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On the TV screen, Le Jia was the host star of "If You Are Honest, Do Not Disturb", and captured the hearts of countless viewers with her sharp words and unique insights. However, the wheel of fate is always unexpected.
Now this former "poisonous tongue" celebrity is struggling on the stage of a small county town, seeking a way to survive. What led to such a dramatic turnaround? The answer may be traced back to that incredible night, when a drunken Lejia lost his former wisdom and restraint and was replaced by hubris and arrogance.
This moment became a watershed in his life and the prelude to his fall from the top.
Lejia's growth process can be called a realistic version of inspirational legends. Born in a remote village, he stepped into the bustling city for the first time at the age of 14, and the seeds of rooting in this land were planted in his heart.
However, the cruelty of reality soon gave him a blow to the head.
After graduating from secondary school, Le Jia worked as a "small white-collar worker" in a bank. Although the job was stable, it could not satisfy the burning passion in his heart. He thought to himself, "Do you want to spend the rest of your life in this cubicle?" The thought was hard for him to accept.
With a dream, Le Jia resolutely resigned and began his struggle. From property sales to insurance sales, from porters to accountants to tour guides and actors, he has dabbled in almost every job imaginable.
Every failure made him more determined, and every setback made him stronger. He sent resumes like crazy, writing 30 cover letters a day and sending out up to 1,000 resumes a month.
Finally, the opportunity favored this indomitable young man. Lejia has become a sales trainer, and his confidence and charm in talking on stage are impossible to ignore.
He then came into contact with "behavioral psychology" and skillfully incorporated it into his lectures, creating a unique "personality colorology". This novel theory attracted a lot of attention as soon as it was launched, and it made him famous.
Lejia's life has entered the fast lane. When the "If You Are Honest, Do Not Disturb" program team threw an olive branch to him, he accepted it without hesitation. The partner with Meng Fei is perfect, one of the two is calm and atmospheric, and the other is sharp and humorous, and soon became a golden combination in the minds of the audience.
Le Jia's comments hit the nail on the head, and the sharp words formed a strong contrast with Meng Fei, which made the effect of the show reach the extreme.
However, the aura of success has also quietly changed Lejia. What was once a humble and hard-working young man was gradually replaced by conceit and arrogance. He began to behave too flamboyantly on the show, frequently stealing the limelight from others, and even did not hesitate to do some eye-catching outrageous behaviors.
He seems to have forgotten that as a moderator, his role should be to guide the guests to speak actively, rather than taking the whole picture alone.
Still, the audience loves him because his madness is the key to the show's attention. No one dared to question the propriety of such an approach.
Meng often needs to play the role of mediator on stage to resolve conflicts between Le Jia and the guests. However, Le Jia did not appreciate this, he admitted: "My personality dictates that I don't like to beat around the bush and prefer to solve problems directly.
As the popularity of the show continues to rise, Le Jia's performance in the show has become more and more bold, and the relationship with Meng Fei has become increasingly tense. There are even rumors on the Internet that the two fought in the locker room due to some conflicts.
Lejia's hubris has reached a tipping point, and this tipping point has become a turning point in his career.
Lejia's career was at its peak, but an accident took a turn for the worse. In the "Super Speaker" program, in order to support his contestants, Lejia made a shocking decision - to drink spirits on the spot.
This move not only stunned the audience, but also became a turning point in his career.
When Jin Xing sharply pointed out that Le Jia's speech performance was bad, the drunk Le Jia lost his mind. He fought back mercilessly, attacking Venus with insulting words: "Even the emperor is not as many as his father-in-law's trivial affairs.
This remark is not only aimed at Venus's gender identity, but also a great disrespect for his personality.
However, Lejia did not stop there. He turned the finger to other guests, including Lu Yu and Dou Wentao. After offending everyone, Le Jia faced the audience and shouted hoarsely: "I am engaged in training and speaking, and they are focused on the production of TV programs, there is an essential difference between the two!" Please stop judging me by that standard.
At this moment, Lejia's arrogance was exposed. He seems to have forgotten that it was these TV shows that made him who he is today. Venus unceremoniously noted: "Please stop using the word 'true nature', he is actually sprinkling and rolling."
This sentence sharply pierced the mask of Le Jia's self-righteous "true temperament".
However, even after the show ended, Lejia still didn't realize his mistake. He stubbornly argued: "I did drink, but I didn't lose my mind and I didn't make a mistake."
This attitude not only did not save the situation for him, but only made the situation worse.
After this incident, Lejia's career began to take a sharp turn. Major programs and endorsements have terminated cooperation with him, and the video content about him, except for drinking and making trouble, almost all of the rest are pictures of "angry scolding others".
Public sympathy for him also faded over time, replaced by revulsion and criticism of his actions.
Lejia seems to be stuck in a cycle of self-destruction. He behaved more and more inappropriately in public, and even walked topless with his pet dog on one occasion. When some netizens kindly reminded him, not only did he not show humility, but responded arrogantly: "I am a wild man, and I have nothing to talk about with you so-called civilized people."
Such words and deeds undoubtedly made his credibility and reputation fall to the bottom.
At the 10th anniversary celebration of "If You Are Honest, Do Not Disturb", Le Jia, who was once the "pillar" of the program, was unable to attend, which undoubtedly confirmed the complete rupture of his relationship with the program team from the side.
