In 1982, Wang Xinling was born in an ordinary family in Hsinchu County, Taiwan. Fate did not treat this little girl specially, and she had a very difficult time in her childhood, just like a realistic version of the Cinderella story.
The parents quarreled constantly because of financial pressure, and finally ended the marriage in a hurry in a mess. The mother took the little Wang Xinling to live, while the father took away the younger brother. However, soon after, the father, who was bankrupt in business, "throws" his younger brother back to the mother and daughter, and leaves alone.
In order to raise two children, the mother had to work several odd jobs at the same time, so the family lived in poverty, and the shadow of poverty always hung over the family. In the most difficult time, a family of three even had to share a small bento.
The burden of life overwhelmed my mother, and the long-term stress caused her to have a mental breakdown, and she could hardly work and live normally.
The saddest thing is that because of the torture of mental illness, the mother always beats and scolds Wang Xinling, and the hardships and unhappiness of life are vented on her daughter. However, the young but sensible Wang Xinling did not resent his mother, but learned to understand and take responsibility early, and took on the responsibility of supporting the family and taking care of his younger brother.
In addition to the difficult living environment, Wang Xinling also has an indelible scar in his heart - the lack of father's love. For years, she has longed to find her own father's love. However, when her father reappears, he uses his daughter of fame as a springboard to seek his own interests.
Although many people persuaded her to take her father to court, Wang Xinling finally chose to forgive.
Under the tempering of a difficult childhood experience, Wang Xinling gradually shaped a tough and weak character. She has learned to hide her pain with a smile and to respond to the malice of the world with sweetness.
When she was in elementary and junior high school, she was never loved, so she gradually learned to trade forbearance and compromise for apparent peace and stability.
This experience laid the foundation for her success in the entertainment industry, allowing her to show a uniquely sweet light on stage. However, this experience also caused her to suffer repeated setbacks in her relationship, adding to the twists and turns on the road to future love.
Wang Xinling's love life is really a tragedy that walks around. Behind her star career, the road to love is full of ups and downs and bitterness.
Her first love was a boy from the same school. They had only been together for two months before they broke up because they found out that each other had hidden other girls' things in their room. Despite this, the young Wang Xinling still has hopes and longings for love.
However, the real challenges await later. Wang Xinling met Fan Zhiwei and started a hidden relationship. She is full of longing, believing that she has found the true love that will accompany her for a lifetime.
However, the relationship turned out to be one of the most painful experiences of her life.
What's even more heart-wrenching is that Fan Zhiwei is still unwilling to let go of Wang Xinling five years after breaking up with her. He suddenly posted intimate photos of the two on social media, claiming that he had always loved her.
After making this promise, Fan Zhiwei, who was originally unpopular, gained huge attention and tasted the sweetness, he intensified his efforts, publicly showing off that he had twice abused Wang Xinling in public, and also broke the news about her privacy on the show, and wantonly framed her for chaos in her private life.
In the face of such humiliation, Wang Xinling did not make any counterattack. She was like a little girl who was powerless to fight back, with tears in her eyes, just blaming herself for being deeply in love and spineless. This forbearance and concession may be because she experienced a lack of love in her childhood, which made her willing to exchange her humility for the possibility of a trace of love.
Her relationship with actor Yao Yuanhao also ended in tragedy, and Yao Yuanhao's relationship with his ex-girlfriend caused Wang Xinling to be infamous as a "third party", which in turn affected her acting career.
Yao Yuanhao chose to escape and did not explain a word for her, and what is even more chilling is that half a year after the breakup, the private photos of the two were made public on the Internet, which attracted widespread attention and discussion.
This turmoil undoubtedly dealt a devastating blow to Wang Xinling, and her reputation fell to the bottom when she had a bright future. As a result, her concert was withdrawn by sponsors, and her popularity plummeted.
was once a sweetheart leader, but now she has become an outdated actress that no one cares about.
However, even in this case, Wang Xinling still insists on maintaining her ex-boyfriend's face. She said that her relationship with Fan Zhiwei was "vague", and he could claim that he was single; As for Yao Yuanhao, she also said that there is no need to take legal action and that there is no need to send him to prison.
This kind of kindness, which is almost masochistic, makes people feel distressed and helpless.
Wang Xinling's low profile in her relationship forms a strong contrast with her shining light on stage. She struggled every step of the way in love, and was even willing to sacrifice her career and reputation.
This extreme contrast may reflect her innermost contradictions and struggles.
However, when people chewed on the gossip about the star's fall from the altar, few people stood up to say a word of justice for her: "Shouldn't you be ashamed of the person who maliciously spreads other people's privacy and cheats on domestic violence?" "Wang Xinling's story is not only an emotional tragedy of a star, but also a microcosm of society's unfair attitude towards women.
In 2022, Wang Xinling participated in the program "Sister Lang" and celebrated her 40th birthday like youth, and her singing "Love You" evoked the youth memories of countless people. She wore a student uniform, tied a high ponytail, and sang with a full open microphone, and the sound quality was like a CD, which made many "middle-aged male fans" instantly return to their youth, and posted posters, magazines and photos that have been treasured for many years.
However, Wang Xinling's popularity was unexpected by many people, and the program team did not expect it. In the first episode of the show, she had very few shots and a very weak sense of presence. However, her performance won the hearts of the audience, and fans even began to organize votes for her.
40-year-old Wang Xinling is still sweet, but more calm. She reconciles with her "sweet" image, as if the time that has passed is just a sweet dream. Her story teaches us that even after going through the storm, we can stay true to ourselves; Even if you have fallen, you can get back up.
As her lyrics sing: "Where will I go on the next page, with how much courage, all the wind and rain in my dreams, I am not afraid that it will be my test question."