"I'm angry, my niece insists on giving her my mobile phone": Your appearance as a young teacher is really ugly

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2024-07-31 12:14Published in Fujian

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A few days ago, a bride-to-be complained about her niece on the Internet for no other reason than because of something her niece said to her.

The niece first asked if she could give her iPhone 14 promax when she went to the wedding of the bride-to-be, her aunt.

The girl was very puzzled and gave her mobile phone to her niece, what did she use?

Unexpectedly, my niece said that the iPhone16 is out, and she is going to get married, and her marriage partner is still reluctant to buy her a new one? Moreover, she will soon have a child of her own.

The girl took the opportunity to say that it was because she had to raise a child and live, so she wouldn't casually take 10,000 yuan to buy a mobile phone.

Then the niece said something very uncomfortable: "No, you have a child, and your mother-in-law doesn't give you any money?" ”

The girl didn't want to pay too much attention to it, and just said, "I don't know if she will give it or not." ”

The niece said again, didn't my aunt say that she would change her mobile phone at the end of the year, and now she is not long before the end of the year.

The implication is that you can replace it with a new one and give her the current one.

The girl still said that she would not change the mobile phone if it could be used, not to mention that it was so expensive, and she was not at work now.

The niece said that when her aunt went to work and had money, she would not spend the money on her, after all, she was going to have a child:

"You have children, so you have to come with your children."

The girl felt outrageous, and asked rhetorically: "Your parents don't come with you?" ”

The niece began to complain that her parents did not change her mobile phone, and asked her to "take a broken XR every day, and the mobile phone is not stuck".

The girl said that she had no money to change her mobile phone, and it was not her responsibility to change her niece's mobile phone.

The niece said angrily: "You still don't have money, do you?" ”

Again, the girl said, "I don't have any money. ”

At this time, the niece seemed to have lost her patience and said, "If you don't change it, you won't change it." ”

The girl was also enraged: "Is there something wrong?" I don't owe you anything, what kind of attitude do you have? ”

The niece did not show weakness: "What is my attitude?" I'll just ask you if you want to change it. ”

The girl was very angry, she didn't understand why her niece was like this, and even began to wonder whose three views had a problem, she shouted:

"The original family is disgusting!"

02

The niece's rightly cheeky appearance is impressive.

There is a sentence in the hot comments, which has been recognized by many people:

"It feels like someone has been saying that what you have been saying is hers, and she is so reasonable."

Yes, a lot of ideas are the result of subtle thinking. If the elders had been saying similar things to their nieces, it would not be surprising that the nieces would do so.

In the final analysis, it is because of a lack of education.

Because of the lack of education, she didn't understand the reasonable balance between people, and she was willful and selfish in dealing with others.

Coincidentally, she reminded me of another brother who asked his "future brother-in-law" to buy shoes.

The future brother-in-law said that it was the first time he went to his girlfriend's house to meet his parents.

Knowing that his future father-in-law likes to smoke and drink tea, he brought the best tobacco, wine and tea, plus some other things, worth a total of about 6,000 yuan.

The first time they met, his girlfriend's younger brother at the dinner table said to him why his brother-in-law didn't bring him a gift when they met for the first time.

At that time, he drank some wine, and the boy asked his younger brother to find out what he liked, and when the time came, he bought it for his younger brother.

After he went back, he didn't forget, he asked his girlfriend what his brother had picked, and at first they all said that they didn't choose well.

A few days later, his girlfriend told him that his brother had chosen and sent him a screenshot of a pair of shoes.

He didn't know if he looked at it, and he was startled when he looked at it, and after searching it, the shoes cost more than 4,000 yuan.

He felt that it was too expensive, so he asked his girlfriend to ask his brother to change to a cheaper pair.

As a result, the younger brother chose another pair, which was indeed cheaper, but it cost more than 2,000 yuan.

He felt that he was treated as a big wronged seed by his girlfriend's family.

Because his girlfriend's family is not very wealthy, they usually dress up at the level of ordinary people, and their clothes and shoes are hundreds of yuan.

My younger brother is a high school student, and he can't understand that he has to wear thousands of dollars in shoes.

Although his conditions are a little better than his girlfriend's, he is not very rich, and after paying off the mortgage every month, he only has 3,000 yuan to spare, and he can't even think about thousands of yuan of shoes.

He thought that a gift of about 1,000 yuan was already the limit, but he didn't expect his girlfriend's brother to ask for such an expensive gift.

What made him even more disappointed was that his girlfriend's reaction was not salty, she didn't think there was anything wrong with her brother asking for such expensive shoes, and said to him: "If you can't do it, don't agree." ”

She didn't stop her brother's behavior, but felt that her boyfriend deserved it.

Netizens have "persuaded to score", and feel that this sister has the meaning of "helping her brother".

Put yourself in your shoes, if it were me, obviously there would never be such high consumption at home, and my younger brother would be refuted the first time he asked his boyfriend to buy something.

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Whether it is the niece who forced her aunt to change her mobile phone, or the younger brother who asked her future brother-in-law to buy expensive shoes, they all invariably believe that the other party should pay for them.

But in reality, they just love to take advantage.

They put themselves in a very high position, always ask others to help them, never consider other people's feelings and thoughts, and only ask others to do something.

Such people are often selfish and ruthless, they are greedy and short-sighted, and they are not properly educated.

As Liao Yimei wrote in "The Flowers of Pessimism":

"Restraint is an expression of dignity and upbringing, which must be resorted to by the strength of personality."

See the cultivation in the details, and see the hearts of the people in the small things.

Too many people, accustomed to indulging their desires, do their own thing, they don't know that overindulgence exposes the emptiness of their hearts and their own shallowness.

Upbringing is not innate, and if a child is taught by words and deeds, and no one teaches him good habits and knowledge, he must be ignorant and shallow.

Improving one's self-upbringing is actually to start by examining each of one's own subtle behaviors.

Day after day, year after year, I continued to accumulate good habits and quit bad behaviors, and gradually improved my self-cultivation.

Writer Lu Hui once said:

"Upbringing determines the bottom line of life. Above this bottom line, we have room to talk about life. ”

Although upbringing is intangible, it really determines what kind of person you associate with, what kind of job you do, and even what kind of person you aspire to become.

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