Author: Wen Qiusheng
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01. Introduction
Love is like a light in the night, it can make people see the road under their feet and discern the direction ahead.
On the road of life, we all want to meet the right person, accompany them, and walk towards the future hand in hand. No matter how strong the wind and rain are, whether you are poor or rich, you can never give up.
After a woman regards a man as the most important person in her life, she will be willing to become his partner and resist risks together. Never, all the responsibilities and burdens will be handed over to you.
A detail that exposes that a woman puts you in the most important position in her heart, that is: sharing it with you.
02. Women don't love you, they only ask for you and don't pay
There is a colleague named Li Yu, he has a girlfriend, and they have been together for more than a year.
Recently, he confided in us that he had spent all his savings in more than a year with her. Now, he can't even pay the rent.
Originally, he saved money to buy a house and get married.
But my girlfriend said that if she didn't buy a bag or shoes, she didn't love her.
He is now borrowing money from all over the world and is in debt. When his girlfriend saw that he had no money, she offered to break up with him.
He didn't agree, but she didn't answer the phone, didn't reply to messages, and didn't see him, like he had disappeared from the world. He learned that she had never loved him.
Haruki Murakami said: "People who are really good to you are in the details, people will lie, but the details will not, love is the details, and neither is love." ”
A woman doesn't love you, and when she is with you, she only asks for you, not gives.
If she wants to buy a bag, she will drag you to go shopping; When she wants to eat delicious food, she will coquettish and ask you to take her to eat delicious food......
However, when you run out of money and encounter difficulties, she is unwilling to share with you.
Seeing that there is no profit in you, she will propose to break up and leave you completely.
03. When you are at a low point, she will share the pressure with you
Liang Xiaosheng said: "The weight of a life is nothing more than to be fed and loved, to be sought in a lifetime, but to be warm and beloved, to be loved in a lifetime, but to protect and accompany each other." ”
On the road of life, there are many ups and downs, many forks in the road, and many tests.
Perhaps, at a certain time, it will fall into a low period, fall into a period of confusion, and suffer a serious sense of frustration. It's as if everything has to start all over again.
If a woman doesn't care about you, when a catastrophe comes, she will only think about herself and completely cut off relations with you.
She doesn't want to be dragged down by you, she doesn't want to suffer with you, and she doesn't want to gamble her life with you.
When you are the hardest, hardest, and most in need of support, she will choose to turn a blind eye and leave indifferently.
A woman puts you in the most important position in her heart, and she will be reluctant to see you suffer, and she will be reluctant to let you suffer alone in the trough.
She will encourage you to stand up, or use your savings to help you make a comeback, or she will accompany you to start all over again.
Because she loves you enough, she is willing to share the pressure with you. Even if she has to endure a lot of hardships and sins in the future, she is willing.
04. In life, she will try to share the trivialities of the family
In "Our Marriage", before Shen Huixing married Sheng Jiangchuan, she had dreams and her own goals in life.
However, because she was pregnant, she decided to give up her career and return to her family to take care of her family wholeheartedly.
In the process of growing up her children, she educates them with her heart, accompanies them, and supports her husband's career. Moreover, she did her best to learn financial management and made a lot of money.
She took care of the housework at home, laundry, cooking, repairing water pipes, moving, changing light bulbs, etc.
Balzac said: "Love cannot resist the tedious chores, and at least one of them must be extremely strong." ”
A woman truly loves you, and she will work hard to run her own family and make her husband's life easier.
She tirelessly washes the dirty clothes at home every day; In order for you to have a hot meal when you get home, she thinks about what to eat at night in the morning, and goes grocery shopping after work.
When her parents are sick, she is willing to stay at the bedside to take care of her children and take care of her children without letting you be too anxious.
A woman loves you from the bottom of her heart, and she will share with you, the trivialities of life, and run her family with heart.
05, Wen Qiusheng's message
A woman puts a man in the most important position in her heart from the bottom of her heart, and she will also spoil him and take care of him in her own way.
When a man falls into a low period, when life encounters ups and downs, she will not be alone, but will share it with men.
Use your own strength to support your life and manage each other's families. Just to go further with him.
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About the author: Wen Qiusheng, make a living from words. Autumn wind and rain, a glass of sake, three or two stories, on the lonely road with you as a companion.