Teacher Dong gushed endlessly, and Director Xiao Chen looked confused. This wisdom confrontation of "Xueba VS Xuescum" staged a "fast and furious" of knowledge. Who, exactly, has strayed?
The "brain hole" contest between the top students and the scumbags
Brothers, when I saw this video, I burst out laughing! Isn't this a true reflection of our daily lives? On the one hand, there is the "king of knowledge" who is like a river and has learned five cars, and on the other hand, there are the "melon-eating masses" who are confused and confused. This scene is not too familiar!
The "Fast and Furious" of Knowledge: Who Hit the Gas and Who Hit the Brakes?
Mr. Dong has turned on the "Infinite Firepower" mode, and he has been talking for 20 minutes, which is called a hearty one! Looking at his excitement, it seems that he has a knowledge engine in his head, and he can't stop it. Tsk, this IQ tax is not less paid!
Take a look at Director Xiao Chen again, hey, this expression management can be said to be quite in place. From the initial "I'm listening very carefully" to the later "I don't understand what you say", and then to the final "Help, I'm going to drown in the ocean of knowledge", this mental journey is simply a "history of scumbag struggle"!
But then again, who of us hasn't experienced this meeting? Whether it is in class, in a meeting, or when friends gather, there is always such a person, as soon as he opens his mouth, the Yangtze River is rolling away, and the vast smoke and waves are the same as the sky. And what about us? I could only pretend to nod my head on the side, and I thought to myself: "Big guy, did you forget to switch to human mode?"
The Other Side of the IQ Tax: Did the One Who Understood Win?
Actually, you can't blame Mr. Dong for this. Isn't it commendable that people are knowledgeable and want to share their knowledge with you?**The crux of the matter is that he ignores an important premise: communication is a two-way street.
Which joker have you ever seen tell a joke regardless of the audience's reaction? Even if you are a cross talk actor, you have to observe the audience's expressions at any time and adjust the rhythm in a timely manner. Teacher Dong, you are treating Director Chen as your knowledge trash can, you can pour it if you want, and you don't ask if others can digest it!
But after thinking about it, Xiao Chen, you can't lie down completely! Since Mr. Dong is so enthusiastic about sharing with you, you can pretend to interject a few sentences at the right time and ask a question or something. You are so confused the whole time, doesn't it seem that you have no desire to learn?
The correct posture for intelligent communication: resonance can only be achieved by frequency
In fact, whether it is Teacher Dong or Director Xiao Chen, they are all worth learning from. Mr. Dong has a love for knowledge and a passion for sharing, which is a rare attitude.
Although Director Xiao Chen listened to it with a confused face, at least he maintained politeness and respect throughout the whole process, and did not run away halfway, and this patience is also worthy of praise.
So the question is, what should we do in the face of this situation?
First of all, as "Teacher Dong", we must learn to "read the air" when sharing knowledge. Observe the other person's reaction, adjust the speed and depth of the content in a timely manner, and give the other person a chance to digest and ask questions. Remember, the best teachers don't just indoctricate, they inspire and guide.
Secondly, as "Little Chen Dao", we must also learn to take the initiative. If you don't understand, ask, if you don't understand, say, don't be afraid of losing face. Instead of pretending to understand the whole process, it is better to be honest and honest about your confusion. Maybe your question is the key to opening the door to a new world!
Finally, for each of us, learn to switch between different roles. Sometimes we are Mr. Dong, and sometimes we are Director Chen. The key is to find points of resonance with each other and make the exchange meaningful and interesting.
The Spark of Wisdom Collision: Are You Ready?
In life, we will inevitably encounter all kinds of "Teacher Dong" and "Little Director Chen". In the face of the gushing "scholars", you might as well try to jump out of your comfort zone and take the initiative to understand and explore. In the face of the dazed "scumbag", we must also learn to explain patiently and step by step.
Remember, true wisdom is not a one-man show, but a crowd of voices. Only by colliding in communication and growing in sharing can we continue to improve ourselves and expand our horizons.
So, the next time you encounter this situation, you might as well think about it from another angle: this is not a contest of IQ, but a communication of ways of thinking. Perhaps, in the seemingly awkward conversation, we can harvest unexpected sparks of wisdom!
So in the end, the editor would like to ask: If you are Director Xiao Chen, how will you resolve this embarrassing situation in the face of the gushing Teacher Dong? What do you think about this?