When you love someone to the dust,
But no one loves you in the dust.
Women talk all day long: "A man's mouth, a deceitful ghost".
But when a man really says beautiful love words, he is still soberly intoxicated.
You love a man who is humbled to the dust, even if he is hurt again and again, as long as he says a few good words, you will find hundreds of excuses for him.
However, the feelings of self-deception are just the accompaniment of youth, and there is no result, leaving scars all over the body.
The more emotional a man is, the easier it is to say that he loves you, and the easier it is to say beautiful things.
If the woman really takes everything and believes whatever he says, then you will only fall deeper and deeper.
Remember, to see whether a man loves you or not, whether he can be entrusted with it for life, and be together for a long time, depends on what the man does, not what he says.
If a man can't give you these two things, no matter how much love he says, he will lie to you.
No matter how much a woman loves him, she must break it off, and stop deceiving herself.
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I can't give you an identity
Feelings have always been black and white, love is to let everyone know, and if you don't love, keep your distance as soon as possible.
I can't tolerate others, and I can't tolerate gray and white areas, and it's not clear.
A man who loves you says he loves you from morning till night, but never makes your relationship clear.
His friends and family never let you see him, he never discloses your relationship in front of acquaintances, and there is no trace of you in his circle of friends.
Even if you ask: What is between you, he never answers directly.
All kinds of love words make you dizzy, I like to have an intimate relationship with you, but I refuse to give you an identity.
If you invite him to your own friend's party, he will turn it down.
I don't give you an identity, I don't recognize your formal relationship, but I enjoy the status of "above board", what can I do.
If you are in a hurry, you will play missing, which will make you suffer from gains and losses.
When you are discouraged and want to give up, he will provoke you again and attack enthusiastically.
Hot and cold, occasionally give a sweet date, just like that.
Over and over again, hanging on your heart, I just won't let you go.
But it never gives you a clear identity, so that you will never be respected and have no sense of security in this relationship.
Why?
He enjoys the emotional solace he gets in you, and what can happen in a couple.
But there is no need to pay any commitment and responsibility, there is no constraint, and you can come and go at will.
From the beginning, he didn't have true love for you, you were just a tool for him to relieve loneliness.
His attitude towards you as if he is leaving, and never responding, is just to leave a way out for himself, and he can advance and retreat at will.
When you meet such a person, no matter how beautiful his love words are and how flirtatious his skills are, break it off as soon as possible.
But as long as he really has you in his heart and wants to have a long-term future with you, he will not treat you like this.
A person who really wants to have a future with you will not let you wait and wait and waste your youth.
He will take the initiative and give you a sense of security, give you a certain commitment, and come to you against all odds.
02
I can't give you what to pay
"Relationships without the fetters of interests" are unstable.
If a person says they love you every day, but never gives you in action.
Don't believe this kind of verbal check as soon as possible.
For example, men like to say:
"Baby, drink more warm water for stomach pain."
But he never boiled a cup of hot water for you, sent a glass of warm water.
Verbal concern, don't do it.
"Wife, don't wash the dishes today if you're tired, and wash them tomorrow."
But he never gets up immediately and cleans up the chores that two people share.
A man who tells you love from morning to night, but never does a little housework, even if it is a joint housework, it is all thrown to you.
Is this looking for a wife or a nanny?
A man who only talks about love, but has never paid and cared for action, what is he going to do?
"Daughter-in-law, when I have money, I will buy you a big house and a luxury car."
But even her daughter-in-law has to throw her face when she goes out to eat, and she is usually reluctant to give away even clothes and jewelry.
Love a woman, but are not willing to spend a penny for her, this kind of love is too cheap.
I also heard a joke the other day about a woman who met a lawyer on a blind date.
After a month of getting along, the girl was scared away.
Because the lawyer asks the girl for every meal, he has to AA, and even calculates the expenses of the two people in detail afterwards.
was so scared that the girl didn't even let the other party invite the other party for milk tea once, and the relationship between the two of them for a month was cleaner than a blank sheet of paper.
There is no economic involvement, for fear of claims from the other party.
A man who calculates too well and never spends money on you must have no intention of developing with you for a long time.
People who truly love each other will give everything they have for each other, and they can't wait to hold a heart to each other.
Love and dislove, in fact, are hidden in the details, even if you deceive yourself, it is the fact that you don't love you.
Give each other and give each other a sense of security, so that the feelings are worth paying for.
Some people, don't force it, when it is broken, even if you love again, you must be sober and stop the loss in time.
Remember, no one will love you when you fall into the dust!
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