On the evening of July 25, an angry video spread online: during the qualifiers for the 2024 National Sports School U16 Basketball Championship, a player from Urumqi No. 101 Middle School was slapped nine times by a female coach. The video caused an uproar.
Soon, the school issued a notice, characterizing the behavior as a violation of teachers' professional ethics, violating school discipline and school rules, damaging the image of teachers, causing a bad impact, and giving teacher Ma Moumou a demerit punishment, and at the same time imposing sanctions such as dismissal from coaching, reduction of post level, cancellation of qualifications, and review at public meetings. The speed, intensity, and severity of the punishment are enough to warn those who follow suit.
When the New Yellow River reporter interviewed the female coach Teacher Ma, Teacher Ma explained the relevant situation with a crying voice. It turned out that the student team member who was beaten came relatively late, and Mr. Ma thought that the team member did not have many opportunities to play, so he was anxious about it, causing anger. Teacher Ma said that he usually cares about the team members and often helps them wash their clothes, and has a good relationship, "After the video circulated on the Internet, the children also found me as soon as possible to take care of my emotions." ”
The children who were beaten and were watching at the scene actually comforted Mr. Ma? Taking care of Mr. Ma's emotions?
It's kind of incredible! If Teacher Ma either forcibly put gold on his face, or Teacher Ma really has a good relationship with the student team members, and the students regard Teacher Ma as a parent. In this world, only when parents beat their children, children will not hold grudges. If you don't believe it, you can beat the children of relatives and see if the little one will hold a grudge.
Analyze it positively, or the student has shown tolerance beyond his or her years. Perhaps in his heart, despite Coach Ma's excessive behavior, the coach's guidance and care for him on weekdays made him willing to let go of the current hurt and choose to comfort the coach. This shows that he is able to see the multifaceted nature of things, is not swayed by the negative emotions of the moment, and has a rare open-mindedness and kind quality. Such a child is so sensible that it makes people feel distressed!
There is also a possibility that makes people think about it carefully.
is a normal reaction, Coach Ma himself felt aggrieved because he slapped a student, was pressured by public opinion, and was severely punished by the school, and cried in front of the reporter to defend himself; As a middle-school student with strong blood, how could he not jump in anger and go to appease the female coach?
The only explanation is that all the team members are accustomed to this kind of slapping environment and have no sense of self-protection. Students are not aware that their personal dignity has been violated and that they should protect their legitimate rights and interests. In this asymmetrical relationship between the coach and the student, the student may be forced to show comforting gestures for fear of further punishment or out of habitual obedience to the coach's authority, rather than expressing his or her inner anger and grievances in a real way.
To put it simply, that is, I am often beaten, and I am beaten without my dignity, my knowledge and thinking, and my blood as a man.
Educators have no intention of going to the platform, and use Coach Ma's behavior of beating student players as a target to criticize. The reason why I write so much is because my colleagues regard corporal punishment as a normal, simple and quick teaching behavior, and do not realize that students are living, flesh and blood, emotional and thoughtful, and equal in personality with teachers. Corporal punishment not only brings physical pain and mental humiliation to students, but also has predictable and permanent negative effects.
Think about it! Confucius said, repay grievances with straightforwardness, but our children have learned to repay grievances with virtue under the slap of the teacher, in the future, who else will stand up in the face of gangsters, and who will use blood to protect our old age?
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