Preface:
If a woman loves you enough, there must be no room for sand in her eyes! But many men ignore this and only see the woman's unreasonable trouble, but they don't know that if the other party doesn't even have the idea of making trouble, then they really want to leave.
Zhang Bin, the former famous host of CCTV Sports Channel, once encountered a big scene on the show by his second-married wife, which almost made him lose his job. But after understanding why his second wife did this, he tearfully chose to forgive!
17 years have passed since that farce, but the relationship between Zhang Bin and his second wife has become deeper and deeper, and there is no longer any suspicion in the past.....
On December 18, 2007, when the sports channel was introducing table tennis player Wang Nan, a woman suddenly appeared on the scene.
The arrival of his wife made him very nervous, and he hurriedly stepped forward to pull his wife, but his wife rushed directly to the stage and picked up the microphone to tell her story, which shocked the national audience as soon as she opened her mouth.
Where is this commentary athlete, it is clearly a large-scale melon-eating scene. Unexpectedly, a personable host would play so openly behind the scenes, not only accompanied by beautiful women at home, but also fluttering colorful flags outside.
The woman who made a big fuss on the scene was Zhang Bin's second wife, and the two have been married for several years and their relationship has always been good.
But she didn't expect that she would be threatened by a woman by chance, and the other party asked her to leave Zhang Bin, who was already pregnant and had a child, and the child was Zhang Bin's. Hearing the news, Zhang Bin's second wife Hu Ziwei was furious, and then she had the idea of running to the show site to make a big fuss and wanting to destroy her husband.
After this farce, Hu Ziwei and Zhang Bin were both stopped from recording the show and went home unemployed. Hu Ziwei also works at CCTV, once upon a time, the two often went in and out of pairs, and they were recognized by everyone as a "loving couple".
But now, at this point, can the marriage of the two be saved? Perhaps, both of them have experienced a failed marriage, and they will better understand the truth that it is easy to fall in love but difficult to stay together.
In 1987, Zhang Bin entered the Department of Journalism of Renmin University to study, and almost all the talents cultivated by this school were prepared for CCTV.
Being able to graduate here is a status symbol in itself. When Zhang Bin was a freshman, he worked part-time many times, not only reporting on domestic sports, but also commenting on foreign stars, which can be described as very hard.
In the four years of college, he has accumulated solid experience, but after graduation, he did not become a host, but was assigned to work in the Beijing TV editing room.
Writing quietly, and being a sports journalist, he prefers the latter. But he was not in a hurry to change jobs, but worked silently and waited until the right time to enter CCTV's sports channel to work hard.
Finally, after 2 years of work, he happened to know that CCTV Channel was openly recruiting hosts, and hundreds of people were vying for a position, which was huge but also challenging.
He doesn't have much experience, it's not enough to just be on stage, he needs more professional ability. For this reason, he quit his job and went to a training class to study for a period of time, specializing in broadcasting, sports and other knowledge.
The turning point in his life began when he entered CCTV. Here he met his first love and accomplished what he had always wanted to do.
During his tenure at the Sports Channel, he successively participated in the production and hosting of columns such as "Football Night" and "World Football", which can be described as both in front of and behind the scenes.
In 2001, he presided over the successful Olympic bid report "Olympiad: Our Common Festival", and he also won the annual sports program award and the first prize of the news channel.
Since then, Zhang Bin has become a golden sign of the sports channel, as long as it is a program hosted by him, the ratings will skyrocket.
However, he had a successful career, but his marriage was unsatisfactory. After he entered CCTV, he met his first wife, who was also the host of CCTV channel, and the two fell in love and got married, but because of work, they couldn't take care of each other.
After giving birth to a child, his wife took care of the family alone, and it was inevitable that he would complain, and he was very busy with work, so he had no time to communicate with his wife.
Every time his wife wanted to talk to him, he was busy, and in the end, his wife couldn't accept this kind of "widowhood" life and divorced him completely.
The moment Zhang Bin got the divorce certificate, he completely woke up and lost his home! He left the house to his wife and children, and he left the house himself, where will he go to rest in the future?
During that time, Zhang Bin could only take his luggage to live in the company's collective dormitory.
In his first marriage, he was married in a hurry, and then divorced in a hurry, and when he first divorced, he did not feel lonely. But when he saw his colleague's family of three traveling, he realized what he had lost.
In order to save his wife, he took the initiative to come to the door many times, but his wife has completely given up on him, and the two can only be "relatives and friends". For the sake of the children, he will not leave his ex-wife, mother and son alone, but the connection between them is only the children.
After being single for seven or eight years, he met Hu Ziwei at work.
Hu Ziwei graduated from Beijing Film Academy, and after graduation, she worked in Beijing TV Station, and she can be regarded as a person from the same unit as him.
Hu Ziwei also experienced a failed marriage, but her children lived with their father and did not take them with her. After the two met, the bamboo shoots after the Lucky Star Chinese Restaurant of love popped up, and they couldn't stop it.
In 2004, the two fell in love for more than a year and quickly entered into marriage. After marriage, the two worked hard together, and no one was delayed because of marriage.
After 4 years of peaceful love, a storm swept through the family. While Hu Ziwei was cooking at home, a woman called her and said she was Zhang Bin's lover.
Wife? The other party is a lover, what is she? Originally, her husband had always had scandals, but there was no substantial evidence, but this time a woman suddenly came to the door and came directly to the door, which made her a little annoyed.
The other party did not show up, but Hu Ziwei had been disrupted and went directly to the show to make a fuss. As everyone knows, such behavior will bring a devastating blow to her husband.
Before making a big fuss about her husband's show, Hu Ziwei had already been suspended by the unit because of the "paper bun" incident, and the blow to her career made her temperament change greatly.
At this time, she was attacked by a "scandal", which made her lose her mind, and she had the idea of destroying her husband, but she happened to fall into the trap of others.
After a long time, the two learned that this matter was someone else's bureau back then, and they just wanted to kick her husband out of the sports channel. However, although both were suspended, after figuring out the ins and outs, her husband chose to forgive her and did not divorce. They have both experienced a failed marriage and will cherish each other more.
Second-married couples, also known as halfway couples, will be more cautious and suspicious than first-time marriages. After thinking it through, they finally choose to forgive each other's actions and move on with their lives.
Later, the two gave birth to a pair of twins, and CCTV reinstated the two of them after finding out what happened. In this way, the two have lived peacefully for 17 years, and their relationship is deeper than before!
Epilogue:
The ups and downs of marriage have never been less, it just depends on how we deal with them. When you lose your mind, no matter how much you love each other, there will be contradictions and irresolvable hatred. Only by calming down can we overcome obstacles and achieve true happiness.