In this rapidly changing society, we will always encounter various challenges. Sometimes, we feel suppressed and struck, but if we think about it from another angle, isn't this a kind of recognition? Today, I will talk to you about this topic: suppressing you is tantamount to recognizing you in disguise!
We all know that the workplace is like a battlefield. At work, when we perform well, we always attract the envy of our colleagues or superiors. They may speak ill of us behind our backs or even secretly obstruct our development. However, looking at it from another angle, this is actually a recognition of our capabilities. Because they suppress us because they are afraid that we will surpass them, that we will become a threat to them.
Similarly, in the world of feelings, when we meet competitors, they may deliberately belittle us in an attempt to make us lose confidence. However, this just shows that they see us as an adversary to be taken seriously. As the saying goes, "If you are not afraid of thieves stealing, you are afraid of thieves." "Being suppressed by the opponent is actually a recognition of strength.
In real life, we will also encounter many other forms of repression. For example, when we try to start a business, we may be questioned and opposed by friends and family. This is actually a test of our entrepreneurial ability, and it is also a kind of recognition. Because, they are afraid that we will fail, that we are on a path that they cannot understand.
So, what to make of this "suppression"? First of all, we need to learn to be confident. Don't doubt yourself because of the oppression of others, but trust your own ability and judgment. Second, we need to use this repression as a motivation. Prove your strength with facts, so that the other party has to admit our excellence. Finally, we need to be tolerant and understanding. Maybe those who oppress us, just out of worry and fear. We need to learn to empathize with them and be considerate of their feelings.
In short, suppressing you is tantamount to recognizing you in disguise. In life, we must not only learn to deal with oppression, but also be good at discovering the recognition behind it. Only in this way can we continue to grow and become a better version of ourselves in the face of various challenges. Let's do it together!