The fastest way to make yourself grow
1. Never care what others think of you.
Remember that it is anyone, especially those who are not related to you, there are many people who just suppress you, deliberately look down on you, look down on you, make you unhappy, or spray you, jealous of you, all of these are adding fuel to your spiritual internal friction, so if you take this kind of person seriously, you care too much about him, you will lose to him, in this world except for life and death, everything else is, not even bruises, you can never make everyone satisfied, the worst side of people's hearts is to see that you live better than others.
2. Never feel inferior, and never feel inferior to others.
Whether this person has money or not, or how much money he has, actually has nothing to do with you. There are many people who are too servile, and when they see people who are better than themselves or even some people who pretend to be cowardly, this courage is about to become cowardly, but I don't know that there are many people who are pretending to be shells.
3. Time is limited, don't be consumed by the things in front of you. Put the time in the long run, never because of one thing that affects you, that is called mental internal friction, when people get old, they will only regret what they didn't do when they were young, and they won't regret what they did, so they can be happy in time, make themselves happy, and life will become more meaningful, what is optimism? Optimism is to see through the essence of life, and you hate him in the future, but you still love life, life is very tired, and being happy is also a day when you are unhappy.
4. It is entrepreneurship
You must start a business, and start a business as soon as possible, so that even if you lose, you don't lose much, and soon you can slow down, and now in the Internet era, everyone has the opportunity to start a business, many projects can start with a mobile phone and a computer, and there is no heavy investment at all.
5. When you meet someone who is better than yourself, you must be neither humble nor arrogant, and some people will unconsciously become humble when they meet those who are in high and powerful positions. It's completely unnecessary, everyone is human, what is there to be afraid of. The more you think of yourself, the more others will look down on you. On the contrary, if you are more confident and fearless, others will look up to you.
6. Never look at what someone else says, but what he does. Kang Youwei advocated monogamy, but he married six wives in his life; Ma Yinchu was the first to propose family planning, but he gave birth to eight children. This is probably the inconsistency between the knowledge and action of top experts.
7. On the premise that there is no interest in right and wrong, do not dispute with anyone. When I see a child, I praise my youth, I see a woman praise my beauty, I see a poor person praise my duty, and I see a treacherous person who praises flexibility. If your criticism can't arouse his change, then it's better to say a good word and get married.
8. Time cost is the biggest cost
If you can spend money to find someone to study, you can find someone to study, and if you can spend money to find someone to solve the problem, you must not solve the problem you are not good at, and it is very stupid to solve the problem that you are not good at.
9. You don't have to tell the truth when you meet people, loneliness is the normal state of life. When you reach middle age, you will understand that those seemingly unbreakable relationships are vulnerable in the face of interests.
10. Money, must not be earned for a lifetime, but to seize the opportunity, 2-3 years to earn a lot of people can not earn a lifetime of $, if you think, you are currently the most earning $, please tell yourself not to rest, okay? Because the next time you have such an opportunity, you may not know when you will wait, and if you miss it, you may not have it again.
11. Review
I will definitely go for a review every night, including a regular review every month. If you don't even do such a super small thing as a review, you will basically say goodbye to making a little progress every day. In fact, progress is not a lot of progress at once, but gradual progress, and finally there will be a big progress.