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In 2004, a news that shocked the business world spread like thunder: IT giant Ding Jian, a successful entrepreneur worth tens of billions, filed for divorce from his wife Xiao Hua, who had been married for 13 years, in order to marry Xu Gehui, a well-known CCTV host.
What's even more eye-popping is that he offered a sky-high breakup fee of 100 million yuan.
At that time, Xiao Hua had just given birth to their second child and was in confinement. Ding Jian said to her coldly: "I don't have any feelings for you anymore, this 100 million is compensation and leave with the child."
This wealthy marriage quickly became the focus of the media. People can't help but wonder: What kind of charm makes Ding Jian so decisive? How did Xu Gehui get involved in this marriage? What kind of love and hatred are behind it? Let's unveil this complex relationship together.
In 1986, Ding Jian, a top student from the Department of Chemistry of Peking University, embarked on a study in the United States. On the campus of the University of California, he met Xiao Hua, an international student also from China.
Xiao Hua not only has outstanding appearance, but also has become a "three-good student" on campus with excellent grades and comprehensive quality. In contrast, although Ding Jian is not the type with outstanding appearance, his intelligence and firm belief deeply attracted Xiao Hua.
Ding Jian fell in love with Xiao Hua at first sight and launched a passionate pursuit. He prepares a small gift for Xiao Hua every day, and no matter how bad the weather is, it will be delivered to her on time.
At the same time, he used his learning ability to take the initiative to help Xiao Hua solve problems and accompany her to review her homework. This perseverance finally touched Xiao Hua's heart, and the two fell in love.
However, the real test does not begin until graduation. Faced with attractive high-paying job opportunities, Ding Jian chose the path of entrepreneurship full of unknowns, and co-founded "AsiaInfo" with his friends.
In order to fully support Ding Jian's career, Xiao Hua resolutely gave up his high-paying job and joined Ding Jian's company and became his most effective assistant.
The road to entrepreneurship was full of thorns, and the company was on the verge of bankruptcy at one point. At this difficult time, Xiao Hua not only exerted his talents in the company to help tide over difficulties, but also kept the family in order, so that Ding Jian could devote himself to his career.
Her wisdom and dedication have injected strong impetus into the development of the company.
Thanks to Xiao Hua's silent dedication, Ding Jian proposed to her when the company was just improving. The two work together together. With the continuous expansion of the company, the lives of Ding Jian and Xiao Hua are gradually on the right track.
Xiao Hua is not only Ding Jian's virtuous helper, but also the backbone of the family, taking on the responsibility of taking care of children and cultivating the next generation.
With Xiao Hua's full support, Ding Jian was able to focus on his career development. With his own efforts and talents, he made the company bigger and bigger, and finally successfully entered the international market and achieved listing.
Ding Jian has also become a high-profile outstanding entrepreneur in one fell swoop, completing a gorgeous turn from scratch.
However, just when Ding Jian's career was at its peak, the gears of fate quietly turned. An unexpected figure is about to appear and completely change the beautiful blueprint that the couple has been building together for more than a decade.
At an important corporate summit, fate made Ding Jian and Xu Gehui, a well-known CCTV host, meet unexpectedly. Xu Gehui, a beautiful woman known as "Little Ni Ping", instantly attracted Ding Jian's attention with her unique charm and talent.
Born in Beijing, Xu Gehui has had a passion for dance, music and broadcasting since he was a child. With her own efforts, she was successfully admitted to the broadcasting major of Communication University, and thus embarked on the road of host.
At the important moment of Hong Kong's return to the motherland, Xu Gehui served as the host of the whole process, which made her famous in China and became a household name TV personality.
After the summit, a friendly skiing competition became an opportunity for Ding Jian and Xu Gehui to get closer. Facing Xu Gehui, who couldn't ski, Ding Jian took the initiative to teach skills.
On the snowy ski slopes, the hearts of the two unconsciously approached.
After that, Ding Jian and Xu Gehui began frequent exchanges. Ding Jian regained his enthusiasm for pursuing Xiao Hua and prepared exquisite gifts for Xu Gehui every day. It's just that this gift is more luxurious and extravagant than when he pursued Xiao Hua back then.
Day after day, Xu Gehui gradually developed a good impression of Ding Jian.
However, while Ding Jian was passionately pursuing Xu Gehui, a heart-wrenching fact was that his wife, Xiao Hua, was silently pregnant with their second child at home.
Xu Gehui had no idea about this, and she was immersed in the longing for a new relationship.
In the process of the development of this ambiguous relationship, Xu Gehui was shocked to realize that he was also pregnant. After careful consideration, she decided to confess to Ding Jian. Hearing the news, Ding Jian's heart was agitated, and he did not hesitate to say that he wanted to divorce Xiao Hua and marry Xu Gehui.
In 2004, when Xiao Hua had just given birth to her second child and was still in confinement, Ding Jian coldly filed for divorce from her. He said: "To be honest, I have long lost my feelings for you, although I am willing to pay you 100 million yuan as an apology, but leave me with the child!" What's even more chilling is that he also unceremoniously asked Xiao Hua not to interfere in his marriage with Xu Gehui.
