During the summer vacation, I believe that many parents are dissatisfied with the state of their children at home, just like the saying goes, "children are treasures when they are just on vacation, but they all become grass in less than a week", which is simply a wise saying.
In fact, many times parents can't be blamed for doing this, but the child is either holding the mobile phone at home all day without saying a word, or he is naughty, stirring up the wind and rain, and there is no peace for a moment. In particular, the problem of mobile phones has now become the main aspect of family conflicts, and it is also the main source of family wars again and again.
No, a short video circulated on the Internet some time ago blew up how many desperate parents, and netizens left messages below, "This is my child!" ”
Let's take a look at a picture first:
A child who looked to be four or five years old waved his little hands wildly for a while, picked up his shoes on the ground and threw them aside.
After a while, he stomped his feet anxiously, stepped forward and grabbed his mother's arm hard, and turned on the thrashing mode.
One crying, two troubles, three pulling.
His mouth kept shouting, and his face was flushed.
As soon as the camera pulled, the room was already in a mess under some tossing.
What do you think he's doing?
I didn't get beaten and wronged, I wasn't in a hurry to make a game.
The answer is that the boy is looking for a tablet at home.
Mixed with rage, mania, discontent, throwing things, he was hoarse, and what roared out was:
"Where to put it, bring me the tablet, tell me where the tablet is!"
Questioning sentence by sentence, 15 seconds of crazy video, suffocating to hear.
Such a small body, such a loud accusation.
It seems that if he can't find it today, he can't play with the tablet, and his sky will fall.
borrowed a comment from a netizen: Where is this looking for a tablet, it is clear that the drug addiction is onset, and the six relatives don't recognize it.
The mother who recorded this scene suddenly felt sad and regretted, and she was unable to type a few lines on the title:
It's crazy for a tablet, it's like taking drugs......
There are countless such things, children for a mobile phone for a tablet, six relatives do not recognize, lock the throat of the mother, kick the grandmother, beat the teacher......
We can't help but sigh: what happened to the child? Why is this happening?
In fact, children's addiction to electronic products is often rooted in their parents.
Think about the following things if your parents have been doing:
1. When the child was young, in order to calm the child, we threw a tablet to the child, she watched cartoons quietly on the side, and the parents swiped their mobile phones on the side;
2. When your child goes to school and asks you questions, your first reaction is to pick up your mobile phone and check it;
3. The child came home from school, and the parents came back from work, but the first thing was not to communicate with the child, but to lie on the sofa and play with the mobile phone, but the mouth was urging the child: "Has the homework been written?" Hurry up and do your homework! ”
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How many of these situations have you hit?
It is the parents who have thrown their children to electronic products since childhood, and the children have also developed a dependence on electronic products since childhood, and the parents have not accompanied the children, but the electronic products have done it, and at this time you suddenly strip your "spiritual parents" from your side, which is no less than a tsunami.
If the child does not get the company of his parents in real life, or even some positive feedback, where will the pressure in the child's life be released? Where do children find fun?
At this time, video games come out, short videos come out, children can get a sense of accomplishment in video games, and children can get simple happiness without thinking in short videos.
The problem of children's mobile phone addiction is very serious and needs to be solved by scientific methods! With the right method, children can change their addiction problems and achieve a counterattack!
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