# The bride with a special appearance caused controversy, and the groom's indifferent response was chilling
At the wedding, a bride without a chin was in the spotlight, causing a lot of discussion. The groom's indifference in the face of doubts makes people sigh: why bother? Is love really just about appearances?
Hello everyone, I'm Xiaowen, 28 years old, working as a copywriter in an advertising agency. I come from an ordinary working-class family to factory workers. Although my family is not very wealthy, my parents have always loved me and given me a warm home. After working for a few years, I have achieved a little bit and my life is quite stable.
To be honest, I never thought that one day I would be the main character at the wedding, let alone become the center of discussion because of my looks. Yes, I don't have a jaw, it's a birth defect that I've been carrying since birth.
I remember when I was a child, I was often laughed at by other children because of my appearance. At that time, I always hid in the corner and cried secretly, not understanding why God did this to me. My mother always comforted me and said, "Xiaowen, you are the darling of God, he gave you this special look, just to make you a special person." "
As I grew up, I slowly learned to accept myself. Although I occasionally feel uneasy because of other people's strange eyes, I tell myself that beauty is not only about appearance, but more importantly, on the inside. I work hard, treat others well, and hope to prove my worth with my abilities and virtues.
I met Xiao Ming at a company party. He is the technical director of our company, he is very handsome and has a very cheerful personality. That night, he took the initiative to talk to me and didn't show any unusual expressions because of my appearance. We talked very speculatively, from work to life, from ideals to reality, as if we had known each other for a long time.
Since then, we've been in frequent contact. Xiao Ming always brings me happiness and makes me feel like an ordinary person, and I no longer feel inferior because of my appearance. Slowly, we fell in love. When Xiao Ming proposed to me, he said, "Xiaowen, I love you as a person, not your looks. Your kindness, intelligence, and strength are what I appreciate the most. "
I thought I had finally waited for my true destiny, but on the day of the wedding, everything changed.
On my wedding day, I put on my dream wedding dress and put on elaborate makeup. I don't have a chin, but I feel like I'm still the most beautiful bride. However, when I walked into the wedding scene holding my father's hand, I heard the chatter all around me.
"Oh my God, how does the bride look like this?"
"Is this bridegroom blind?"
"You can't marry her for money, right?"
I felt my heart sink a little bit. I stole a glance at Xiao Ming, hoping to get some comfort and support from him. However, all I saw was his indifferent expression. He didn't even look at me, he just went through the wedding process mechanically.
I felt like a joke throughout the wedding. Those relatives and friends who were supposed to bless us were whispering and looking at me with strange eyes. I tried to keep smiling, but my heart kept crumbling.
After the wedding, I finally couldn't help but ask Xiao Ming, "Do you regret it?" "
Xiao Ming glanced at me and said lightly, "No, I just feel a little tired." "
That's it? I felt a tingling in my heart. How I wish he could hold me like he used to, tell me not to care about other people's eyes, and tell me that what he loves is who I am. But he didn't say anything, just turned and walked away.
At that moment, I suddenly understood. Maybe from the beginning, Xiao Ming didn't really accept me as I was. Maybe he decided to be with me on the spur of the moment, or out of sympathy. And now, in the face of everyone's doubts, he chose to remain silent.
I sat alone in my new room, looking at myself in the mirror. How I wish I could have a chin at this moment, a so-called "normal" face. But I knew it was just a dream that would never come true.
I began to think back to the moments we had together. Has Xiao Ming been pushing himself? Has he been trying to convince himself that he doesn't care what I look like? Thinking of this makes my heart hurt even more.
I don't know how to face my life in the future. We were married, but it seemed destined to be a mistake from the start. What am I going to do? Do you continue to pretend that nothing happened, or do you file for divorce?
I remembered my mother's words: "Xiaowen, you are the darling of God, he gave you this special look, just to make you a special person." "Maybe it's time for me to really be someone special. A person who is brave enough to face reality and dare to make choices for his own happiness.
I decided to have a good talk with Xiao Ming early tomorrow morning. Regardless of the outcome, I am responsible for my own life. I can't allow myself to live forever in the eyes of others, let alone allow my marriage to be based on sympathy and reluctance.
This marriage may have been a mistake from the beginning. However, I believe that life will always give us a second chance. Perhaps, one day in the future, I will meet someone who truly loves me and accepts me. Until then, I have to learn to love myself and accept myself.
Because I understand that true beauty comes from within. No matter what I look like, I am a person who deserves to be loved. I will continue to work hard, be kind to others, and prove my worth with my abilities and virtues. I believe that one day, I will meet someone who truly appreciates me.
As for those who point fingers at me, I want to say: why bother? Everyone has their own imperfections, so why judge others by self-righteous standards? Is love really just about appearances?
Each of us should learn to respect and treat others with kindness. Because you never know what other people's lives have been through. Perhaps, it is the people you consider "imperfect" who are the strongest and bravest people.
This experience strengthened my determination to live my own life. I will continue to smile, continue to be kind, and keep trying. Because I know that true happiness does not come from the approval of others, but from my own heart.
Ladies and gentlemen, what do you think about this? What would you do if you were me? Welcome to leave a message in the comment area, let's explore the true meaning of love, marriage and life together.