Being able to get a good night's sleep at night is happier than anything else. Life will not always be smooth sailing, we must know how to adjust and learn to cross ourselves.
Different people, management concepts and details are completely different. Some people will grasp the general direction and let others implement the details and just look at the results. Some people will do everything in detail, like to guide in person, and enjoy the process very much. Some people actively encourage and motivate to achieve their goals. Some people like to hit others to achieve their own ends.
So if the situation changes, it's not that you're bad, it's that you need to adjust. On the one hand, adjust yourself, either take the initiative to adapt, or be eliminated. When the ability is insufficient, if you want to keep your current position and interests, you can only adapt. The other thing is to adjust your mentality. Any management model is not useless, there are always many merits, find the advantages and use them, in order to improve themselves.
Don't talk when you're upset, and don't make any decisions. No matter what you think in your heart, whether it's good or bad, as long as you don't say it and don't show it, no one knows. After a quiet meeting, many things were resolved. Because, many things are often also a kind of emotional catharsis. When this emotion passes, things pass.
The troubles of adults are not appropriate to talk to anyone, we must learn to digest ourselves, think open, look open, let go, do not embarrass ourselves, do not blindly compete, and try our best to maintain our emotional stability. When you are stable, the world is quiet.
The world is impermanent, and change is always inadvertent. Recently, I heard that an old leader left his post where he had worked for many years. It is said that it was through negotiation that he broke up amicably with the company. He has been researching mills for many years, but in recent years, the economic benefits have declined sharply, and there is no good transformation of results, so his departure is relatively sudden. The old leader is in a high position, and he has many patented inventions, and he can't protect himself, let alone those ordinary people who don't have any special skills?
Therefore, it is good to gather and scatter and try your best to do your current things. No matter where you work, nothing is always stable, only relatively stable. This is related to one's own ability, sense of responsibility, etc., but it is not the determining factor. Xiao Guo has a strong sense of responsibility, almost all year round, and has a close relationship with the leader, but he is transferred away. Xiaocheng has a background and a background, and his daily relationship with the company's leaders is also very good. Don't get too entangled, it's normal to come and go.
It's important to keep your own moat. This moat is to dare to self-deny, keep improving, and continue to improve. You must know that the situation is always changing, so we must recognize the situation, give full play to our advantages, and continue to study hard to keep up with the changes in the situation. In this way, you can truly be invincible.
No matter what others say or do, we must learn to self-regulate and self-control. The real strong man never complains about the environment, but only tinkers in the dead of night, and wakes up with confidence when he sleeps. If you are alive, don't be afraid of trouble, and build bridges when you meet mountains and rivers. Forgive everything before going to bed, and wake up to be born again.
To be a man, we must hold back meaningless words, and calmly treat the thunderous and unscrupulous scruples of others. This reduces most of the worries. To do things, we must find the reason from ourselves and solve it in combination with reality. This way, you won't get your problems tangled up in others and cause more trouble. It is not impossible to follow the trend, see the situation clearly, and sometimes follow the general environment. The position and interests are different, less words are precious, cognition is different, there is no need to argue, the three views do not agree, just keep a distance.
Learn to cross yourself, no matter how you choose in life, you will have regrets. The best life is not about having everything and having everything as you want, but about living every moment of the moment.
