turned on the TV and relived "The First Half of My Life", no longer with the indignation of the hit that year, I found that the ending of "The First Half of My Life" is actually very intriguing:
Xiaosan Ling Ling not only did not break down her marriage, but with the assistance of Luo Zijun, she was disgusted by Chen Junsheng from the beginning, and finally won the understanding between husband and wife; Chen Junsheng, who betrayed his family, not only did not suffer retribution, but got better and better; Tang Jing and Luo Zijun's girlfriend relationship for many years finally collapsed because of a man, and they gradually became strangers; The congratulatory letter and Zijun, who love each other deeply, did not get along with each other, but forgot each other in the rivers and lakes.
To sum it up simply: girlfriends turn against each other, the junior is free, and lovers eventually become strangers. Isn't it ironic?
However, I was struck by this ending.
"The First Half of My Life" is not a high-quality drama, many of the plots are even very Mary Sue and illogical, but the ending, although not perfect, but it is likely that this is the truth of life.
It is normal for Ling Ling not to be divorced, because Chen Junsheng is the kind of character who walks around right and wrong, and more things are better than less things, as long as Ling Ling is good to him and doesn't cause trouble, their marriage will have no problem for a few more years, if Ling Ling can always maintain her IQ in marriage, they can last a lifetime if they don't do well between them.
In fact, most men are less willing to divorce, it is troublesome, too much, and not cost-effective.
Then back to the protagonist, we have watched too many TV series, and at the end, there must be a complete ending. Therefore, no matter how Luo Zijun and Tang Jing broke up, they would eventually meet each other with a smile and enmity, as if nothing had happened.
However, in real life, will the backlash between girlfriends be easily resolved? The answer is basically no. As Tang Jing said to Luo Zijun at the end of the play: Me and you, not us...... Maybe it will slowly stop caring in many years, but at least not now.
The two good friends who used to support each other passed by helplessly.
From close relatives to sparse, from near to far, Luo Zijun and Tang Jing's girlfriend relationship is really a true portrayal of friendship in real life.
Two women, with equal beauty and similar age, have the best school years as a foundation, and there is no competition, if they have the same interests and hobbies, it is easy to become good friends. So everyone began to chat, go shopping together, play together, and gradually thought that everything could last forever.
But then, it often gradually becomes discordful, and even turns against each other, usually, not for fame and fortune, but for men.
For example, Zhang Ailing was extremely friendly with Su Qing in her early years, and wrote articles praising Su Qing as a prosperous person in troubled times. said that if it is necessary to divide the female author into a special column to comment, then she can't be proud of comparing her with Bingxin, and she is only willing to be compared with Su Qing.
It seems that it is completely soul attracting, but in the end, it is for Hu Lancheng to turn against each other.
To be more realistic, for example, in the entertainment industry, there are often female stars who are praised by the media as "best girlfriends", but it often doesn't take long for both people's careers to become popular, and for the sake of fame and fortune, they can't be girlfriends.
So Shakespeare said, "Friendship is mostly fake, and love is mostly stupid, especially women, especially women in love, basically their friendship is a little difficult." ”
What's more, like Luo Zijun and Tang Jing, when the two girlfriends fall in love with the same person and man, basically, friends don't have to do it, if they are ordinary friends, there may still be room for maneuver, but Luo Zijun and Tang Jing know the root too well, the better, the more difficult it is to turn their faces.
Tang Jing began to say "thank you" to Luo Zijun, Luo Zijun no longer had the previous "energy" in front of Tang Jing, not because they were more mature. But when you see the unnatural politeness used by your friends, you can tell that their relationship has declined.
I especially like what Huang Tongtong said: When women were young, they formed a light friendship because of shopping and fun, and then they were easily broken because of fame or men, but with the passage of time, the world was bumpy, and they slowly opened up their wisdom.
It can almost be used as the best annotation of Tang Jing and Luo Zijun's girlfriend relationship. Therefore, when the first half of life passed away, these two people were destined to be strangers, and the perfect ending we were looking forward to would eventually be handed over to time, and the second half of life might be the answer.
I believe that one day Tang Jing can finally learn to let go of He Han, and Luo Zijun can also understand that love is never the best destination for women. Two women who have finally found themselves after the catastrophe and no longer please and rely on others meet in a café on the corner, smile indifferently, and turn the pages of the past. Talking and laughing, when I mentioned the past, I had the courage to analyze the stupidity and infatuation at that time, and sighed: It's not worth it.
But such a chic relief takes time after all.
I like the last conversation between Lao Zhuo and Tang Jing, Lao Zhuo said: He Han's departure is a good thing for you, the first half of your life is gone, live the second half of your life.
Tang Jing smiled and said: Leaving He Han, I can finally be myself again, and I don't have to live like him, or I think he will like it. This is Tang Jing's growth, all her previous works are because she is too competitive, and she wants to live her own way, but at the same time she is careful to cater to He Han.
The contradictions and fissions that happened within Tang Jing were actually the real awakening of independence. It's not that she doesn't love He Han, but she has been looking for herself in the past ten years with He Han. Congratulations to Tang Jing, after ten years of entanglement, she has found herself again.
As for Luo Zijun and He Han, Tang Jing's sentence in the car: Forgive me for not saying words of blessing, but it is actually a blessing.
That meant she was going to let go.
What about Luo Zijun and He Han?
Many readers have asked me this question, since Tang Jing has decided to let go, why can't they be together.
I asked her, "Why do you think so?"
She said: Because the screenwriter didn't dare to write the two of them together, otherwise he would be scolded to death.
Yes, that's the reason. The screenwriter didn't dare, and Luo Zijun and He Han didn't dare either.
If they end up together, then this story will become - stepping on the heartbreak of her best friend and successfully ascending to the throne, the first half of a woman's life.
Then Luo Zijun's character design and a lot of beauty before will be subverted. It was not the screenwriter who arranged this ending, but something in Luo Zijun's humanity that determined this ending - she lost a man and best friend, but kept the bottom line she had set.
So I guess that for the rest of her life, Luo Zijun will only miss He Han in her heart, and it wasn't until many years later that she met people and things that had nothing to do with Tang Jing and He Han, and the second half of her life could really begin.
At the end of the TV series, Luo Zijun and He Han each admit the wrong person and are honest with strangers. I used to think it was the screenwriter hinting that they would meet again, but now I think that's how they ended up - starting a new life, with only a little nostalgia for the past.
But in the end, it will pass, and the turmoil in my heart will be calm in the end.
The truth of life is: trekking through difficulties and walking without stopping, this is the common destiny of all people.
Therefore, Luo Luo, who lost Lao Zhuo, said: There is no rest today, and the restaurant is open as usual. Tang Jing, who lost He Han, said: I have to go to work, and there are still many things waiting for me.
So "The First Half of My Life", which seems to have no ending, writes the ending common to everyone in ordinary life: no matter what, life still has to go on.