This decision was like a bolt from the blue, and it shook everyone. Ding Jian ruthlessly abandoned his wife and newborn child who had been silently dedicated for many years for the sake of a "third party".
Despite the torment in his heart, Xiao Hua still chose to be fulfilled. She resolutely ended her 13-year marriage and went to United States with her two young children to start a new life.
Ding Jian used 100 million yuan as compensation, trying to use money to eliminate the guilt in his heart. However, in the eyes of outsiders, this huge compensation is tantamount to a naked humiliation of this marriage.
In the end, Ding Jian got his wish and tied the knot with Xu Gehui, and Xu Gehui also gave birth to a lovely daughter soon after marriage. This love triangle ended with the union of Ding Jian and Xu Gehui.
Ding Jian and Xu Gehui's marriage seemed to be beautiful at the beginning. The newlywed Yan'er soon welcomed a lovely daughter, and the family life seemed to be happy.
However, as time went on, some discordant voices began to creep around the internet.
The storm of public opinion is menacing. Speculation and rumors about the past of Ding Jian and Xu Gehui are rife on the Internet, and people have questioned whether their relationship was premeditated and whether there are unspeakable secrets.
In the face of overwhelming doubts, Ding Jian chose to stand up and try to protect Xu Gehui. He claimed that he deliberately concealed his past marital status, which led Xu Gehui to fall into the relationship without knowing it.
However, instead of calming public opinion, Ding's explanation has raised more questions. The public did not buy it, but thought that Xu Gehui also intended to take this opportunity to cling to Ding Jian's wealth and status.
For a time, labels such as "junior superior" and "abandoning righteousness for profit" were attached to Xu Gehui.
In the face of the overwhelming accusations, Xu Gehui felt under pressure. She firmly stated that she loved Ding Jian as a person, not his wealth. She declared that she didn't care about Ding Jian's past, let alone coveted his property.
She just hopes to create a better future with Ding Jian.
Xu Gehui knew that he had to prove his worth. She does not want to repeat Xiao Hua's mistakes, but hopes to gain a firm foothold in this marriage with her own efforts.
She continued to work hard and try to make a difference in her career to prove that she was not dependent on Ding Jian to live.
However, no matter how they explain and try, the public will always be skeptical. The newlyweds had to struggle under the pressure of public opinion, and their marriage faced an unprecedented test.
Every public appearance attracts countless pairs of scrutinizing eyes; Every decision may become the target of public opinion.
At the same time, Xiao Hua, who was far away in the United States, silently guarded his children and started a new life. Her strength and independence are in stark contrast to Xu Gehui.
Xiao Hua chose to remain silent and focus on raising her children, an attitude that instead won the public's sympathy and respect.
Ding Jian and Xu Gehui's marriage has been shrouded in a huge shadow of public opinion from the beginning. They had to manage the questionable relationship in the public eye, trying to prove that they had made the right choice.
However, the gloom of the past lingers, and it is still unknown whether they can truly achieve happiness. This controversial marriage may be destined to endure a long test on the cusp of public opinion.
There is no doubt that Ding Jian is an outstanding entrepreneur. His success story is a business legend, showcasing extraordinary intelligence, fearless courage and exceptional decision-making.
From a top student at Peking University to an entrepreneur who has returned from studying abroad, Ding Jian's every step shows his business talent and vision.
When he founded AsiaInfo, Ding Jian decisively gave up his high-paying job and chose a challenging entrepreneurial path. In the face of adversity, he has shown extraordinary leadership and led the company through difficult times one after another.
He is adept at identifying and nurturing talent, creating an efficient and collaborative work atmosphere. He leads by example and sets a positive working attitude and values for the team.
Under Ding's leadership, AsiaInfo has grown from a start-up to an industry leader, and finally successfully listed and entered the international market. This series of achievements has made Ding Jian a high-profile business elite, and his worth has also risen, and he has become a billionaire.
However, Ding Jian made an unforgivable mistake in the handling of family relationships. He has lived up to his wife Xiao Hua's silent support and selfless dedication over the years. It was Xiao Hua who gave up his high-paying job to fully support Ding Jian's entrepreneurship and gave key help to the company in the most difficult period.
She is not only the strong backing of Ding Jian's career, but also the backbone of the family, silently taking care of her children.
But when his career was successful, Ding Jian chose to betray. For the sake of his new love Xu Gehui, he did not hesitate to abandon his wife and young children who had just given birth to their second child. The breakup fee of 100 million yuan may be a compensation in Ding Jian's view, but for Xiao Hua, it is a humiliation for her many years of relationship.
Money can never measure the value of a marriage, let alone compensate for the damage caused by betrayal.
Ding Jian's choice sparked a wide discussion in society.
Ding Jian's experience tells us that true success is not only about career brilliance, but also about how to manage one's relationship and family. A person who is unable to take on family responsibilities can hardly be said to be perfect even if he is successful in his career.
Ding Jian uses his own behavior to illustrate the other side of "success" - when personal interests and moral responsibilities conflict, how should we choose? This question may be worth pondering for everyone.
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