What's even more embarrassing is that a passage posted by his former partner Meng Fei on social platforms, although he did not directly name him, seemed to mean something: "Please observe the crowd around you carefully, and you will find that those so-called sharp words are often just open-mouthed, and the so-called words often lack basic politeness."
Lejia's words and deeds not only affected his career, but also had a huge impact on his private life. There was a serious rift in his third marriage, which eventually ended in divorce.
Despite having a lovely daughter, the relationship could not be maintained.
Lejia's story teaches us that the power of words is a double-edged sword. It can make a person famous, or it can ruin a person. Lejia once reached the pinnacle of his career with his eloquence, but he also fell into a trough because of uncontrollable words.
This lesson may be worth pondering for everyone.
Le Jia's love life is as full of ups and downs as his career, and his three marriages have witnessed his life trajectory from high-spirited to down-and-out.
His first love can be called a "Cinderella" love. This "Bai Fumei" has a deep affection for Le Jia, but the class gap has become an insurmountable obstacle between them.
The opposition and dislike of the woman's parents hit Le Jia hard, and also inspired him to fight. Once Lejia drove his girlfriend to work, and was scolded by his girlfriend for driving slowly: "You can drive!" This sentence was like a thunderbolt from the sky, instantly shattering Le Jia's inner self-esteem.
He parked the car in the middle of the road and left in a rage. This incident became the motivation for him to work hard, and he secretly vowed to become a high-profile figure and prove his worth to the world.
However, after becoming famous, Lejia is no longer the humble young man. In his second marriage, his hubris even extended to family life. Sadly, he even resorted to violence against his own wife.
In the end, his wife, who could not bear the domestic violence, chose to leave him. This experience may have become one of the biggest stains on Lejia's life, and it also cast a shadow on his future career and life.
Although the third marriage had a lovely daughter, it ended for various reasons. What's even more regrettable is that his ex-wife passed away of cancer in June 2022, leaving her young daughter to rely on Le Jia for her life.
This blow seems to have made some changes to Lejia. He took his daughter from Dali and arrived in Lhasa in eight days to pray for the blessing of his deceased ex-wife. In this process, we see a softer Lejia, perhaps this is the true side of his heart.
When asked by reporters about his relationship with his ex-wife, Le Jia showed rare honesty and deep thought: "Whether it is suitable for marriage, she has always been the mother of my daughter Ling'er, and we used to love each other, which is a completely different thing between the three."
These words may reflect Lejia's new understanding of love and marriage.
The experience of three marriages made Lejia pay a heavy price. But at the same time, these experiences also made him gradually realize his own problems. Maybe in the future, we will see a more mature Lejia who knows how to cherish feelings.
Losing his former aura, Lejia began a new stage of his life. The gold medal host who used to talk eloquently on the stage has now chosen a completely different path.
He was no longer interested in studying the psychology of color, but chose to become a monk and study Buddhism. This shift may stem from a deep reflection on his past, or it may be a way for him to seek inner peace.
In the process of raising her daughter, Lejia showed a different side. He implemented the so-called "wolf education" on his daughter, which may seem too harsh to others, but it also reflects Lejia's hope that her daughter can have the same perseverance and unremitting spirit as himself.
He sent his daughter to the Shaolin Temple to let her experience the hardships of life. Not only that, Lejia also led her daughter on a hike through the desert. Throughout the process, he was determined not to let his daughter rely on himself, but encouraged her to rely on her own strength to complete the challenge.
Although this kind of education is unconventional, it may be that Lejia hopes that her daughter will be better able to cope with the difficulties she may face in the future based on her own life experience.
Lejia is still highly active on the Internet. He shared his life and his understanding of Buddhist philosophy and wisdom in life. These contents show a more calm and thoughtful Lejia.
His figure is well maintained and his complexion is a healthy tan, which is a sign that he is actively adjusting to his lifestyle.
However, the reality is often harsh. Although Lejia has nearly 40 million followers on social platforms, there are very few popular comments on his homepage.
This stark contrast is undoubtedly a harsh reality, perhaps reflecting a fundamental shift in public attitudes towards him.
At this stage, Lejia seems to be trying to find a balance. He tried to find a new place between the glory of the past and the blandness of the present. Although no longer the radiant host, he seems to have found a new way of life.
By studying Buddhism and educating her daughter rigorously, as well as sharing her life insights online, Le Jia seems to be redefining her life values. This process may be difficult, but it also allows us to see a Lejia who is trying to change and grow.
Perhaps it was one of the most rewarding journeys of his life.
Today's Lejia has shifted from the big stage to the commercial performance of a small county. This "celebrity" who once disdained a speech event with an audience of less than 10,000 people is now happy to go even if there are only 3,000 people, or even less.
This transformation is both helpless and a kind of growth.
Lejia's story continues. He used to be a life coach in the hearts of countless people, but now he has lost his former glory because of that too sharp mouth.
But as he created the theory of "personality colorology", everyone has their own unique color.
Maybe one day in the future, we will see a new Lejia, a more mature and stable Lejia who has learned a lesson, and stands in the spotlight again.
His experience tells us that life is always full of ups and downs, and the key is how to rediscover yourself and get a new life in the face of adversity.
There may be more unknown chapters to be written in Lejia's story. Regardless of the outcome, his experience will become a life lesson worth pondering.
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