The logic of the relationship between men and women is different, which also leads to the different attitudes of both parties towards the relationship.
When a woman falls in love with someone, she will give her all her heart and soul for the other person.
But if the love is diminished, she will not be so concerned about many things between you.
In a relationship, when a man is emotionally satisfied, he wants to have his own space and free time. But once a woman really doesn't like to cling to you, it's often when she doesn't love you that much.
Women will get along with you like this when they don't love you that much, so don't get me wrong.
1. I don't usually like to reply to your messages
There is a saying: "Men are cruel when they are confronted with people they do not love." ”
Actually, it's the same with women.
When she doesn't have that much affection for you emotionally, she won't always think about what you're doing, won't care if you're accompanied by other people, and won't mind if you're chatting with other women......
If she doesn't have much affection for you in her heart, her attitude towards you will also become cold.
Sometimes I see a message from you, but because she wants to finish other things at hand first, she can't reply in time. Finally, by the time she remembers it when she's done, she's long since lost the desire to get back to your message.
She doesn't like to reply to your messages because she doesn't feel the need for you to continue to be in close contact anymore.
In other words: she doesn't love you that much, so she doesn't have anything to say to you.
2. I don't expect to see you on weekends
If a person loves you, they will look forward to meeting you in their leisure time. Even if the two of you have talked a lot in private chat, she is not afraid that she will be speechless when she meets you.
For her, being able to meet you will bring a great sense of happiness to her heart.
On the other hand, if she doesn't think you need to see each other often, or even miss you if you don't see you for a long time, then you probably don't occupy much of a place in her heart.
Love can make people lose their minds, but if she is awake all the time, it actually means that she doesn't love you that much.
On the weekends, she may spend time with friends or develop her hobbies, but she doesn't miss you too much outside of those things.
She is sober and rational and doesn't like to clingy people, which doesn't mean that she is very independent in her relationship, but that she doesn't love you that much.
When there is not so much love in the heart, a woman will be independent.
She won't stick to you when you're not in her heart.
3. She doesn't follow your Moments
If a woman loves you very much in her heart, most of the time she will care about what content you post in your circle of friends, and sometimes she will repeatedly watch the videos you post, or zoom in on the photos you posted.
She wants to absorb more useful information from the content you post on Moments, so as to get to know you better.
But if she doesn't love you that much emotionally, then she won't deliberately pay attention to the content of your circle of friends.
She doesn't care which of your friends you go with in private, doesn't care if you're surrounded by the opposite sex who is better than her, and doesn't even bother to ask too many details when you're not with her.
In her view, both of you are separate individuals, and you have complete choices to govern your actions. Of course, she thinks this way because she has the courage to leave you at any time.
She didn't fall in love, and she didn't love you very much. So she is not afraid of losing you, and she is not afraid of you messing with flowers and grass outside.
She doesn't love you that much, so naturally she doesn't pay so much attention to you.
As the saying goes, people will see people over time.
The same is true in relationships.
She doesn't usually like to reply to your messages; I don't expect to see you on weekends; Even if you post something in your circle of friends, she won't pay too much attention to it...... This kind of performance shows that she doesn't love you so much.
You have never entered her heart, so you will feel her imminent separation.
See it early on, and don't think she loves you by giving you space and freedom. In fact, on the contrary, she will let you go because she doesn't love you so much.