Xi Youmi, formerly known as Xu Cangjin, was a girl born in an ordinary family in Shangqiu, Henan. She has a cheerful personality since she was a child, and her studies are not particularly outstanding, but because of her outstanding appearance, she is always favored by boys in school.
However, when she was 17 years old, Xi Youmi made a decision to change her life path, and she signed up for a variety show.
Although Xi Youmi is not a professional and her stage performance is not outstanding, her unique temperament deeply attracted the judge Gao Xiaosong. At that time, although Gao Xiaosong was not as famous as he is now, he had already made a name for himself in the music industry with his talent.
He gave up his studies at Tsinghua University to pursue his music dream, writing scripts, making music, and occasionally filming commercials.
Gao Xiaosong was attracted by the hidden mystery on Xi Youmi, and after ending the show, he took the initiative to go backstage to ask Xi Youmi for his contact information. In this way, they began to communicate frequently, quickly transforming from ordinary friends to lovers.
For a young girl like Xi Youmi, Gao Xiaosong is not only talented, but also full of romantic feelings. No matter what kind of troubles or problems she encounters, Gao Xiaosong can always solve her problems and continue to give her help and support.
This sense of security is undoubtedly the most precious gift for Yuyoumi, who has been wandering outside since childhood.
However, the relationship faced great challenges from the start. Xi Youmi was only 17 years old at the time and underage, while Gao Xiaosong was in his 30s and close to 40 years old. The huge age gap made Yuyoumi's parents strongly oppose this relationship from the beginning, fearing that their daughter would suffer.
In the face of all kinds of difficulties and setbacks, the young Yumata showed extraordinary courage and firm determination. She did not hesitate to devote herself to the relationship, proving her choice with her actions.
This astonishing decision not only influenced the trajectory of her life, but also brought a wealth of challenges and opportunities for her future life.
In the face of opposition and doubts from his family and the outside world, Gao Xiaosong was determined to prove his sincerity with practical actions. He not only supported Yuyoumi to study abroad and gave her the opportunity to learn and develop, but also took care of this young girl with all his heart.
Gao Xiaosong's sincerity and hard work finally touched the hearts of everyone, including Yuyoumi's parents.
In 2007, 19-year-old Xi Youmi and 38-year-old Gao Xiaosong got married. Despite the 19-year age difference between the lovers, they proved in their own way that love can cross the age gap.
In the same year, Yuyoumi became pregnant and gave birth to their daughter, who became a mother at a young age, and Yuyoumi's life changed dramatically again.
After getting married, Yuyoumi devoted herself to the family, rarely appeared in public, and took care of her husband and daughter. On the other hand, Gao Xiaosong often shows photos of the two on social media, showing off their happy married life to the world.
A friend of Gao Xiaosong once revealed that no matter when and where, as long as he receives a call from his wife Xi Youmi, Gao Xiaosong will say "I love you" affectionately. Such vows are undoubtedly the best response to those who question their feelings.
Gao Xiaosong himself has praised his wife in front of the media many times, saying that Xi Youmi takes care of him in every way and never gives up.
Xi Youmi is young and beautiful, her husband Gao Xiaosong is talented, and the two lovely daughters, this is a happy and harmonious family in the eyes of outsiders. However, married life is not only sweet, as time goes by, all kinds of trivial family affairs and financial pressures gradually surface, and the relationship between husband and wife also faces severe tests.
Despite this, the young Yuyoumi is still fully committed to this marriage. She did her best to play the role of wife and mother, running the family meticulously in her own way.
For her, getting married and becoming a mother at the age of 19 was undoubtedly a huge challenge, but her courage, determination and selfless dedication to her family were very touching.
However, who would have thought that this seemingly perfect marriage would inevitably break down, and the differences in life would become an insurmountable gap for them. But in any case, Yuyoumi's courageous decision at the age of 19 has profoundly changed the trajectory of her life and laid the foundation for her future growth.
Xi Youmi and Gao Xiaosong's married life is not as perfect as a fairy tale, and various differences and contradictions in reality gradually appear. Although Gao Xiaosong has repeatedly praised his wife in public for her care and loyalty, their differences in lifestyle and values have become increasingly prominent.
In the end, this once enviable marriage came to an end in 2013. Among them, Xi Youmi is only 25 years old, and Gao Xiaosong is 44 years old. The age difference may have been diluted by love during the love period, but in the daily trivial married life, it has become an insurmountable gap.
After the divorce, Gao Xiaosong not only moved away many of his belongings, but also left Xi Youmi and his daughter to continue to live in the same place. This decision shows his love for his ex-wife and daughter, and it also shows that they still maintain a respectful attitude towards each other despite being separated.
Regarding the reasons for the divorce of both parties, there have been many speculations and public opinion discussions on the Internet. However, judging from the subsequent words and deeds of the two, this is more like a calm and rational breakup. Yuyoumi published a long essay a year after the divorce, implicitly expressing that the many differences in lifestyles between the two of them led to the inability to coexist in life, and finally chose to part ways.
In her words, she revealed the reasons for the breakdown of her marriage, and at the same time expressed her cherishing of this relationship and her respect for her ex-husband.
The end of this marriage was a heavy blow to Yuyoumi, a young woman who was only 25 years old. She needs to change her identity from "Gao Xiaosong's wife" to a single mother, while also raising her young daughter on her own.
However, life doesn't stand still because of a single failure.
