After Jin Jing officially announced her pregnancy, she has been working hard.
This made many netizens sigh that they really watched her pregnancy all the way.
In fact, she is the same as us ordinary people, she has to work when she is pregnant, and she will also suffer some physical torture, such as morning sickness.
Two recent events have happened around her pregnancy that have changed the way some people think about her.
When she announced her pregnancy, she was interviewed.
In the interview, she said that she would not make a big deal about her marriage, because if she is in love, she will break up, and if she gets married, she may get divorced.
But she is happy to share the matter of having children, because children will always be her own.
Even if you are the only one, you have the ability to raise your children.
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Her words are called sobriety by everyone.
In fact, behind this sentence is to love yourself well, and all your decisions must be that you want to do it.
Recently, she posted a 7-month pregnant belly photo, and she is also in very good condition.
So many people will also be curious about her marriage, when did she get married?
In fact, she did not have a wedding, and she answered this question in the latest interview.
Not having a wedding is because she doesn't want her relatives who don't really wish her to come to the wedding.
Because her father was not in good health, her mother's salary was also a drop in the bucket, so her family had been living on subsistence allowance since she was a child.
When her career finally got off the ground, she used her own money to buy a small house for her parents.
At that time, when her relatives saw it, they just said contemptuously, "Just live here."
The disdain in her words stung her even more, and in the eyes of those so-called relatives, it doesn't look good that you can't afford to buy a mansion even if you become a star.
But when Jin Jing's career began to become popular, those relatives began to sour again.
In fact, having a wedding is to make yourself and the big guy happy, which is a happy event.
But if the person who came didn't really bless you, then she didn't need this ceremony.
One of the issues that adults always face is the loss of their parents.
Let those who are not genuinely good for you leave your normal life.
When we were children, our relatives were not chosen by themselves.
But as adults, we can choose our relatives, who may not be related to us by blood, but who are with us all the way.
Friends are family members of our own choosing.
Liu Shengying is the sister that Jin Jing found for herself.
The two were college classmates.
debuted together to act in sketches and comedies, giving everyone the feeling of being confident and lively.
Actually, it wasn't like that at first.
Jin Jing, like many of her friends, grew up in a family that likes to educate with frustration, which makes her feel a little inferior.
So she will be a little withdrawn and often alone, but Liu Shengying will take the initiative to care about her.
Liu Shengying's confident and cheerful personality infected her and made her realize that she was also very good.
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The two were once happy because they could go to the Spring Festival Gala together, but they didn't expect Liu Shengying to be temporarily replaced.
So Jin Jing called out her name at the beginning of the sketch.
Although she herself did not attend the Spring Festival Gala, everyone knows that Liu Shengying's efforts are also involved.
The two of them graduated from college and worked while doing comedy.
In order to fulfill their dreams, they quit their jobs together and concentrate on comedy.
In the show, Jin Jing saw the magpie make a wish.
Liu Shengying asked her if she could help her, and Jin Jing replied:
"What is promised is about us."
When Jin Jing's resources are getting better and better, many people think that they will drift away.
But Jin Jing will take Liu Shengying to various programs.
Jin Jing once said that she needed someone to accompany her on the road to chasing her dreams, and Liu Shengying has always been with her.
Friendship sparkled through them.
I have heard a saying: distant relatives are not as good as close neighbors.
When we do encounter something, others may not really be able to help.
Sometimes it's the people around you who can help you.
The video begins with a woman holding a child.
Those who don't know will think that this is a mother holding her child.
In fact, this woman is the owner of this store, and the child is her employee.
An employee said that his child was too young to be taken along, and the boss said directly after knowing it:
"Bring it to work in the store, and everyone will bring it for you."
The boss also fulfilled his promise with his own practical actions.
She bought a small sofa and put it next to the employee's desk for the child to sleep.
Not only that, but other employees will also help with the children after work.
From the time the child slept on that small sofa at a young age, the child grew up when he fell asleep.
At present, the child is six years old, and the small sofa can no longer sleep.
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The comment area is very warm:
Such a boss deserves to be rich.
A leader who can empathize with employees will not be loved by employees.
There was also a mother in the comment section who had a similar experience.
Because the child was small and no one took it, the boss also asked her to bring the child to the company.
The children are also very sensible, and the colleagues are also friendly.
Sometimes it's too busy to eat, and the boss will take the child home to eat when he sees that the child hasn't eaten.
When you are genuinely good to others, others will also remember it and give back to you with practical actions.
I have also seen stories like this:
The protagonists of the story are employers and live-in aunts.
After graduating from college, the girl became a live-in aunt, and her employer was a family of three.
Girls are not only responsible for their food, clothing, housing and transportation, but also take care of their children's education.
She is very measured, remembering who she is, but at the same time being genuine.
She will remember everyone's preferences and will remember the wishes of the little girl in the family.
Recently, I saw a video, which made countless netizens feel emotional.
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The girl prepared a small gift for the employer's family, announcing the good news:
She saved the first 200,000 yuan in her life.
In fact, the good is mutual, and the employer's family also regards her as a home.
She earned all this money at her employer's house.
When she first arrived, her employer gave her a room that a little girl would like.
I will buy her clothes regularly, and I will also take her on summer vacation trips to Europe.
Many people are good to us because of blood ties, but some people also see blood ties as bargaining chips.
Who we can be friends with as adults and what kind of people we choose to be with.
Breaking off our relationship is not for us to break off all relationships, but for me to sort out my heart and not hurt my mind for irrelevant people.
We need to understand that the only person who can really take responsibility for us is ourselves.
Ditching distractions and living a good life in the moment is what we should do more.
There is such a line in the movie "Sex and the City":
Sometimes a rose is just a rose, and if it's jewelry, that's a different story.
When we treat each other as jewels, relationships only become more intimate.
If not, don't force it.
It's enough to live your own life.