In the most popular years in Taiwan, Big S must have a better audience.
She has an idol drama that is popular all over Asia, a love image of a "beauty king", a "wolf nature" and a label that dares to love and hate, and is widely popular among fans.
And Xiao S, the frequent rumors of domestic violence, her hosting style of loving "rubbing oil", and her imperfect image compared to Big S (she wore braces for a long time after her debut), made her the one who was praised in the "SOS" group.
I remember a detail very well.
In a program of "I Guess", Big S wants to perform "Fat Tongue" with the guests:
It is the appearance of sticking the tongue out of the mouth and making it very large;
After the sound of "one, two, three" stopped, Xiao S stretched out a lot of tongues, and his tongue was very fat;
And Big S only sticks out the tip of his tongue. (It's too early to find the picture)
Even if I was young and didn't understand anything, I knew that this person was pretending!
But no one poked.
Because the big S performance is the character of the perfect goddess, and the little S is the harlequin and the foil.
Maybe it's because they've been living in the show, and they've forgotten that it's fake while acting.
Big S thinks he's a real swan, and Little S thinks he's an ugly duckling.
Even if Xiao S later had his own show "Kangxi is Coming", married Taiwan a wealthy family with good reviews, her father-in-law and mother-in-law have decent careers, and her husband and his sisters graduated from United States prestigious schools, Xiao S still behaved very humbly to Big S and took Big S as her role model.
The most popular years of "Kangxi is Coming" are also the most popular years for their sisters.
The size S is still the same as before in the show, and it seems that the relationship is very good;
Little S also spares no effort to praise Big S.
At that time, I really believed that they had a good relationship.
But the current entertainment account reveals that the sisterhood between these two is very plastic.
Of course, excluding the reason why the wall is falling and everyone is pushing, I think the relationship between the two may not be as good as before.
The reason is very simple, that is, the growth of Xiao S.
Xiao S has really been improving himself over the years.
When she was doing the "Kangxi" program, she learned English and dance, and she was at a level that she could show off.
In terms of the relationship between husband and wife, she has made a lot of efforts.
Basically, all the viewers sympathize with her when they see her showing affection or covering up for Mike; In fact, when he was able to say the sentence "I won't respond to Mike's matter in the future, because he is not an insider", Xiao S really let go of the relationship between husband and wife.
It's not that I've given up, it's that I've given up.
She doesn't care if their relationship is good or bad anymore, she has reconciled with herself.
Her maturity lies in the fact that I don't hold myself hard anymore, whether you are good or bad.
Many people punish themselves because of their partner's shortcomings, and it is very typical that they turn to attack themselves because of the other person's badness.
I feel that I have not married the right person, I feel that my life is unfortunate, and I feel that my life is not good.
Actually, you are you and he is him.
Just because you're in a bad relationship doesn't negate yourself.
After Xiao S let go of the relationship between husband and wife, she also began to exert efforts in the cultivation and companionship of her daughter, so that she did not lose to others in terms of "mother" personality.
I remember that Wu Peici was ridiculed by the group for holding her child for a photo show after giving birth to her third child, because her posture of holding the child was wrong.
And Xiao S's parenting experience in the show makes it hard to believe that she is not a good mother.
Including her learning English, she is with her daughter.
The dance teacher seems to be with her daughter.
When she raised her daughter, she raised herself all over again.
Speaking of which, as an aside, for women, raising children is very helpful in helping you re-examine everything about yourself.
It has a great effect on the relationship with parents, especially with mothers, and the reaffirmation and satisfaction of one's inner needs.
Xiao S received a parenting bonus.
She was the one who was not valued in her original family, so she satisfied herself in the process of raising her daughter.
These make her personality more complete.
If she and Mike didn't have children, she and Mike might go their separate ways.
But having children has given her more consideration, which is not a bad thing.
The more dimensions a thing has, the more comprehensive and perfect it will be.
Ditching the black-and-white diode thinking and involving one more party will give things more room to turn around.
I remember that when Mrs. Xing wanted to say that she would take Mandarin Duck as a concubine for the eldest man, she looked for Mandarin Duck herself, and then looked for Mandarin Duck's brother and sister-in-law, and finally thought about finding the old lady.
Because I agreed, the old lady had to release her even if she didn't agree.
If you go directly to the old lady, I'm afraid it will be rejected at that time.
Let's move on to Little S.
Looking at it now, although Mike is not a good husband, for Xiao S, divorcing him may not be a good thing.
Unlike mainland actresses who divorce and pursue careers, Wanwan actresses are married to wealthy families.
It's hard to imagine how a divorced actress (whose income is not too high) with three daughters can live.
Now that the three daughters have grown up, the eldest daughter Elly was admitted to a prestigious school in United States, and the second daughter also made her debut, and she has a "Lin Chiling" style.
Xiao S has put a lot of effort into his daughter's future planning.
These are her upbringings.
The growth of the big S is far from keeping up with the speed of the small S.
On the one hand, there are external reasons such as people and things experienced, and there is also a big aspect because Xiao S always puts himself in the position of "sister".
She allowed herself to make mistakes, because her sister could make mistakes.
But my sister is a role model, and my sister is the leader of the family.
The fault tolerance rate of the big S is smaller than that of the small S.
That's why she always strives for perfection in everything.
If you want to marry a wealthy family, you will get a certificate within a month when you meet Wang Xiaofei!
Husband is not good? There is no wronging yourself, you have to change!
Beijing is not good, then go back to Taiwan!
If you want love, then find your first love!
She lived a very diode life, so she collapsed badly in the end.
And there are a lot of Xiao S's in the middle.
Many of Wang Xiaofei's words when she went crazy irregularly at the beginning of the mattress incident are credible.
For example, he said that Xiao S envied Big S for having a good life and always wanted to harm her.
Xiao S may not want to harm her subjectively, but objectively he will put Big S in her sister's position and ask her with more perfect requirements.
This seems to be for the good of my sister, but it will actually put Big S in a dilemma.
A lot of things can be solved by taking a step back, and getting stuck there will never be solved.
If the sisters are really plastic feelings, it will be easier for Xiao S to harm Big S.
The people who hurt us the most are often the people closest to us.
Because he knows where your weakness is.
That's why there is that sentence:
In the state of heat and coldness, the rich are more expensive than the poor;
Jealousy, flesh and blood are especially ruthless to outsiders.
In "The Story of Rose", after Su Gengsheng was sexually assaulted by his stepfather, he did not despair;
But when she heard her mother say, "It's good that he has a crush on you!" Otherwise, what if he was taken away by the vixen outside! "When the heart dies of despair.
In fact, I still don't believe in the relationship between size and size, but invisibly, the small S has replaced the position of the big S and has become the dominant relationship.
The strong filter when he was young has faded from Big S.
What Xiao S sees is a big S who will be weak, fragile, and injured.
The choice between hurting her or protecting her is just a thought.