Tutor stories
Let's talk about Lili's story, she is a little girl in the sixth grade, she has a very cheerful personality, and she likes a lot of things. However, she has a small problem, that is, she is easy to retreat when she encounters a problem, and she feels that it is in vain to persevere.
I remember that when Lili was in the fourth grade, she was particularly interested in dancing. She has a good figure and jumps smartly, and the teacher thinks she is a good seedling for dancing at first glance. When she started studying, she was very serious, and she practiced every day until she was sweating profusely.
However, it didn't take long for her to encounter problems, and there were a few movements that she couldn't do well, and she still didn't do it right after practicing many times. At this time, Lili was annoyed and said to the teacher: "I may not be the material for dancing, and it will be a waste of time to practice again." With that, she decided not to study.
The teacher listened and patiently said to her, "You know what? Those who dance very well are not great at the beginning, they also have to go through many, many times of practice and hard work, before they become dance stars in everyone's eyes. But Lili didn't listen and quit the dance class.
It didn't take long for her to become interested in painting again, but after a few days of painting, she found it difficult again and didn't want to paint again. Next, she also tried to learn piano, but it was all the same, and she gave up after a while.
So far, although Lili has tried a lot of things, she has not been able to really learn any of them well and become her specialty. This story tells us that don't give up easily when you encounter difficulties, because perseverance and hard work are the way to success!
Tutoring small feelings
In order for children to succeed, there is a particularly important thing, and that is strong willpower. This is like a small motor in our hearts, allowing us to keep rushing forward, not afraid of tiredness, not afraid of difficulties. As the old saying goes, without a strong will, no matter how smart you are, you can't make a big move. Because ah, talent can only help you for a while, but if you want to be truly successful, you have to rely on that perseverance and perseverance.
Think about it, if you are always enthusiastic about learning or doing things for three days and cool for two days, then how can you achieve your goal? Only those children who work hard every day and do not flinch when they encounter difficulties can have the last laugh and win the victory in life.
Grandpa Edison said that many people are just a little bit away from success, but they give up, not knowing that they can succeed if they persist a little longer. This is to show us how important it is to stay the course!
There are many people in the world who have dreams, but why do some people achieve them and others cannot? A lot of times, it's just a little bit of persistence. When confronted with problems, they doubt themselves and dare not face challenges. In fact, success and failure are sometimes just the difference between that door, but unfortunately many people don't have the courage to push it open.
Psychologists say that a strong will has four good friends: conscientiousness, persistence, self-control, and decisiveness. If children are always unconscious in learning, give up halfway, are easily attracted to other things, or hesitate, it is a sign that their willpower is not strong enough.
Of course, it is normal for children to be young and inexperienced, and their willpower is not as good as that of adults. But mom and dad can't ignore it, they have to help their children grow up slowly. From an early age, let the child plant a strong seed in his heart, and when he grows up, he will naturally be able to bravely face all kinds of challenges and pressures, and live a more positive and fulfilling life!
Teacher tips
If you want your child's willpower to become super strong, you don't grow it yourself, you have to exercise more in life, and your parents are the most important coaches!
First, encourage children to do their best in every little thing
Children are still young, and they are easily distracted by things, and they want to forget about difficulties when they encounter them. At this time, Mom and Dad want to hug them and say, "It's okay, take your time, what you're doing, it's great when it's done well!" For example, Wang Zipeng wiped the glass, don't worry if you can't wipe it clean, his mother told him: "If you wipe this small piece well, it will be a victory, and it will be faster slowly." "It's the same with homework, think about a few more steps when you encounter a problem, and don't give up easily.
Second, tell the stories of celebrities to inspire children
There is no successful person who does not rely on persistence and hard work. Parents can tell their children stories about great people, such as how Marie Curie studied diligently. Li Siyuan listened to Marie Curie's affairs, and his homework was much more serious. You can also watch movies and read biographies together, so that children can feel the power of perseverance.
Third, give children more opportunities to "endure hardships".
Today's children are so happy that they are even picked up and dropped off at school. Parents should let go and let their children experience the difficulties of life more. On weekends, I go hiking and help with household chores, so that children know the value of perseverance and hard work.
Fourth, set a goal and work together
Losing a goal is like getting lost, and children are prone to losing their way. Parents can help their children set small goals, such as reading a few more pages of a book and doing a few more questions every day. The goal should be moderate, too difficult will scare the child, too simple and not challenging. You can also split the big goal into small goals, step by step, and the child will be more confident.
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