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"Mom, I don't want to go to school anymore".
One afternoon after school, Cheng Yuxuan saw his mother who was still working hard, and blurted out such a sentence.
Cheng Yuxuan's family has always been poor, and his parents rely on farming for a living, and their income is meager. Cheng Yuxuan is the eldest son in the family, with excellent academic performance, and the teachers in the village praise him for his great future.
But Cheng Yuxuan also understands that in order to provide for his own schooling, his parents have spent too much effort. Now, the family has long been surrounded by walls, and he is unwilling to let his parents continue to work for him.
So, he told his mother what he really thought.
Who knows, his mother, who has never walked out of a small mountain village for half her life, told him very firmly:
"Yuxuan, you can't drop out of school. Only by studying hard can you get out of this poor ravine and change our fate. ”
It is precisely because of his mother's persistence that Cheng Yuxuan finally ushered in a completely different fate......
The "supporting force" on the way to school for children
As a mother, the most important thing is to be the "supporting force" for your child's education.
For example, the mother and son mentioned at the beginning of our story are a true story from my life.
With the support of his mother, Cheng Yuxuan continued to insist on studying.
The school is five kilometres from home, and every day it is an hour-long hike up the mountain, crossing several streams and passing through a dense forest. But even in the cold winter, Cheng Yuxuan was never late, because he knew that his mother's expectations were pinned on his every step.
When he came home at night, his mother would always prepare a dim kerosene lamp for him so that he could continue his studies at night.
Whenever Cheng Yuxuan was lying on the table and concentrating on reading a book and doing a question, his mother would quietly walk behind him and gently pat him on the shoulder, reminding him to rest for a while. Despite the difficult conditions at home, my mother always believed that education was the only way to change her life.
Once, Cheng Yuxuan did not perform well in the midterm exam, and when he returned home, he was depressed and even had the idea of giving up.
Seeing her son's frustration, the mother walked up to him, patted him lightly on the back, and said gently: "Yuxuan, mom knows that you work hard, but learning has ups and downs. Failure is the mother of success, as long as you work hard and are not afraid of difficulties, your mother believes that you will be able to do it. ”
Her words carried a warm power, like a spring breeze, smoothing the haze in Cheng Yuxuan's heart.
Since then, every night, she will accompany Cheng Yuxuan, silently supporting him, even if it is just to hand him a cup of hot water or adjust the angle of the lights for him.
In the end, Cheng Yuxuan was admitted to a key university with excellent results, walked out of a small mountain village, entered the city, and achieved a major turning point in his life.
And all this is inseparable from the strong support of my mother. With her love and wisdom, the mother paved a bright path to the future for her son. This support not only changed Cheng Yuxuan's fate, but also made him deeply appreciate the greatness and selflessness of maternal love.
"Judgment" when choosing a mate is difficult
In addition to being the "light" on the road of children's learning, an excellent mother should also be the "military advisor" in her children's lives.
Fang Lishan is a young working woman who has worked hard in big cities for many years and has a successful career. However, her marriage has not been finalized.
Whenever her family urged her to get married, she always felt pressured, especially when she met several suitors with good conditions, and she had no choice.
One weekend afternoon, Fang Lishan and her mother Han Ruolin cooked at home together. The kitchen was filled with the smell of vegetables, and the mother and daughter chatted with each other.
Fang Lishan suddenly stopped what she was doing and whispered, "Mom, a few boys have been chasing me recently, but I don't know how to choose." Their conditions are very good, I am afraid that I will regret the wrong choice in the future. ”
Han Ruolin looked at her daughter's anxious appearance, wiped the water on her hands, walked to Fang Lishan's side, patted her shoulder gently, and said, "Lishan, choosing a mate is a major event in life, and you can't just look at the surface. You have to look at the other person's character, sense of responsibility and attitude towards the family. Those who only have external conditions may not be suitable for you. ”
Listening to her mother's words, Fang Lishan fell into deep thought. A few days later, she decided to take a closer look at the character and sense of responsibility of these suitors. She asked them to meet separately and observe how they behaved on different occasions.
Eventually, she chose a gentleman who would go out of her way to help her in times of trouble, and soon after she entered the palace of marriage.
At the wedding, Fang Lishan looked at her mother with gratitude and said to her, "Mom, thank you." It was your wisdom and judgment that allowed me to find someone who was truly worth entrusting with for life. ”
The happiness of married life also made Fang Lishan more aware of her mother's good intentions.
This shows how important the wisdom and experience of mothers play in the growth of their children. Their judgment is like a beacon that illuminates the way forward for their children and helps them make the right choices at the fork in the road of life.
"Guidance" on the road to employment
In the traditional Chinese concept of success, in addition to "academic success, family harmony", it is also necessary to achieve one point, that is, "career access".
And for children to do this, the power of the mother cannot be ignored either.
The author has a friend named Yang Ziqian.
After graduating from university, he was at a loss in the face of fierce competition for employment.
He submitted a lot of resumes, but he didn't get a few interviews. Yang Ziqian gradually lost confidence and even began to doubt his own ability.
One evening, Yang Ziqian sat on a park bench and dialed his mother's phone in a low mood. His voice was full of exhaustion and disappointment: "Mom, I don't seem to be able to do it anymore. I've submitted so many resumes, but there's almost no response. Am I not good enough? ”
The mother was silent on the other end of the phone for a while, and then said softly: "Ziqian, don't be discouraged. Everyone has setbacks. The key is how we face it. Come back, let's see what's wrong. ”
Yang Ziqian listened to his mother's words and decided to go home. He knew that his mother's advice was always wise and practical. When he returned home, his mother had already prepared his favorite dishes, and the warmth of home made Yang Ziqian feel a little comforted.
After dinner, my mother took out a stack of resumes and cover letters, and said to Yang Ziqian: "Come, let's take a look at your resume and cover letter, maybe we can find out some improvements." ”
The mother patiently read Yang Ziqian's resume word by word, pointing out some problems in details. She advised him to highlight his strengths and strengths, and to concisely describe his internship experience and project results. At the same time, his mother also helped him revise the cover letter to make it more sincere and infectious.
Not only that, but her mother also introduced Yang Ziqian to several career counselors she knew and accompanied him to participate in some job search training courses.
In these courses, Yang Ziqian learned a lot of practical job search skills and gradually regained his self-confidence.
One day, Yang Ziqian received an interview notice from a well-known company. This time, he decided to go all out. Before the interview, his mother specially prepared a decent suit for him and cheered him up: "Ziqian, my mother believes in you." No matter what the outcome is, as long as you do your best, there are no regrets. ”
In the end, Yang Ziqian successfully passed the interview and got the job opportunity of his dreams.
Yang Ziqian's success is not only the result of his personal efforts, but also the crystallization of his mother's wisdom and guidance. His mother's guidance not only helped Yang Ziqian overcome the difficulties in employment, but also laid a solid foundation for his career.
Mothers are the strongest backing in every child's life. The "support" on the road to school, the "judgment" when it is difficult to choose a mate, and the "guidance" on the road to employment are all indispensable forces in the process of children's growth.
These three concentrations not only help children overcome one difficulty after another, but also pave a bright path for their future.
As a good mother, you need to have this kind of firm strength, guide your children with wisdom and love, help them get out of the predicament, and realize their dreams.
Only in this way can our children escape the fate of the "people at the bottom" and have a better future......
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