"Wow, isn't that a big S? Why does it look so old-fashioned? Passerby A looked disgusted. "That's right, this figure is too blessed, isn't it, how can there be a goddess back then?" Passerby B echoed. Hearing this conversation, I couldn't help but pout. Big S was taken to the shopping with his children and was met by chance, but he was dissed like this by netizens because of his out-of-shape? Is there something wrong with our aesthetics? Isn't being a mother unworthy of beauty?
Recently, the photo of Da S and her husband Gu Junye taking their children to meet on the street has sparked heated discussions on the Internet. In the photo, Da S was wearing a loose black top and slacks, appearing without makeup, and was complained by netizens that he was fat and haggard. As soon as this news came out, it immediately attracted a sigh, and many netizens sighed: "Is this still the big S?" "Why has it changed so much?" "Totally unrecognizable!"
However, looking closely at the photos, the state of Big S is actually not as bad as netizens said. Although she was not well-dressed, she looked radiant and had a happy smile on her face. The husband and children around him are even more happy and satisfied. Isn't this a true portrayal of an ordinary mother taking her baby out on the street? Why do we have to use a magnifying glass to scrutinize every detail of others?
First of all, we need to understand that people grow old. Da S is 46 years old this year, as a mother of two children, isn't it normal for her figure and appearance to change? Do we expect her to stay in her 20s forever? This is also too unrealistic. Besides, people take their children shopping in a good manner, and they are not walking the red carpet, so why do they require people to be in perfect condition at all times?
Second, we should reflect on our own aesthetics. Why is a woman who is a little bless and older disliked? Is the value of women only about their appearance? Big S has a successful career and a happy family, isn't this more commendable than his simple appearance? Do we expect too much from women, especially mothers?
Furthermore, we need to learn to respect the privacy of others. Big S just took his children out to go shopping, but he was secretly photographed by passers-by and commented on by netizens. This behavior is inherently rude. Celebrities are also ordinary people, and they also have the right to live the life of ordinary people. Why do we ask them to look good 24 hours a day?
Finally, we should reflect on our values. Is a person's worth only reflected in appearance? Big S can succeed in his career and maintain a happy family, aren't these more important than appearance? Shouldn't we focus more on a person's inner qualities instead of just staring at other people's appearances?
So in the end, the editor wants to ask: If you are a big S and are judged like this, how would you feel? What do you think about this?