I have read such a sentence: real success is not by words of boasting, but by actual actions to prove.
In fact, behind all success, a ruthless effort is required.
And this kind of ruthless dedication can only be achieved by oneself and persistent.
A person, only in the long years, can calm down, calm down, endure loneliness, and continue to precipitate himself.
In this way, we can continue to accumulate experience and sublimate ourselves, so that we can do what Sanmao said:
"All people, at first, were hollow people.
It is all about life experience to call out the direction, fill it with experience, and gradually become a solid person. ”
In this life, there is a great way to live, which is to make yourself a ruthless person in the early stage, be ruthless to yourself, and be ruthless to the outside world.
In this way, calm down and polish yourself, calm down and transform yourself, and you will eventually thank yourself for this.
Muffled to do big things
I like this quote very much:
The competition of adults is hidden in the invisible place, and only when it is buried deep underground and desperately absorbed, can the branches bloom.
In fact, everyone's inner world has some distractions, some disturbances.
But only those who are rational, those who are mentally mature, will allow themselves to stabilize their emotions and prevent them from coming out.
Indeed, when an emotion occurs, you have to hold it down in time, and then restrain your self-expression and anger.
Next, let yourself do things quietly, don't be impatient, but be a little more reflective, a little more thoughtful.
As one sentence goes:
"People need to settle and have enough time to reflect in order to make themselves more perfect."
At any time, the real strength lies in how hard you are to yourself in the beginning.
Because when you can't be ruthless to yourself, you don't do anything consciously enough, you don't discipline enough.
Moreover, when faced with problems and stress, you are also likely to become self-defeating, choose to retreat, and never dare to move forward.
Only by calming yourself down, reflecting on yourself, finding your original intention, and learning to grow.
In this way, you will be able to understand more little by little, accumulate more at a time, and finally change from quantity to quality, stretching yourself to a higher level of life.
Accumulate yourself silently
People not only have to do things quietly, but also accumulate silently.
No matter what experience and lessons have been accumulated, or what has been experienced, there have been some impermanence and changes.
In short, when you encounter difficulties, you must learn to face them calmly, deal with them bravely, and let go with confidence.
Only in this way can you absorb the essence, and in the process of the challenge, no matter how hard it is, at least you can get through it and become stronger and tougher.
As the saying goes: those who have been in the house for a long time will fly high, and those who have taken the lead will be Xie Duzao.
Only in the process of accumulation, people pay in obscurity and grow without distractions.
Then, don't be afraid of losing, don't worry about being wronged, and don't always feel like you're suffering.
Instead, I want to tell myself that in this life, while I am young, I will suffer more losses, and I must treat myself ruthlessly.
Don't always be afraid that you're going to get hurt, but hone yourself on more things.
Wang Yangming said:
"A man must be tempered in his work, and it is good to do his work. If you have to be quiet, you will be chaotic and will not grow in the end. ”
As long as you are willing to work hard to learn, you are willing to put in the time and energy to grind.
Then, you will definitely be able to see more, grow more, and get more through the passage of time and through the play of the years.
In life, the real power lies in the fact that you know what you live for, and you are willing to live an unordinary life, willing to be behind the scenes, silently accumulating, and silently paying.
In "White Talk", it says:
"All the unfairness is produced after enduring enough blandness."
In this way, on the surface, the days are dull, but your inner world is turbulent, very exciting, very intense and fulfilling.
This way of living will definitely stimulate your fighting spirit, glow your faith, and create a more brilliant life.
For the rest of your life, be a ruthless person
Zhu Guangqian said:
"All the beauty that takes time to precipitate is worth waiting patiently."
Time needs to be precipitated, and years need to be honed.
You must know that a good life is always worth looking forward to.
The best life is actually to keep yourself in a certain degree, maintain a style, and then live regularly and step by step.
Perhaps in the eyes of others, this way of living is very tense and tiresome.
However, you understand that only when you have survived a period of time and carried a period of time, will you walk more steadily and live more calmly.
As Bai Luomei said:
"In this noisy mortal world, we all need to have a suitable place for our souls."
Live yourself better first, even if you need to pay the price at the beginning, you must face it generously and freely.
Because when you accept such a price one day, but it is too late, and you get old, the chances are slim.
So, while you are young, be ruthless with yourself, work hard to learn more, and grow as much as possible, so that you will live a better life and live a better life in the future.