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Wow! In the summer of 2018, 18-year-old Ding Nannan was admitted to a prestigious school, which should have been the highlight moment of an ordinary family, but unexpectedly a time bomb was detonated.
This girl who just got the admission letter actually stood on the side of her father Ding Chengzhi and forced her parents to divorce!
And her mother Tong Li's attitude is even more amazing: "Only widowed, no divorce." "
What kind of god operation is this?
How many untold stories are hidden in this seemingly ordinary family?
Let's turn back the clock to more than a decade ago and see what the family's love origins really were.
It is said that Ding Chengzhi was a super scholar in the village, not only admitted to the university, but also became a people's teacher in the town.
This is simply someone else's child! The proper rich and handsome character design has made many village girls secretly agree.
But who would have thought that this scholar was a complete rookie in love, and he wouldn't even confess, let alone hold hands and kiss.
Seeing that his peers are in pairs, Ding Chengzhi is still alone, so anxious that his parents nag every day, and he can't wait to post a "marriage notice" on his back.
Just when Ding Chengzhi thought he was going to be a single dog for the rest of his life, the goddess of fate finally favored this poor straight man.
Tong Li is also a teacher, and she fell in love with Ding Chengzhi at first sight at the teacher training meeting, and that scene was even more bloody than an idol drama.
It didn't take long for the two of them to get married, and the speed was so fast that even they felt incredible.
A year after marriage, the little padded jacket Ding Nannan was born, and the family looks very happy, which is simply the standard script of a winner in life.
But it didn't take long for the good days to come, and the problem came, and the script began to run wild in the direction of dog blood.
During Tong Li's confinement, Ding Chengzhi's parents didn't even send an egg, which made Tong Li feel very uncomfortable and felt like an outsider.
What's even worse is that it was rumored that Ding Chengzhi complained that he gave birth to a daughter after drinking, which made him unable to hold his head up in front of his colleagues.
Although Ding Chengzhi denied it, this incident became a thorn in Tong Li's heart, and she couldn't pull it out of the pricking in her heart every day.
Since then, Tong Li's temper has become more and more irritable, and she is angry with Ding Chengzhi at every turn, and that scene is comparable to a world war.
Ding Chengzhi is also a coward, he swallows his anger every time, and even handed over his salary card to Tong Li, which is simply a textbook for strict wife control.
But instead of alleviating the contradiction, this kind of forbearance made Tong Li even worse, as if she had opened Pandora's box.
Sometimes Ding Chengzhi was even kicked out of the house, and he could only spend one night in a small shed on the roof of the building, living a modern version of "Peacock Flying Southeast".
The couple's contradictions are like a time bomb that may detonate at any time and blow the family to pieces.
In the smoke of the "world war" of his parents, little Ding Nannan grew up in such a daze.
For as long as she can remember, Tong Li's high-decibel roar and Ding Chengzhi's forbearance have become the background music of her childhood, comparable to the rock scene.
Little Ding Nannan often thinks: Why are other people's mothers as gentle as goddesses, but their own mothers are like powder kegs that will explode at any time?
As he grew older, Ding Nannan began to learn to think, and gradually stood on his father's side.
Whenever Tong Li was angry with Ding Chengzhi, Ding Nannan would stand up to defend his father, which was simply a mini version of the lawyer.
However, instead of Tong Li's understanding, this behavior attracted more scolding, as if another fuse was ignited.
"I worked hard to pull you up, and you didn't think about me!" Tong Li's words are simply more lethal than a nuclear bomb.
But human nature is really complicated. Although Tong Li has a short temper, she is very attentive to Ding Nannan's learning.
Not only did she buy a mountain of teaching aids for her daughter, but she also tutored her personally, which was simply possessed by a tiger mother.
Under Tong Li's high-pressure policy, Ding Nannan's academic performance has always been among the best, and he can be called a fighter among the top students.
It can be said that Ding Nannan is like a sandwich cookie sandwiched between his parents, both tasting the sweetness and feeling the bitterness.
While enjoying her mother's love, she feels sorry for her father's situation, and this tangled psychology can be made into a youth idol drama.
This ambivalence reached its peak when she was 18 years old, as if a volcano that had been dormant for many years suddenly erupted.
In 2018, Ding Nannan was admitted to a well-known medical university with excellent results, which is simply an open life.