With nostalgia for the past and expectations for the future, Yuyoumi began a new chapter in his life. Although the marriage ended in failure, it gave her valuable life lessons and opportunities for growth.
She is no longer the ignorant and ignorant girl at the age of 17, but a mature woman who has experienced marriage, childbirth, and divorce, which has laid the foundation for her future career development and love life.
The prosperity is over, and Xi Youmi has fallen into a major choice in life. She did not choose to use the label of "Gao Xiaosong's ex-wife" to sensationalize, but chose to transform and start a business and founded her own clothing brand.
This decision undoubtedly shows her determination to face challenges and pursue independence.
In the early days of Xiyoumi's business, it can be said that it was isolated and helpless, and it encountered many major challenges. She had to balance her career with parenting, and she had to face pressure and skepticism from all sides.
However, it was these difficult circumstances that strengthened Yutama's will and hammered her inner potential like a whetstone.
With her tenacious character and unremitting efforts, Yuyoumi's career is gradually on the right track. In the process of starting a business, she not only exercised her own ability, but also expanded her network.
As time went on, the popularity of her clothing brand continued to grow, and the scale of her business grew, and the "celebrity wife" who once relied on her husband's halo gradually gained a foothold in the fashion industry and grew into an independent career woman.
This change is not only reflected in her career, but also affects her attitude and outlook on life. After experiencing the ups and downs of marriage, Yuyoumi began to re-examine her life and think about what she really wanted.
She no longer defines her value in others, but strives to shape her own life.
In the process, Yuyoumi showed extraordinary resilience and wisdom, turning her past experiences into motivation, and proving that even after failure, she can get back on her feet and live a wonderful life.
The experience of this period has allowed Yuyoumi to complete the growth from relying on others to being independent, and she is no longer the young mother who rushed into marriage at the age of 19, but a mature woman who can control her own destiny.
It is this independence and self-confidence that lays the foundation for her to meet a new partner and start a new chapter in her life in the future.
After Xiyoumi's career stabilized, she ushered in the second spring of her life. She publicly announced on social platforms that she had remarried, and her new husband was about the same age as her and was a wealthy man with a successful career.
This news caused quite a stir, and it also allowed people to see a new chapter in Yuyoumi's life.
Xi Youmi, who is often active on social platforms, often shows her happy life and shows the happy side of her family after her second marriage. In a sharing, Yutami described how her mother-in-law washed the fruits and made delicious noodles for her, and said that it was a very happy thing for her to have such a mother-in-law.
These ordinary trifles just show the warm atmosphere of this new family.
Yuyoumi often mentions her newlywed husband's thoughtfulness and carefulness. Once, while chatting at a friend's house, she casually said that she liked something, and it didn't take long for her husband to buy it back home and carefully install it for Yuyoumi.
Xi Youmi is very happy for this care, and has said many times that she has married the right person.
What's even more touching is that the new husband not only loves Xi Youmi very much, but also treats the daughter born to her and her ex-husband Gao Xiaosong as his own, and treats her better than his own daughter.
In the photo, you can often see a family wearing a couple's outfit and taking their daughter out to play, and the picture is warm and harmonious, which is such an inclusive and deep love, which undoubtedly gives Xi Youmi a great sense of security and happiness, which makes people very envious and moved.
As you can see from the photos shared by Yumi, their new home is spacious, bright and beautifully decorated. The three of them happily moved into their new home, and Yumata also showed fans the details of the home's decoration.
Whether it is the living room or the bedroom, it all shows Yuyoumi's pursuit of quality of life and unique taste, all of which prove the current status of Yuyoumi's life: happy, fulfilling and high quality.
It is worth mentioning that Yuyoumi's daughter is also growing up healthy and happy in this family. Now, at the age of 14, she has grown to 1.69 meters, and her appearance obviously inherits her mother's excellent genes.
Xi Youmi often takes her daughter to participate in various activities, and the intimate interaction between the mother and daughter has also become the focus of envy of the majority of netizens.
This second marriage brought Xi Youmi not only material wealth, but also spiritual satisfaction and comfort. From her sharing, we see a happy family, and we also see Yuyoumi's all-round growth as a wife, mother and individual.
Xi Youmi, the "ex-wife of Gao Xiaosong", who once attracted much attention, has now completely walked out of the haze of the past and ushered in a happy life of her own.
Now Yuyoumi is no longer the 17-year-old girl who is curious about the world, nor is she a young mother who got married in a hurry at the age of 19 and took on the responsibility of marriage. She has grown into an independent, confident woman who has found the best balance between life and work.
It can be seen from her social media dynamics that Yuyoumi's career has developed steadily, the clothing brand she founded continues to be recognized by the market, and she herself has a certain status in the fashion circle.
Unlike her career success, she did not neglect the quality of her family's life, and her relationship with her new husband was still sweet, and the two often appeared together on various occasions, showing an enviable appearance of affection.
From a young girl to a successful woman, Xi Youmi's life has experienced many ups and downs. Despite her failures, she found her own happiness. With practical actions, he explained how to stand up again in life and live a wonderful life.
Today's Xi Youmi is no longer "Gao Xiaosong's ex-wife", but an independent, attractive mature woman. She is a good mother to the hearts of girls and children, a virtuous helper to her new husband, and a strong, optimistic and positive Xi Youmi herself.
Her story is full of the blessings of countless people who bravely face the challenges of life and pursue their own happiness, and pass them on to each other.