The wife who delivered the goods to the door ran away from the compensation, and the "Viet Nam bride" turned out to be a black industrial chain.
On the southwestern border of the mainland, you can see advertisements for Viet Nam brides plastered all over the streets.
The so-called "matchmaker" can even provide you with a one-stop service of selection, blind date and marriage, and even deal with after-sales problems.
But in fact, many Sino-Vietnamese marriages are a game, and the husband and wife may not even see a photo before marriage.
With the description of the bride by the "matchmaker" agent, a lifelike, virtuous and kind wife image appears in front of you.
With the change of population ratio and ideology, many rural boys cannot get married because of high fees.
Unable to fulfill the pedantic mission of the so-called "inheritance of the lineage", the Viet Nam bride became their choice.
1. Love with a clear price, you will come if you have money
In the 21st century, you can still see advertising slogans like "20,000 yuan can buy a virgin", and what is even more exaggerated is that such a black industry is blatantly developing and growing.
By 2015, there was a serious imbalance between men and women in the mainland, with nearly 30 million more men than women, which is inevitably the result of the prejudice of "preference for sons over women".
Viet Nam, one of the continent's southern neighbors, presents a diametrically opposite situation, with a staggering ratio of males to females5.
Polygamy has become the norm that cannot be regulated by law.
With the implementation and deepening of the mainland's reform and opening up policy, the results have been outstanding, and the mainland's national happiness and international influence have been significantly improved.
Many Viet Nam girls yearn for a happy life in China and a beautiful transnational marriage.
Many boys in rural China are forced by social pressure and lack of financial support to marry a daughter-in-law.
In this way, transnational marriages appeared, but unfortunately, what was supposed to be an act to promote friendly relations between the two countries was fueled by capital and black intermediaries, and Viet Nam brides became "commodities" with clear prices.
If there is demand, there will be a market, and vice versa, using the market to induce demand.
However, there are also legal marriage agencies, although the price is as high as 200,000, they include the introduction fee, the man's blind date to Viet Nam, wedding accessories and other expenses.
Many matchmaking agencies promise to pay out if the bride runs away later.
In fact, once the transaction is successful, you can hardly contact the agent, and then you will end up with no personal wealth.
Second, what you can buy is marriage, but what you can't buy is happiness
Many of the men who choose Viet Nam brides are men of working age in poor rural areas, who are in poor and backward mountainous areas and want to find a virtuous and capable wife.
Introduced by the "matchmaker", most Viet Nam women are portrayed as "in the hall and in the kitchen", and the high expectations are often not met.
Many Viet Nam women who married into China did not change their miserable lives, but were in dire straits.
Some men need to go out to work, leaving only their wives and families in the house, and the bride is forced to become a fertility tool and a cheap nanny.
Even though a small number of Viet Nam women are fluent in Chinese, the vast majority of Viet Nam brides still face the dilemma of language barriers.
The differences in language and culture have also deepened the contradictions between husband and wife and mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and the extreme ones have even embarked on the road of no return to homicide.
From the advertising slogan, we can see that this is not a marriage of your will, and not all Viet Nam brides are willing to marry to China.
As a result, the "problem of human trafficking" has become more rampant, and Viet Nam even recorded 35 cases of human trafficking in one year, and this is only a known case.
Some of the older brides have a more miserable fate, their husbands are not hurtful and their children are not filial, and in order to support the whole family, they are forced to become erotic service workers in bad places.
Those Viet Nam women who were sold into the mountains could not get out of the country for the rest of their lives, and if it were not for this huge scam, perhaps they would have had the opportunity to live an ordinary life.
Because this is a transactional marriage, many Viet Nam women who marry into China cannot obtain a legal hukou.
Some of them are directly smuggled over from black households, so their lives and rights and interests are not protected by law.
The mother is a black household, the father is a poor bastard who doesn't care about anything, and the children born are also at the beginning of the collapse, and they can't settle down.
This is absolutely unfair to children, who cannot grow up healthily under the protection of national policies like ordinary children.
Some brides abandoned their husbands and children because they could not stand the abuse of their in-laws and lived in extreme poverty, and fled back to Viet Nam.
The intermediary company that previously claimed to "run away with compensation" has become several overseas empty accounts, and the wives who married tens of thousands of yuan are gone, and the children are also gone.
What's more, some Viet Nam women have been married countless times, and marriage has become their profession.
Every marriage is clearly priced, and with their excellent appearance and acting skills, they have obtained a lot of money on the road of cheating marriage.
Brides with a little humanity will sneak away after giving birth, but there are many who only intend to cheat money from the beginning.
They teamed up with intermediary companies to "sell" themselves in harmony with each other, and finally they could help themselves count the money, so that they could "have everything and run away with compensation".
3. There is no harm if there is no buying and selling
For such cases, the attitude of "not filing the case and not accepting it" is generally adopted.
In fact, this seems humane, after all, whether it is the "black bride" or the "black mother", they both carry the happiness of the two families.
Of course, the desire to get married and have children cannot be the initiator of the tragedy, because there are still many people who have obtained happy families because of the Sino-Vietnamese marriage.
What we should spurn is the capitalists who operate a whole black industry chain behind the scenes, accumulating money through fraud and illegal acts.
They inhumanely equated "human trafficking" with "marriage and love", and created a tragedy of separating wives and families breaking up.
In fact, not only Viet Nam brides, but also many neighboring countries such as Laos and Myanmar have similar deals.
And the return of foreign brides is not always marriage, and many domestic sex industries also provide "import services" at lower prices.
epilogue
Marriage is the grave of love, so what is the meaning of the existence of marriage that is not based on love?
We can't criticize the existence of a phenomenon like the "Viet Nam bride", after all, at some levels, it does address many practical needs.
But a series of black industry chains have made these supposedly happy marriages a means of capital accumulation, and buying and selling have turned happiness into a luxury.
What the law restricts is the action, and what the morality restricts is the heart.
Strengthening ideological and moral education while increasing productive forces is the key to national development and people's happiness.
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