#女生问你谈过几个女朋友怎么回答#
First of all, why do girls ask this question?
Some girls are particularly concerned about this; Some girls may just ask casually; Some girls do it as a way to "share" with each other, so as to enhance the all-round understanding of you. No matter what kind of thoughts girls have, boys must not despise this seemingly ordinary and relaxed topic.
Secondly, when answering this question, the boy must also consider the personality of the girl herself:
For example, some girls especially like to drill the tip of the horns, and they can't erase it when they encounter problems, and they always like to rest assured;
For example, some girls are very jealous, and they are inexplicable, which often catches you off guard;
For example, some girls seem to be very arrogant, but they may also be very sensitive and mindful of this kind of thing;
And those normal, reasonable girls don't pay much attention or mind these things.
As a boy, you have different personalities and deal with this kind of problem differently:
For example, if you feel good about yourself, who have always been high-profile, who like to show off, and who are good at boasting, they will regard "having talked about a few girlfriends" as a "record" and will not take into account the feelings of girls;
For example, if there are low-key, cautious, and unassuming things, they will have reservations about this issue and give girls a corresponding sense of security;
For example, if you have a normal heart and a normal heart, you will say something, but you will also be thoughtful and will never put yourself under a dangerous wall.
In fact, answering this question is indeed very risky for boys:
For example, there is a lot of talking. Why have you talked about so many girlfriends? is not too frivolous, inattentive, not long, changing girlfriends is as diligent as changing clothes, that is, there are such and such problems in which aspects, and they are "returned" by their girlfriends every time;
For example, there is less talk, and there are even those who have never talked about girlfriends. Why is this happening? Either there is a problem with his own character, or he has a problem with his personality, at least he is not favored and welcomed by mainstream girls.
Of course, there will be diametrically opposite interpretations:
Talk a lot. If you have more experience, you may know how to cherish it more, you may be more mature, and you may be able to give yourself better guidance;
Talk less or even "white". Such a boy may be more innocent, more pure, less worldly and charlatan; It may be easier to be handled by girls, or they can grow together.
So how do you answer a girl's question "How many girlfriends have you talked to"?
Unless you have insight into your girlfriend's mind and her personality, you know how to answer. If you don't know how to answer, you might as well copy your homework and refer to Hunan TV's blind date program "If You Are Honest, Do Not Disturb", those boys who came up to introduce their emotional experiences almost all said that they were three. This should be a good example. Do you want to-
When the stuffing is exposed, it can be interpreted as important that there are three paragraphs, and the others are just a blind date, a meal or just a few days of contact, and those must not be counted.
I've talked about three girlfriends, no matter what kind of girl it looks like, it may be no more, no less, just right.
It's just that in reality, those boys who are too high-profile will classify the girls they have only met on a blind date as girlfriends who have talked about it, and they will say that they have talked about more than a dozen of them, or some boys have indeed talked about so much. Then, the future of the boy's relationship with his current girlfriend is estimated to be uncertain, and he has to resign himself to fate. Because in this case, girls usually feel that they are living in the shadow of the boy's many ex-girlfriends, and no matter what the boy does, he is missing an ex, replicating an ex, or seeing his current girlfriend as an ex. Then this relationship will never be peaceful......
So, about the question of how many girlfriends you have talked about, you must answer it with a good brain, and you can't be too rash.
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