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My name is Chen Xiaojin, I am a teacher in a primary school in our county, and I have a girlfriend who has been in love for five years, named Su Jing, who is also a teacher like me.
However, her family's conditions were better than mine, so she was assigned to a primary school in the city. As a result, we separated from each other, and the conflict accumulated.
At first, I didn't think it was a problem, as long as we had a good relationship, it could be overcome.
But I never expected that just last month, Su Jing actually broke up with me.
She said that I can't give her the life she wants, and she can't come to live in the county for me. So since neither of us can compromise for each other, separating is the best option.
Su Jing mentioned breaking up with me, I was naturally unwilling, because I still love her very much in my heart, although sometimes, I don't have a good temper and will quarrel with her, but I never thought that I would break up with her.
So I couldn't accept it, so I took leave directly from the school, planning to find Su Jing.
I thought that my appearance could save this relationship, but I didn't expect that it would make me die.
Because I saw with my own eyes that Su Jing was already living with another man.
After many inquiries, I learned that the man was also a school teacher like her, and he seemed to be some kind of leader-level figure.
Su Jing saw me and didn't explain anything, she felt that we had broken up, so she owed me nothing. And she also said that she told me to stop pestering her, she didn't love me anymore.
I left there disheartened, and on the way back, I held back tears, I didn't want to cry, I didn't think it was worth it for such a woman.
But after getting out of the car, I couldn't hold back anymore, so I found a random cornfield where no one was around, hid in it and cried loudly.
At that time, it was the hottest time in the middle of the day, and there was no one outside, so I cried without any fear.
I decided that after crying this time, even if I said goodbye to my past completely, after today, I would completely forget about this relationship.
After crying, I got up and picked up my luggage, intending to walk out of the cornfield, but unexpectedly, I collided with a woman.
I was startled, the things I was holding in my hand had fallen, and I was so embarrassed that I had just cried that I didn't dare to look up at the woman in front of me.
But she recognized me at a glance and called me by name directly: "Xiaojin? Why are you here, it's a hot day, and school is off today? ”
I heard that familiar voice, and quickly looked up, and sure enough, the woman who was talking to me at this time was a famous matchmaker in our village, and everyone called her Sister-in-law Chen.
In fact, Sister-in-law Chen is not very old, she is only 35 years old, but she has dark skin and a strong figure, so she looks a little old.
In addition, her current profession is somewhat weighty, so everyone is used to calling her "Sister-in-law Chen." ”
Sister-in-law Chen seemed to see me coming out, I had just cried, so she quickly asked me with concern: "What's wrong Xiaojin?" Did something happen? ”
In fact, at that time, I was already fine, but suddenly being cared about by Sister-in-law Chen, I felt uncomfortable all of a sudden.
So, in one go, I told her all the things about me and Su Jing.
After listening to this, Sister-in-law Chen kept comforting me, saying that she had actually seen that Su Jing, a woman, was arrogant and inappropriate for me.
I'm a down-to-earth and reliable man, but she doesn't take me seriously, and she keeps bullying me because I'm honest.
She said, for such a woman, it is a good thing that I will divide it early, so as not to delay my good future.
I said to Sister-in-law Chen: "Sister-in-law Chen, don't tell anyone else about today's incident, I feel ashamed and uncomfortable." ”
Sister-in-law Chen smiled and said: "Of course, I, Chen Mei, am not the kind of woman who is talkative, don't worry, what things should be said and what things should not be said, I know very well in my heart."
By the way, Xiaojin, what type of girl do you like, Sister-in-law Chen introduced it to you, I have a lot of good girls here, don't be discouraged, we will definitely find a better girl than her Su Jing in the future! ”
Sister-in-law Chen's words made my heart feel a lot more comfortable.
I said to Sister-in-law Chen: "I know Sister-in-law Chen, but recently, I want to be quiet by myself, so I don't want to find a partner for the time being, let's talk about it later." ”
When Sister-in-law Chen saw me say this, she didn't force me anymore, and followed me in the direction of home.
For the next few days, I was still very uncomfortable, depressed all day, and locked myself in the house.
My parents asked me what was wrong, and I wouldn't say, but they quickly guessed and asked me if I was out of love.
I knew I couldn't hide it, so I admitted it to them, and although my parents felt a little sorry, they didn't persuade me too much.
Just said, since I have no fate with Su Jing, then I have to accept this fact.
After a few days, Sister-in-law Chen actually came to my house, but it was actually my mother who called her, saying that she wanted to introduce me to someone, saying that I would go on like this every day, but how could I do it.
I looked at Sister-in-law Chen, and she also said that she told me to hurry up and find a partner and start a new life, so that I could get out faster.
Although I was reluctant, I didn't want to live up to the kindness of Sister-in-law Chen and my mother, so I could only agree.
Sister-in-law Chen showed me photos of a few girls, and said that the conditions of a few girls are quite good, and they are also very compatible with me.
In fact, I couldn't see anything just by looking at the photos, so I told Sister-in-law Chen, she looked at it and arranged it for me, I can do it.
