual strength, and actually got a good score in the exam.
In this life, there are many things that are not as people want. Learn to prepare for the worst, lower expectations, and have a clear conscience.
Nelson said, "If you don't try, you don't succeed; Only in the face of difficulties or dangers can we arouse the determination and courage to go to a higher level. ”
In everything, don't put too much psychological pressure on yourself, and don't let yourself have too many mood swings.
Don't be afraid to fail, don't think too much. Do what you do and do your best.
Believe that everything is the best arrangement, and if you have a good attitude, you will get more surprises and more rewards.
02. Allow everything to happen, and your heart is very strong
In this world, anything can happen, and anyone can change their original intention.
Learn to allow everything to happen, not to care too much about the outcome, not to underestimate others, to keep your heart strong and to live well.
Minglan in "Do You Know" is in love with Qi Heng, she knows that the difference between the identities and status of the two people is too great, and forcing it will not lead to good results.
When Qi Heng gave up on her and chose to defend the Qi family, she did not resent, but accepted it calmly.
After that, she also met someone who really loved her and was willing to protect her, and ushered in her own good fate.
Sometimes, when you encounter trials, storms, and pains, it is God who wants you to grow and get better.
Keep a good attitude, don't worry too much about gains and losses, don't think too much, and don't let yourself live too anxiously.
"Attitude is the difference between success and failure, and whether it's good or bad, have a positive attitude and don't let frustration replace enthusiasm," Giggs said. ”
When things are unfair, don't blame others, don't question fate, but make yourself more resilient and strong.
When your heart is strong and you go with the flow, you will not be defeated by difficulties.
When your heart becomes stronger, you will be like stepping on Hot Wheels, and you will go more and more smoothly.
03. Lifelong growth, problem-solving ability becomes greater
There are very few gifted people in this world. Mostly, they are ordinary and hard-working people.
Most of the people who really have a good life are people who have grown up all their lives.
They are willing to explore and research, constantly improve their abilities, let themselves reach a higher level, realize their dreams, and create greater value.
Oprah · Winfrey said: "To live is to keep learning, and when you encounter setbacks, you must be brave enough to leap over and start over." ”
People who are willing to grow for life will never think that they have no chances, nor will they feel that their qualifications are mediocre, but accept the reality and be firm in their goals.
Also, stay focused and study hard. Let yourself have the opportunity to stand on a bigger stage.
When encountering any setbacks and tests, they will not give up easily, but rely on themselves to continue to explore and solve problems.
As you grow, your problem-solving skills will get stronger.
Naturally, no matter what he encounters, it will not be difficult for him, and his life path will be smoother and smoother. Even if you go it alone, you can dominate the storm.
04. Conclusion
In life, there are many potholes to follow. A good life, rely on yourself to strive for it.
When encountering setbacks, don't complain, don't get entangled, and move forward bravely.
Strive to improve yourself, strengthen yourself, and control your own rhythm of life, and the road will be wider and wider in the future, and the pace will be faster and faster.
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Xiao Qian: A writer who loves words, loves words, and codes words for ten years. In his spare time, he will meet friends with words. For the rest of my life, with you by my side, life will be steaming.