First, at the beginning of 2022, an ordinary dinner became a turning point in the life of the 44-year-old Jinsha. As a popular singer who had an affair with Lin Junjie, Jin Sha's "The Myth of the Stars and Moon" and "Blue Film" were the memories of countless people's youth.
As the years passed, she longed to find a real support at this age. At this dinner, 25-year-old Sun Chengxiao broke into her sight. The young man stared blankly at Jinsha for a minute or two.
The moment the two look at each other, it seems that time stands still, and "love at first sight" is no longer a part of a romantic story, but a reality. Sun Chengxiao, a young man born in the 00s, graduated from Shanghai Theater Academy and worked as a part-time art examination teacher.
His youth and vigor instantly ignited the spark in Jinsha's heart. And Jinsha's mature charm also deeply attracted Sun Chengxiao. The two quickly fell in love and began a much-talked-about romance.
The 19-year age gap has made this relationship questionable from the beginning. Voices from the outside world are disturbing, some say it's fame and fortune, some say it's property. But in Jinsha's eyes, Sun Chengxiao gave her all her favor and was the one who could be relied on.
She adheres to the attitude of "female college nineteen, I like it", and has no eyes in the unexpected world. Sun Chengxiao also proved her sincerity with her actions. He changed his tricks to cook food for Jinsha and took care of her daily life.
This thoughtfulness and intentions made Jinsha feel an unprecedented sense of being cherished. Despite the constant doubts from the outside world, the relationship between the two has become deeper and deeper. They believe in the fate between people, and believe that sincere feelings can cross the gap of age.
This began with a chance encounter, but with a tacit understanding like fate, Jin Sha and Sun Chengxiao found each other in the vast sea of people and started an unusual love journey.
With the relationship made public, Sun Chengxiao appeared for the first time in the variety show "Love's Study Trip" as Jinsha's boyfriend. However, his performance was a big surprise. In the face of Zhou Yiwei, Zhu Dan and other seniors in the circle, Sun Chengxiao looked extremely restrained, like a frightened deer, timid, and even forgot his girlfriend's age during the interview.
His performance attracted many complaints from the audience, and some even doubted whether he was "pretending". However, Jin Sha didn't mind this. She patiently comforted her boyfriend: "Don't be afraid", her eyes full of pampering and understanding.
In front of the camera, she happily said that the two had plans to meet their parents, showing confidence and expectation for this relationship. Jin Sha's tolerance and support made people see the temperature of this relationship.
In the face of doubts from the outside world, Sun Chengxiao was not indifferent. He admitted that he had concerns about "fear of being scolded", which was also the reason why he behaved restrainedly on the show.
In order to prove his sincerity, he took the initiative to propose the idea of notarization of premarital property. "I want to invite you to be my family after me", this sentence is not only a true confession to Jinsha, but also the best response to questions from the outside world.
After the show, Sun Chengxiao also wrote a sincere confession. He describes his journey from initial anxiety to gradual relief, and his words are full of longing for the future and sincerity "for the purpose of marriage".
Second, this passage not only shows his rich literary talent, but also reveals the cherishing of this relationship. Although his debut was not satisfactory, Sun Chengxiao's sincerity and courage have begun to quietly change people's impression of him.
He took the initiative to face doubts and tried to prove his sincerity, and this attitude showed his potential for growth. Although this performance was not good enough, Sun Chengxiao has already taken an important step.
He began to learn how to present himself in public, how to balance personal feelings and public image. Although the process was difficult, it also laid the foundation for his future growth.
As Zhou Yiwei said: "Choose your own posture and live your life in your own way, no matter how you explain it." Sun Chengxiao is learning how to be her true self, not the "Jinsha boyfriend" in the eyes of others.
After experiencing the twists and turns of "Love's Study Trip", Sun Chengxiao ushered in his turning point - participating in "Infinite Transcendence Class". When she first arrived on the set, Sun Chengxiao still looked a little nervous in the face of a strict environment.
When Er Dongsheng asked him if he had a psychological shadow, he bluntly said: "I may be a little afraid of authority. This sentence reveals his inner uneasiness and reflection on his past experiences.
However, when the camera was focused on him, a brand new Sun Chengxiao suddenly appeared. He and Jin Sha jointly completed the proposition performance given by the directors, and their professional performance surprised everyone present.
Three, at this moment, it was as if a light burst out from him, illuminating the entire stage. Director Wu Zhenyu, who has always been known for his sharpness, couldn't help but say something like "I'm in love with you".
This young man, who used to cower in front of the camera, now shows amazing acting skills and stage charm. Wu Zhenyu said bluntly: "Jinsha retires, he supports you."
Behind this joke is a high recognition of Sun Chengxiao's strength. What's even more surprising is that in the face of the producer's hesitation, Wu Zhenyu and Ning Jing, two mentors, actually assisted Sun Chengxiao in unison.
"He's inexperienced, but he can give him a chance." Wu Zhenyu even said on the spot that Jin Sha was not capable of taking him, and it was Sun Chengxiao who completed an excellent performance with his own strength.
At this moment, people seem to see a reborn Sun Chengxiao. He is no longer the "little boyfriend" who is timid in front of the camera, but an actor with professional qualities.
As Anita Yuen said: "This kind of person is terrifying, he seems to be a person who is not very good at talking, but as soon as he acts, he becomes a different person." Sun Chengxiao's performance not only won the favor of his mentors, but also allowed the audience to see his potential and strength.
This experience is undoubtedly an important turning point in his acting career. He used his strength to prove that he is not only "Jinsha's boyfriend", but also a talented and potential actor.
