The problem of singles in the rural areas has not been solved, and three strange phenomena have appeared, which makes people feel incredible.
In the case of the rapid development of society, the problem of singles has stagnated, not to mention others, in our village with a population of several hundred, there are twenty or thirty older young men of marriageable age waiting to marry, and the rate is increasing unabated every year.
Those elderly grandfathers and grandmothers feel strange, in the past, grandparents around forty years old were not wanted, but now they are still single in their 30s, and their wives don't know where they are. It's really a bad parent, one step at a time.
This singles problem has not been solved, but the three strange images in the countryside have reappeared.
These three strange images are related to every family, and even complain bitterly, always feel that the times have progressed, people's minds have also changed, this is indeed a change, but it has become incomprehensible, the first strange like a rural person even if he marries a daughter-in-law, it is equivalent to marrying a young grandmother, not sleeping at night and not being able to afford the day, cooking in the morning, calling over and over again, and the meal is hot again and again.
Even after getting up, I saw that I didn't like my appetite and ordered takeout, and the parents dared not speak out, I couldn't speak, I couldn't scold, and I couldn't beat it, for the sake of money, I spent more than 100,000 or 200,000 yuan when I married back, and if I was unhappy to run away from home, how could it be done, buy and buy every day on a certain treasure, and get the express delivery to get soft, the key is to buy it and don't like it, just throw it away, and the mother-in-law is simply in the eyes, and the pain is in the heart.
It is said that the daughter-in-law has finally become a mother-in-law, and the day of her emergence has come, but I don't know that the hard days have really begun, and the mother-in-law has gone back to being a daughter-in-law, and the daughter-in-law has become an evil mother-in-law.
The second strange image, there are more and more elderly people in the countryside, looking at it, the whole village is basically the elderly, unless it is the New Year's festival when the young people will be more, the pressure of life has to let the young people go far away, the place at the door of the house can not support the home, this is also a helpless move, take the old people out, the economy is not allowed, the fields will be barren, plus the old people are not willing to go out, young people are not worried about the old people at home, fortunately, the network is now developed, basically will install a camera at home, can observe the movement of the elderly at any time, Buy a smartphone for the elderly, turn on the video to see them, chat, fortunately, there is a little comfort, and they are often told in terms of safety, which is the only thing young people can do.
The third strange phenomenon, the bride price routine, we all know that it is difficult to get married now, the bride price is a roadblock, less than 100,000 more than 300,000 400,000, for an ordinary family, it is undoubtedly an astronomical amount, but now some women specialize in exploiting the bride price. Use the bride price to cheat marriage, there is a man in the village next door to us, who spent 380,000 bride price, almost emptied all the savings of his parents, less than two months after marriage, this woman found various excuses to quarrel, and finally was forced to break up helplessly, resulting in a chicken and egg fight, Later, I heard that she was married to another man and divorced again, isn't this a typical fraudulent marriage? I believe that this is not the only one of us, and it has been reported by all major media.
This phenomenon has led to many people not daring to get married casually, once they step on the snake, they are afraid of the well rope for ten years, and they are afraid that if they encounter a cheating marriage, this life will be over.
In view of the above three situations, we hope that the countryside will become better and better, and we also hope that the farmers can live a good life and no longer be troubled by these three strange images.