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"It's really embarrassing to see something delicious at someone else's house, don't eat it too hard, you know?"
A few days ago, a blogger complained on the Internet, she said that her friend came to her house as a guest, and as a result, she ate the most expensive cherries, and she was a little annoyed by her friend's impolite behavior.
thought that netizens would stand on her side and complain about her friends, but she was ridiculed by netizens: You look so ugly when you are poor and love faces.
Here's the thing, during the Chinese New Year, the blogger wanted to take advantage of the holiday to have a good get-together with his good friends, so he invited a few good friends to his home, after all, there was no atmosphere at home outside.
There are friends from afar, and they are very happy, and the blogger is still very clear about the hospitality that has been passed down in the mainland for thousands of years.
Since good friends are coming, they must come up with the best things to entertain, so this blogger spent a lot of money to buy some expensive fruits and dried fruits in the supermarket.
I am usually reluctant to eat these things, but in order to entertain friends, the blogger still spent this money ruthlessly, don't look at the things are not much, but when I checked out, I also spent 180 yuan.
After returning home, the blogger cleaned the fruits and put them on the coffee table together with the dried fruits, and looked at the table of precious fruits and dried fruits, she immediately felt that she was very face-saving.
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The blogger had never invited anyone to his house before, so this was the first time for his friends to visit the blogger's house, and in order to leave a good impression on his friends, the blogger also cleaned up the house inside and out.
At a glance, the whole house is neat and beautiful, and when everything is ready, the blogger begins to wait for the arrival of his friends.
It can already be seen from here that this blogger loves face, and as soon as his friends came, he immediately replaced them with precious fruits and cleaned his home, which can be said to have done enough surface work.
This also laid the groundwork for the blogger's subsequent annoyance, because the blogger was not sincere and wanted to entertain friends with cherries.
When the friends came to the blogger's house, the blogger first greeted the friend hypocritically and asked everyone to taste the cherries she had just bought, which were very fresh.
Seeing that the blogger was so enthusiastic, everyone was no longer polite, and picked up the cherries on the plate one by one and tasted them.
Unexpectedly, the friends didn't stop eating, and soon a plate of cherries was swept away by everyone, and after eating the cherries, everyone grabbed the nuts on the table and ate them, anyway, their mouths didn't stop, they were either chatting or eating.
Although the blogger was silent on the surface, in fact, he had already been angry when he saw that the cherries were eaten, and when his friend left, the more the blogger thought about it, the more angry he became, so he took out his mobile phone and complained on the Internet.
She felt that when she went to someone else's house as a guest, even if there was something good, she couldn't eat all the time, everything had to have a degree, and the host signaled to allow the guests to eat more, of course, with polite ingredients, how could someone really eat all the time.
If it's cheap fruits, such as sugar oranges and longan, it's nothing to eat more, because there isn't much money in the first place. But precious fruits like cherries, as well as those expensive nuts, of course, should be eaten in moderation.
If you think it's delicious, you can buy more for yourself when you go back, and eat enough at home at one time, instead of going to someone else's house and eating it all the time as if you haven't seen the world.
After reading her complaints, there must be many people who feel very incomprehensible, since they can't afford to eat, and they are afraid that others will eat too much, why do they still buy it and put it on the table?
I knew this, I just put some cheap sugar oranges at the beginning, that thing is cheap, and I don't feel distressed to show off casually, even if I eat a few friends until I get hot, it won't cost much.
Not only did the cherries have to be removed, but the expensive nuts can't be brought out, so you have to buy some cheap peanuts and melon seeds to send friends, which not only entertains friends, but also saves a lot of money.
So why didn't the blogger do it? In the final analysis, it is because of the lack of face in such hospitality, and she also wants to be as generous as a rich person to take good things to entertain, all of which is caused by vanity.
Maybe the original calculation in my heart was to buy a bunch of good things and let my friends symbolically taste a few, so that I can not only have face in front of my friends, but also be addicted to it when my friends leave.
It's just that she made a lot of calculations, but she didn't count that her friends didn't play cards according to the routine, and finally made herself so angry, she can only say that she is poor and loves face.
The whole thing has developed to the end, and it may be that only the blogger himself takes Cheerilee very seriously, and I'm afraid other friends don't take it seriously.
In the eyes of others, the cherries that the blogger has in his heart may be like sugar oranges and a fruit that everyone can eat, which is the greatest sorrow.
In fact, such a reaction is not necessary at all, because her friends do not eat her cherries for nothing, who goes to other people's houses as guests, and will go empty-handed? Friends must have gone with gifts.
According to the analysis of the blogger's personality, if friends come to visit without gifts, they will definitely write clearly in the complaint. Since it was not written, it must have received a gift.
A friend eats a few cherries and can make a long speech to complain, but why don't you mention a word about receiving gifts?
This blogger is not only poor and sour to save face, but also avoids the important and light in his speech, and wants to guide netizens to stand on his side, but the eyes of netizens are bright, and they have already seen the blogger's personality clearly.
For hospitable people, if someone comes to the house, they will be happy if they prepare something that everyone likes, and the more they eat, the happier they will be.
If everyone doesn't eat much and behaves very restrainedly, they will think that they have not done a good job.
However, some netizens have a different point of view, he believes that when you go to a friend's house, you should not rummage over things and eat indiscriminately, even if you are very familiar relatives and friends, you should also pay attention to proportion.
It can only be said that this is not a real friend at all, if it is a very familiar friend, it should be a good and uninhibited, too restrained are just general friends who are not very familiar with each other.
Whether it is to be a person or to make friends, don't be careful, or stay away from people who are careful, such people can't give anything positive except for transmitting negative energy.
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