Do you think that marriage is like a long journey for two people to embark on hand in hand? Along the way, the scenery is unpredictable, sometimes it is intoxicating, and sometimes it makes people laugh and cry.
Recently, I saw an article on the Internet about the "invisible people" and "unlucky people" in marriage, which is really emotional. We have an ancient Chinese saying that "every family has a scripture that is difficult to read", and it seems that this is not false at all.
However, then again, is it really inevitable that these ridiculous characters are inevitable in marriage? We'll have to think about it.
Speaking of which, this "invisible man" is really a strange existence. He was like air, silent, yet everywhere. You're trying to catch him, hey, he's playing peek-a-boo with you.
Let's take the example of that netizen, her husband was able to live as if nothing had happened after she had cancer, and even wanted to find a new girl to have a baby.
This big heart is simply jaw-dropping, I don't know whether to say that he has a wide heart or that he has no heart. Let's think about it, in this marriage, if one party becomes an "invisible person", how lonely and helpless the other party is!
Let's talk about this "unlucky guy", ouch, the name sounds distressing. Just like my former colleague, her in-laws died in a car accident, and no one was watching the children, so she had to leave her job.
This was originally a bolt from the blue, but there were still people who stood up and pointed fingers, saying that they should hire a nanny and should not sacrifice their careers.
These people really don't have a backache when they stand and talk. Why don't they want to think about it, everyone's situation is different, not everyone can afford to hire a nanny. It's like you only have one dollar in your pocket, but someone tells you to buy ten dollars of ice cream, isn't that?
What's even more laughable is that some people know that others have low wages and no future in their jobs, but they still have to persuade her husband to leave his job to take care of the children. This is simply an upgraded version of "standing and talking without backache"!
Why don't they want to think about what they would do if it were themselves? Will it be like the person in the joke, who only has one dollar, but has to spend his wife's ten dollars? This stupid and bad behavior is really speechless!
Speaking of which, these ignorant people we meet in marriage are really a headache. They are like a bunch of "keyboard warriors", hiding behind the screen and pointing fingers, but never considering the actual situation of others.
What they say is like the wind, blowing through and then dispersing, but leaving others full of helplessness and trouble. Let's think about it, this marriage is a matter of two people, not a one-man show. What's the point of marriage if everyone thinks only about themselves?
But, then again, although there will be these ridiculous characters in marriage, we can't be discouraged because of this! After all, "no one is perfect", everyone has their own strengths and weaknesses.
We can't deny the whole marriage just because we have encountered a few "wonderful"! On the contrary, we should cherish each other's fate and feelings more!
So, I think, when we encounter these "invisible people" and "unlucky people", we might as well look at the problem from a different angle. Perhaps, they don't really want to hurt us or ignore our existence?
Maybe they just don't know how to express their feelings or deal with problems in their marriage? After all, "knowing people and knowing faces but not knowing hearts"! Let's be a little more understanding and tolerant!
As for the ending, hehe, I think, it must be that we, the smart and kind readers, have found a way to deal with these "weird" things! Either we will use humor and wisdom to make them laugh and be speechless;
Or use gentleness and patience to move them to tears and mend their ways! In short, we will definitely be able to make these "invisible people" and "unlucky people" disappear without a trace in marriage in our own way!
So, dear readers and friends, we have to remember, "marriage is not easy, do it and cherish it"! When encountering those ridiculous "invisible people" and "unlucky people", we might as well be more understanding and tolerant, and less blame and complain!
After all, "home and everything is prosperous"! We have to use our own wisdom and love to run this small family well! In this way, we can go more steadily and happily in the journey of marriage! Finally, I wish all our readers and friends can find their own happy home and live a better life together with their beloved!