Gu Jiming in "Dislocation", the experience before blackening is very empathetic.
Due to his poor family background and his parents' special occupations, Gu Jiming has been coldly regarded since he was a child, but fortunately, he excelled in his studies and received a lot of affirmation and praise, so he regained some self-confidence.
Perhaps that's why he's so eager to get ahead.
After entering the workplace, while working diligently, he has been writing novels in his spare time, hoping to be a blockbuster and admired.
It backfired, and he was repeatedly beaten, ridiculed, and even insulted.
His grief and humiliation can probably be felt by everyone who begs for a living in society.
When I watched the drama, I also felt that those who ridiculed and ignored Gu Jiming were too bad things, and Gu Jiming was too miserable, but when I calmed down and thought about it, I felt that Gu Jiming was bullied, and the reason was more because of himself.
He's really in a hurry.
First, before the thing is done, everyone who preaches it knows it.
When Gu Jiming's novel was not finished, everyone in the magazine, from leaders to colleagues, knew that he was writing a novel and wanted to publish it.
As a result, colleagues sneered:
"People write novels to win the Nobel Prize, how can they be seen in our magazine...... If not to shock the world, it will also shock the whole of Asia. ”
The leader also poured cold water:
“…… You are looking at the stars in the sun and daydreaming, where is it so easy to be a writer, just write well?
Look at it, in our editorial department, who can't write something...... If you want to succeed, someone has to appreciate you, someone has to be willing to help you, or it's just a rope in the hen's butt, bullshit! ”
It is human nature to not see the good of others, worship the high and the low, few people can tolerate your excellence, and few people really want you to succeed.
"Han Feizi · Difficult to Say" says: "Things are made in secret, and words are defeated." ”
What you want to do, before you do it, it's best not to be excited and show off everywhere.
First, lest others take the lead or use means behind the scenes, resulting in the failure of things;
Second, it is also to avoid falling into an embarrassing and passive situation if things are not done.
Gu Jiming's decision to write a novel in advance was nothing more than a show-off mentality, thinking that in this way others would affirm him and look up to him.
As a result, others did not get the high opinion of others, but were ridiculed and ridiculed.
Being a low-key person and doing things in a down-to-earth manner is not only a respect for others, but also a protection for oneself.
2. Self-recommendation at any time
Gu Jiming's boss, Editor-in-Chief Huang, needed a driver when attending the reception, so he brought Gu Jiming with him.
At the wine table, Gu Jiming saw that Su Zhe, the bigwig of the publishing house, was present, so he hurriedly rushed to toast, and after listening to the two kind words of others, he immediately took out his novel and asked for advice.
Too rude behavior not only embarrassed the other party, but also left a bad impression.
In the end, not only did he not get Su Zhe's appreciation, but he was also angrily scolded and ridiculed by his boss:
"What do you have, why can you be on top!"
Another time, Gu Jiming used two cans of tea to get Editor-in-Chief Huang to take him to a high-end banquet, and those who could participate were all people with heads and faces.
At the banquet, he was in a hurry to cling to the relationship, recognized a editor-in-chief, and hurriedly stepped forward to make friends, but as soon as he finished greeting people, he went straight to the point and asked people to point out his novels.
After Editor-in-Chief Huang figured out his identity, he said politely, and walked away under the pretext that he had something.
Turning around, he saw Su Zhenzhen (the daughter of publishing house boss Su Zhe) going to the balcony to breathe, and followed him again, asking people to take time to read his novels and help with guidance.
After being rejected by the other party, Gu Jiming chased after him, and was stopped by the rich second generation who pursued Su Zhenzhen.
The rich second generation is obviously not good, but Gu Jiming was too eager and gullible to believe the other party, and then he was humiliated.
When no one appreciates it, there is nothing wrong with seizing the time to show your talents, but if you go too far and use too much force, you will often not get the results you want, and it will cause others to resent you.
3. In a hurry, he is bound by fame and fortune
After being humiliated by the rich second generation, Gu Jiming left the drinking party in humiliation, and happened to save Su Zhenzhen, who was in a car accident, on the way.
Originally, after he refused the reward given by Su Zhenzhen's father Su Zhe, he had already been recognized by Su Zhe, and instead gave him a business card of extraordinary significance.
As long as he is willing to work hard in a down-to-earth manner, he will ask Su Zhe in the future, Su Zhe will definitely guide him and give him a chance, maybe he can get Su Zhe's real appreciation, and the road will get wider and wider.
However, he was too eager to seize this opportunity, and in order to increase the bargaining chips of this favor, he deliberately approached Su Zhenzhen, accompanied and encouraged the other party, making the relationship more and more complicated, and had to be controlled by others.
In the end, he compromised for the sake of fame and fortune, and in order to publish the novel as soon as possible, he plagiarized other people's works; In order to conceal the truth and clear the obstacles, he killed his girlfriend and the fetus in his girlfriend's womb.
At this point, Gu Jiming was completely bound by fame and fortune, looking for sought-after players for fame, playing tricks for profit, and even picking up a butcher's knife again in order to extinguish his mouth, and he had no intention of creating at all.
However, trying to take shortcuts will lead to a desperate situation.
Gu Jiming was finally punished by the law, ruined and discredited, and had nothing.
There is a saying in the "Analects" that if you want to be fast, you will not reach it, and if you see small profits, you will not succeed in big things.
If you are too eager for quick success and quick success, and only think about one step to reach the sky, you will not only lose a big one because of a small loss, but also fall into the abyss if you are not careful.
Gu Jiming seems to be involuntarily, but in fact, he is too eager for quick success and quick profit, which is embarrassing.
I like a quote:
All the ease that comes at your fingertips is the precipitation of accumulation.
Encourage everyone.
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