Da S, a star in the entertainment industry, was once loved by the audience for his excellent acting skills and beautiful appearance. However, in recent years, her personal life has frequently appeared on hot searches and has become the focus of public opinion.
Flash marriage to Korea artist Gu Junye (bald head), preventing the child from returning to Beijing, and letting her ex-husband Wang Xiaofei tie up in advance, these bold moves not only aroused strong public attention, but also plunged her into unprecedented controversy. Behind these decisions of Big S, is it an emotional choice, or a well-planned "chess game"? And her various actions, are they to win the victory in life, or will she lose everything in the end?
1. The backlash of the flash marriage bald head Gu Junye
The flash marriage between Da S and Gu Junye can be called the "big news" in the entertainment industry, and many people speculate that her move was to stimulate her ex-husband Wang Xiaofei. However, contrary to expectations, Wang Xiaofei's "Ma Liuji" brand developed rapidly during this period and became a well-known hot pot chain brand in the country. On the contrary, the marriage between Da S and Gu Junye has become a laughing stock in public opinion, and has been jokingly called "the consequence of impulsiveness" by many netizens. Some netizens said: "Big S thought he could be angry with Wang Xiaofei, but instead he made himself a joke." Experts believe that Da S's move shows her emotional impulsiveness and lack of thoughtfulness about the consequences.
2. The consequences of preventing the child from returning to Beijing
Big S didn't let her children Xiaoyue and Xiaojiu return to Beijing, and this decision made her image plummet in the eyes of the public. She may think that this can control the custody of the child and hit Wang Xiaofei, but the final result is that there is a rift in the relationship between the child and the mother. Many netizens expressed dissatisfaction with Da S's behavior: "She not only hurt the child by doing this, but also brought herself a vicious reputation." Experts point out that this practice is not only detrimental to the child's development, but can also cause irreparable damage to the mother-child relationship. Family problems should be solved through rational communication, rather than using children as bargaining chips.
3. The strategy of getting Wang Xiaofei ligated in advance
Before divorcing Wang Xiaofei, Da S had Wang Xiaofei ligated, which was regarded by many as a strategy of "breaking the way back". However, this move did not go as she hoped. Wang Xiaofei soon started a new relationship with Ma Xiaomei after the divorce, and Da S was regarded by many as "scheming". Netizens said: "Big S's move is completely superfluous, she underestimated Wang Xiaofei's charm." And experts believe that any decision in marriage should be based on respect and understanding, not control and manipulation.
The greatest irony of life
Looking back on these "chess games" of Big S, whether it is a flash marriage with Gu Junye, preventing the child from returning to Beijing, or letting Wang Xiaofei get ligated in advance, it shows her strong desire to control her emotions and life. However, these moves not only failed to get her the desired results, but instead plunged her deeper into the whirlpool of public opinion. As netizens said: "The agency is too clever and has mistaken Qingqing's life." "Big S's plans seem exquisite, but they are actually shackles of self-restraint. Perhaps, her real failure was her failure to realize that many things in her life were out of her control.
As one psychologist noted, "Excessive desire for control often stems from inner insecurity." "Big S may need to reflect on his role in these things, rather than blindly pursuing control over others. Perhaps, only by truly letting go of these obsessions can she find her own happiness again.
Readers, where do you think Big S lost in this "chess game" of life? Is it too much of a quest for control, or is it a failure to see the whole picture? Feel free to share your thoughts in the comment section!