After that, under the arrangement of Sister-in-law Chen, I met a total of three girls, but we didn't feel very calling, and after chatting with each other for a few words, there was no topic.
In fact, I know that with my current state, there is no way to start a new relationship, so even if I introduce a hundred more, it will be in vain.
My mother saw that I couldn't go on like this, so she found my sister-in-law Chen again and told her to explain me.
That day, Sister-in-law Chen asked me out and said that we should go to the river, so I went with her.
When I got to the river, I asked her why she was looking for such a place.
Sister-in-law Chen said: "Ten years ago, it was here that I almost ended my young life. But fortunately, an aunt rescued me, and after that, I learned to live well and never do stupid things again.
In fact, now that I think about it, there will be many hurdles in life, but as long as you get through it, nothing will stump you. The only person who traps you is actually yourself. ”
It was the first time I heard Sister-in-law Chen tell me this, in the past, I only knew that she was a poor person, abandoned by her parents since she was a child, and then adopted by Aunt Zhao in our village, and then Aunt Zhao died, and she has been living alone.
Because Sister-in-law Chen's legs and feet are not very good, she walks a little sloping, so she is still unmarried.
However, she has been introducing people to others, and she says that this is to accumulate blessings for her future, so she likes this job and feels happy every day.
I asked Sister-in-law Chen: "Have you ever thought about your future and want to find a suitable person to live with?" ”
Sister-in-law Chen smiled and said, "I, I don't have this thought, after all, I have this condition.. People don't look down on it, and they will feel that it will be a drag in the future, so forget it and don't delay others. ”
When Sister-in-law Chen was talking, I actually kept staring at her, although we have known each other for a long time, but today she feels completely different from before.
Sister-in-law Chen's words touched my heart very much, so at that time, I kept staring at her.
I think that in fact, in addition to being a little darker, Sister-in-law Chen doesn't know how to dress up, and her facial features are actually quite beautiful.
The eyes are big and very bright, and the nose and mouth are also delicate and small, and they are very good-looking.
If Sister-in-law Chen can dress up well, it will definitely be a flower in our village.
So at that time, Sister-in-law Chen encouraged me, and I also encouraged her, saying that she was very good, don't be unconfident in yourself, she will definitely meet a good man in the future and be willing to marry her.
On that day, I agreed with Sister-in-law Chen that we should all work hard to be confident and work hard to live for our future.
Strange to say, after that day, I felt as if I was a different person, and suddenly I was in good spirits and full of hope for the future.
I think all this is the credit of Sister-in-law Chen, if it weren't for her tireless and repeated comfort to me, how could I have come out so quickly.
So, in order to repay Sister-in-law Chen, I specially invited her to a restaurant in the city for dinner.
That day, Sister-in-law Chen specially dressed up and wore a plain dress, exposing her legs.
This is the first time I have seen Sister-in-law Chen's legs exposed, I really didn't expect that her legs are so beautiful, thin and white, especially good-looking.
If it weren't for the accident in the early years, her legs had some problems, one long and one short. I don't think Sister-in-law Chen will be able to, she always covers herself tightly.
We had dinner together that day and watched a movie and had a particularly enjoyable day.
In the evening, I went back with Sister-in-law Chen, and when I was on the way, I kept praising her, saying that she would dress up like this in the future, she was already very young, why did she dress up so old, how beautiful she is now.
Sister-in-law Chen was very embarrassed by my praise and kept asking me, "Really?" Does it really look good to dress up like this? ”
I smiled and said, "yes, it's really beautiful!" It's like a different person. ”
After that day, Sister-in-law Chen believed me, dressed and dressed, and her whole temperament changed, and every time she saw me, she was very embarrassed.
As for me, every time I see her, I seem to have an indescribable expectation in my heart, as if I always look forward to seeing her every day.
But our hazy feelings, in fact, are difficult to go further.
But that day, I suddenly learned the news that Su Jing was going to get married, and at that moment, the painful emotions that had been silent in my heart for a long time suddenly surged out again.
I don't know what's wrong with me, when I saw Sister-in-law Chen that day, I actually confessed to her directly, saying that I wanted to marry her and live with her for the rest of my life, and only she was the most suitable woman for me.
Sister-in-law Chen was of course frightened at first, but soon, she was also moved by me.
We did go through some things in the meantime, but the good thing is that the end result is good.
I admit that when I proposed to Sister-in-law Chen, I was a little angry, and it was Su Jing's marriage that stimulated me.
But then, I did think about it.
What kind of life I want in the future is what kind of life, so after that, I am indeed sincere to Sister-in-law Chen.
Now we have been married for three years, our children are one year old, and we are living happily, and Sister-in-law Chen and I have also started a business together after that.
Now that we have bought a car and a house in the city, everyone is very envious of us.
I am very lucky to be able to marry such a good woman as Sister-in-law Chen, she is my lucky star, and she is my lifelong lover.
In the future, we will always be so happy!
Here, I give you my good luck!
I wish you all happiness!