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In 2013, shortly after Li Tianyi was imprisoned for committing a crime, Li Shuangjiang's eldest son, Li He, offered to take care of his ailing father, Li Shuangjiang, at Li Shuangjiang's hospital bed. This is a question worthy of further study, and he can sincerely express his willingness to take care of his father and let him live for the rest of his life.
Speaking of which, we have to start from the beginning. It is said that in 1968, Li He fell to the ground, his father was the famous Li Shuangjiang, and his mother was a woman named Ding Ying.
It stands to reason that with such a big-name father, Li He should live a life of fine clothes and fine food. But the reality is: Li He has not been close to his father since he was a child. Why?
To put it bluntly, Li Shuangjiang was busy working hard in the music world at that time, how could he have the kung fu to take care of his son? Not to mention the son, even the wife can't take care of it. When Li He was 5 years old, Li Shuangjiang finally gained a firm foothold in the music world, and brought his whole family to Beijing.
Xiao Li He thought that he would be able to see his father every day from now on, but who would have thought that this busy father would still be away from home all year round. What's more, Li Shuangjiang didn't even hold a parent-teacher meeting for Li He.
Do you think this child can not lack love? But Li He did not complain about his father, but was proud of his father's achievements. He thought to himself: When I grow up and become a character like my father, he will definitely see me.
It's a pity that God didn't fulfill people's wishes, Li He didn't wait for his father's approval, but waited for the bad news of his parents' divorce. This was a bolt from the blue for Li He.
Fortunately, his mother was sensible and told him: "Even if I divorce your father, your father will always be your father." These words took root in Li He's heart.
Let's talk about Li Shuangjiang, he remarried soon after the divorce and gave birth to a son, Li Tianyi. Now it's okay, Li He has completely become an "invisible person". On the other hand, Li Tianyi grew up in his father's favor since he was a child, and he has what he wants.
In 2013, Li Tianyi was imprisoned and sentenced to 10 years. This can hit Li Shuangjiang hard, and he can't afford to get sick. At this juncture, Li He, the "invisible man", suddenly appeared and said that he would take care of his father. This can make everyone stunned.
It is reported that since Li He offered to take care of Li Shuangjiang, the relationship between the father and son has indeed improved significantly. Li Shuangjiang expressed his guilt for Li He many times during his illness, and also tried to make up for his past debts.
Li He proved his filial piety with practical actions. Not only did he find time out of his busy schedule to take care of his father, but he also did not have any rejection of Li Shuangjiang's current wife. This kind of tolerance and generosity has won the appreciation of many people.
At the same time, Li He's low-key and humble have also been recognized by all walks of life. According to a person familiar with the matter, although Li He studied abroad and got a good job, he never used his father's reputation to benefit himself.
On the contrary, he has maintained a low-key lifestyle, working hard and being filial to his parents. It is worth mentioning that Li He did not gloat over what happened to his younger brother Li Tianyi.
In an interview, he said that he hoped that his younger brother would realize his mistakes and make amends. This tolerant attitude also made many people look up to him.
The appearance of Li He not only improved the quality of life of Li Shuangjiang in his later years, but also saved the public image of Li Shuangjiang's family to some extent. This once neglected eldest son used his actions to interpret what true filial piety is.
One is the eldest son who has lacked love since he was a child and works his own, and the other is the youngest son who was born with a golden spoon and is pampered. The life trajectory of these two brothers is simply heaven and earth.
Li He has not been cared for by his father since he was a child, but he did not give up on himself. Instead, he studied hard, worked part-time to complete his studies, and later made his mark abroad. This spirit of self-reliance and self-improvement is truly admirable.
On the other hand, Li Tianyi grew up in his father's doting since he was a child. To get the wind and the rain, to develop an arrogant and domineering character. In the end, it caused a catastrophe, not only did he go to prison, but also his father's reputation was discredited.
The comparison between these two brothers can't help but make people sigh: excessive doting may harm the child. A moderate "snub" may be able to make children grow up better.
Some people say that Li He and Li Shuangjiang have a deep father-son relationship, come on, this is obviously Li He's unilateral contribution. People have never tasted father's love since they were children, so why do they have to send charcoal in the snow when the old man is the most difficult?
Finally, I advise those who are parents, don't learn from Li Shuangjiang. Children are not your private property, let alone your capital to show off. Cherish every child, and don't regret it until you're old.
If you were Li He, would you choose to forgive and take care of this once "irresponsible" father?
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