Looking back at some of the plots behind the changshu mother-in-law's murder of her daughter-in-law, people can't help but guess that this mother and son should have premeditated to kill their wives and seize their wives' property, and then find an obedient daughter-in-law to serve the two of them! From this marriage, we can see that the two mothers and sons are trying to bully the daughter-in-law, from the physical to the mental, until finally the evil mother-in-law kills the daughter-in-law.
Home is the harbor of our soul, the warmest habitat when we are tired, but for some people, home is a quagmire, not only can not get the happiness expected, but also suffered from the disaster.
1. The heartbroken evil mother-in-law
Looking back on the case of changshu's evil mother-in-law killing her daughter-in-law, I will still feel that there is a cold sweat behind her back, how much this old lady must hate her daughter-in-law to be able to lay down such a cruel hand, cut off her daughter-in-law dozens of knives, and her head and body are only connected by a layer of skin, just imagine an old man being so vicious, it is really unbelievable. This mother-in-law is called Liu Xiuying, when the crime occurred, she was more than 60 years old, there were three marriages, and now this son around her is Liu Xiuying's youngest son, she feels that this son is the most prominent, but also the most intimate, this son is called Dong Gangbiao, he was born in a remote rural area of Shaanxi, from a small family is relatively poor, his wish is to study hard, leave the countryside in the future, live a good life, after his hard work to get a master's degree from Hohai University, and as a university teacher at Changshu Institute of Technology, It was also at this university that he met his wife. His wife, Xu Yili, is also a teacher at this university, not only is she beautiful, but her family conditions are also very good, and her parents are intellectuals. This is much stronger than Dong Gangbiao, who has nothing.
From the beginning of the two people in love, Xu Yili's parents did not agree, thinking that Dong Gangbiao's conditions were too poor, but how could her daughter feel that Dong Gangbiao was a good person, careful and considerate, and had a mind to marry Dong Gangbiao. There is no way but to agree, after marriage, the little two have no house to live, they live in the school dormitory, the original good life was disrupted by the sudden arrival of the mother-in-law, since then Xu Yili's life has fallen into the sea of bitterness, the mother and son are really full of feudal thoughts, think that the daughter-in-law will serve the husband and mother-in-law, Dong Gangbiao is only the mother's order, since then this family has not been peaceful!
2, marriage does need to be a door-to-door pair
Many people think that this is all in what era, and what door is right? I think Xu Yili's marriage is really caused by the wrong door, Dong Gangbiao's living environment, the family education received from childhood is that kind of very feudal thinking, what they often say is "the daughter-in-law who hits the face", they feel that if the daughter-in-law obeys, she must fight, the daughter-in-law, no matter what her identity is outside, when she returns home, she must serve her mother-in-law and husband, while Xu Yili's family is a very knowledgeable and rational intellectual family, and she has always treated people and things with reasonableness, respect for others, and treat each other with courtesy. Xu Yili's mother-in-law came and huddled in the dormitory with the little two, often arguing about some small things in life, after all, the living habits are different, the mother-in-law is old, all this Xu Yili also endured. But Liu Xiuying actually had to sleep next to the little two, it was a bit outrageous, it was really distressing that the Xu family's parents had paid for them to buy a house, let them move in, and very intimately wrote only Dong Gangbiao's name on the real estate deed, thinking that Dong Gangbiao would be better for his daughter.
From these, it can be seen how completely different the parents of the two families are, the little two moved into the new house did not expect the mother-in-law to live in, living in the new house not only did not ease the tension of the relationship, new contradictions emerge in an endless stream, more surprisingly Liu Xiuying actually had to sleep next to the small two, which is estimated that the average person can not stand it, and Xu Yili has been enduring, but patience did not make the mother and son converge, but also Ben Galli, not only unreasonable demands more and more, xu Yili is also more and more bad attitude, especially with children There are more and more quarrels, and more and more contradictions. Domestic violence is becoming more and more frequent. Unable to bear it, Xu Yili proposed a divorce, which is also the inducement to provoke the disaster of killing!
3. A premeditated homicide
The reason why I say this, I think from a lot of details can be seen, such as the day of the crime, Liu Xiuying prepared gasoline, fruit knives and other things, after killing people, calmly changed clothes, and ate at the snack bar, only to surrender generously, so calmly I think the average rural old lady can not do it, the average person can not do it, this must be Liu Xiuying and her son have premeditated, because before Liu Xiuying found out that there is gallbladder cancer, and it is such a big age, Dong Gangbiao analysis of this situation will certainly not be too heavy, such a house , cars, and possessions are all theirs! And it turned out that just as the mother and son expected, the old lady came out! It didn't take long for Dong Gangbiao to get married again, and it seemed that the plan of the two mothers and sons had indeed succeeded!
I don't know how everyone will feel after reviewing this case, in addition to the extreme hatred of this shameless and vicious mother and son without humanity, poor Xu Yili, who was killed by them in this way, think carefully about marriage for women, it is really how cautious is not excessive, inappropriate marriage should not be endured for a minute, patience with the devil is irresponsible to themselves, they will only become more and more torturous you without a little sympathy, so marriage really should be cautious, open your eyes to observe, You can't afford to spend your life for a little cheap good!