What should have been a good thing to celebrate with the whole world became the last straw that broke the camel's back, pushing the family to the edge of the cliff completely.
When Ding Chengzhi filed for divorce again, Ding Nannan stood on his father's side without hesitation, as if a small warrior had made a major decision.
I'm afraid that even Ding Nannan himself didn't expect this scene. She had vowed to protect her father, and now she finally had this opportunity.
But is she really ready? Faced with this complicated family situation, can the 18-year-old withstand this pressure?
18-year-old Ding Nannan stood on his father's side, and this scene completely detonated Tong Li's emotional bomb.
She yelled angrily, "Since you don't need me anymore, let's get out of this house together!" "
This sentence is simply more lethal than a nuclear bomb, and instantly pushed the entire family to the brink of collapse.
Tong Li's anger seemed to have broken the strings of reason, and she actually hid Ding Nannan's college admission letter.
This trick is really ruthless, it is simply to use Ding Nannan's future as a bargaining chip to blackmail Ding Chengzhi's father and daughter.
Although Ding Nannan said that he didn't care about whether he went to college or not, he had already panicked in his heart.
Ding Chengzhi is even more anxious like an ant on a hot pot, how can his daughter's future be ruined like this?
Moreover, the salary card has been in Tong Li's hands for many years, Ding Chengzhi's wallet is cleaner than his face, and he can't come up with enough money to pay for his daughter's tuition.
The family is in a dead end, as if all three of them are on the edge of a cliff in a tug-of-war, and no one wants to let go.
At this moment, the mediator appeared, almost like a rescue soldier from the sky.
They patiently listened to the three of them, as if they were listening to the script of a family ethics drama.
The mediators also saw Tong Li's efforts for this home, and the clothes that Tong Li carefully selected, washed, and ironed were even more neat than the exhibits.
The teaching aids she bought with her daughter were piled higher than a hill, and they were all silently telling her dedication.
Through the efforts of the mediator, the family finally began to confront the root of the problem, like oiling a rusty machine.
It turned out that Tong Li's violent temper was likely due to postpartum depression that was not treated in time, and this discovery was simply a stroke of genius.
And Ding Chengzhi's blind forbearance, instead of solving the problem, let the contradictions accumulate deeper and deeper, like pouring salt on the wound.
With the joint efforts of everyone, Tong Li finally agreed to see a psychiatrist, which was a huge breakthrough.
Ding Chengzhi also promised to participate more in family affairs, instead of blindly evading, and finally graduated from "strict wife management".
As for Ding Nannan, she finally understood that the conflict between her parents was not a one-sided fault, and began to try to look at her mother with a more understanding eye.
In the end, Tong Li reluctantly handed back the admission notice to Ding Nannan, which seemed to untie the family's dead knot.
Although the divorce matter has been put on hold for the time being, the family seems to have found a new balance, like a retuned instrument.
This family crisis has made all three of them grow a lot, as if they have experienced a baptism of the soul.
After experiencing this family turmoil comparable to a world war, the three members of the Ding family seem to have evolved a lot.
Tong Li began to learn to control her emotions and no longer transform into a Super Saiyan at every turn.
She began to experiment with deep breathing, meditation, and even signed up for yoga classes in an effort to become a "Buddhist mother."
Ding Chengzhi is no longer the soft-footed shrimp who can only nod his head.
He began to take the initiative to communicate with his wife, and sometimes even used earthy love words to amuse her, which was a small blessing between an old husband and wife.
As for Ding Nannan, a young newcomer who has just stepped into the university campus, she has a new understanding of life.
She no longer simply divides the conflicts between her parents into black and white, but has learned to look at family relationships with a more inclusive mindset.
The story of this ordinary family is, to put it bluntly, a microcosm of thousands of Chinese families.
Every family has a scripture that is difficult to read, but as long as we are willing to let go of our preconceptions and open our hearts and communicate, there is nothing that we can't pass.
But then again, Tong Li's cruel words of "only widowed, no divorce" are jokes or truth?
Only time will tell.
Many years later, they will recall this past at the golden wedding banquet, look at each other and smile and sigh at the magic of the years.
After all, life is like a box of chocolates, you never know what the next one will taste like, but each one is worth savoring.
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