This amazing performance also opened the door to more possibilities for his future development. If "Infinite Transcendence Class" shows Sun Chengxiao's professional ability, then "Island Boy" allows people to see his life.
In this show, Sun Chengxiao took the initiative to act as a "man" and prepared delicious hard dishes for everyone. He stewed chicken and braised pork, and was very busy, showing a different ability from life on the stage.
However, his kindness was incomprehensible and reprimanded by the captain Chen Yunong. Chen Yunong kept urging Sun Chengxiao, but he was unwilling to help. When Sun Chengxiao considered that everyone was hungry and asked everyone to eat first, Chen Yunong took out the majesty of the captain and ordered everyone to put down their chopsticks.
"If I say don't move, don't move, or don't let me be the captain," are words full of unnecessary authority. In the face of Chen Yunong's aggressiveness, Sun Chengxiao showed maturity and rationality beyond his years.
He is neither humble nor arrogant, expresses his opinions reasonably, and maintains basic politeness even when he is unreasonably accused. When Chen Yunong stood and pointed at him to "scold", Sun Chengxiao calmly invited the other party to sit down and talk, showing a strong ability to control emotions.
What's even more impressive is that Sun Chengxiao also thoughtfully set the table outside before cooking, in order to make everyone eat more comfortably. However, such a considerate act has become redundant in Chen Yunong's eyes.
In the face of all kinds of sarcasm and accusations, Sun Chengxiao has always maintained rationality and restraint. In an invalid meeting that lasted five hours, Sun chose to stay away from the scene and gave up her right to vote.
Fourth, although this decision was incomprehensible to some people, it also won the approval of many rational audiences. After Jin Sha learned about it, she also publicly supported her boyfriend's decision, praising him for "rectifying the workplace after 00".
These performances let people see a mature and decisive Sun Chengxiao. He is no longer the submissive little boy that people remember, but an adult who can stay calm and think independently in complex environments.
As netizens said, he seems to have come to "suffer" by participating in the show, but in the process he has shown maturity far beyond his peers. Through "Island Boy", the audience saw another side of Sun Chengxiao: he not only has talent on stage, but also wisdom and responsibility in life.
This contrast has also made more people begin to re-examine this controversial relationship and see the value and charm of Sun Chengxiao as an independent individual. After experiencing the public's doubts and tests, the relationship between Jin Sha and Sun Chengxiao has increased instead of decreasing.
Sun Chengxiao interprets her love with actions, and often changes her tricks to cook food for Jinsha. This carefulness and thoughtfulness made Jinsha feel an unprecedented sense of being cherished.
Jin Sha made no secret of her miss for her boyfriend on social media. Especially after Sun Chengxiao went out to work for 41 consecutive days, the news she posted was full of concern for her lover.
This kind of public expression not only shows her cherishing of this relationship, but also allows the outside world to see the sincere feelings of this "sister and brother love". This relationship was not only cherished by the two, but also gradually gained the support of their families.
Sun Chengxiao's mother wrote a handwritten letter to Jin Sha, praising her for being "youthful and splendid, and a little bird depending on people". This recognition from the future mother-in-law undoubtedly gave Jinsha great encouragement, and also added a warm and family flavor to this relationship.
Sun Chengxiao also made a true confession to Jin Sha after a show. He confessed that his journey from initial anxiety to gradual relief is full of longing for the future and sincerity "for the purpose of marriage".
This touching confession not only touched Jinsha, but also allowed onlookers to see the depth and sincerity of this relationship. In this relationship, Jin Sha seems to have regained her girlish coquettishness, and she was spoiled by Sun Chengxiao to "become more and more like a little girl".
And Sun Chengxiao showed maturity and responsibility far beyond her age, and became a solid support for Jinsha. Although there are still doubts from the outside world, the two have proved the sincerity of this relationship with practical actions.
Their interactions are full of tacit understanding and warmth, whether it is the little care in daily life, or the mutual support in the face of the public, all show the depth and resilience of this relationship.
This relationship, which spans the age difference of 19 years, has not only not been defeated, but has become stronger and stronger after going through various tests. The story of Jin Sha and Sun Chengxiao also allows people to see the power of love and how sincere feelings can cross the gap of age and identity.
With Sunny Chengxiao's outstanding performance on various occasions, the public, who were once skeptical of this relationship, began to gradually change their views. From the initial large number of doubts and criticisms, to the emergence of a lot of "guilt fans" later, this transformation process just confirms what Jin Sha said "the world is impermanent".
In the face of changes in public opinion, Jin Sha has always maintained an indifferent attitude. She once said on social platforms: "The world is impermanent, don't be high", this calmness and rationality have also won the respect of more people.
She did not get carried away because of the improvement of public opinion, but faced it all with a peaceful mind. And Sun Chengxiao used his strength and actions to win the public's recognition step by step.
From being questioned at the beginning whether he was "seeking fame and fortune", to being praised for his acting skills and responsibility, this process of "promoting coffee" just confirmed Zhou Yiwei's advice to him: "Choose your own posture and live your life in your own way, no matter how you explain it, it's useless."
"The amazing performance in "Infinite Transcendence Class" and the mature attitude shown in "Island Boy" have allowed the public to see a new Sun Chengxiao. He is no longer just "Jinsha's little boyfriend", but a talented and responsible independent individual.
This reversal of public opinion is not only reflected in online comments, but also in the change in tone of media reports. More and more people are beginning to objectively look at this relationship that spans the 19-year age difference and recognize the sincere feelings between them.